i used to feel a bit bad about the fact that i had never had an even slightly sexual dream about my partner (my first), but i didn't overthink it. however in the last year or so, i've had several (probably 4 or 5 at this point) sexual dreams about someone else who i know through my partner, the only person i've had sexual dreams about at this stage in my life, and now i've started to see this issue more seriously. is this just my brain playing tricks on me?the person i've had these sexual dreams about is not someone i'm close to, i've never flirted with them or anything, in fact i tend to get quite stiff and overly polite when i have to be around them.
>>33890177As a man I jerked of thinking in my gf's while and after the relationship ended. All of them.You probably don't feel sexual desire for your partner.But sometimes a relationship it's much more than physically feeling sexual attraction.But you should be aware how things are and your personal situationship and if you want to continue and how. Good luck.
>>33890204Ty. and I did at the start, but I guess along the years that has started to go away with them gaining weight. It's not a dealbreaker to me (gaining weight to some degree) so I wouldn't leave a several year long LTR because of it, but it has affected my attraction. I guess some attraction is there though because I still find my partners face attractive in general, just not the body.
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I believe dreams exist so your brain can stimulate itself and experience things outside the usual realm of possibility without fucking up your entire life. I think it would be stupid to interpret your comfort with your partner as unhappiness.
>>33890777hmm i guess so, i've never really subscribed to the idea that dreams are meant to tell you something. but it has had me wondering why i've kept having the same kind of dream about a specific person when that never happened to me before. and most of my dreams involve me being stressed out about waking up late or being late somewhere. and then waking up and being in a bad mood lmao.but yeah thanks for your insight anon.
>>33890799Np brother. Imo stuff like that can be a bit like anxiety where if you try to reason with it or stop thinking about it, it comes back or gets worse
>>33890829*brother/sister i suppose
