>let people do nice things for you>Dont do nice things for them.Ive been living the opposite way of this my entire life. Ive been nice over and over to people who treat me like crap because im so lonley and just wanted friends. Ive been "friends" with low life pieces of shits just to have someone to. talk to.My advice is never be nice to anyone. Even if they are nice.If you are nice for even one second they will eat you up so fast. Dont turn your guard down. Especially to your family
>>33890222BEGONE, YOU EVIL CREATURE OF THE DARK! YOU WILL NOT CORRUPT ANYONE HERE!
>>33890222>Ive been nice over and over to people who treat me like crap because im so lonley and just wanted friends.So you just did everything wrong.And apparently still are doing it.Where has it got you? Enjoying it?
>>33890222Family isn't the best, and friendships are temporary. Life is life, but your mentality is close to what's within a low trust society; this is fundamentally third world and similar to the global south, the more you behave like this, the more you're closer to an Indian, and your vibes will not match up with people on the hope pill, I hope your life gets better. Help other people, get your reputation up; I don't really believe in kooky shit like God, or karma, or reincarnation, but word spreads if you behave like a miser. My advice to you, is to grow up, good luck, and don't wish this on your children.
well you have shit friends and your shit friends were shittheres also something called boundariesknowing who to be nice to and how nice you want to bethe majority of people you meet dont give a shit about youits about finding the select few that actually doiv been friends with people for years, and every one has has is different with how close they are to me personally and with how much they actually respect yousome people dont want to get close, others just want to get close for entertainment only get close to people who actually want to and respect youI thank god im not a fucking women, because women tend to just want to talk shit and pretend to like you
>im so lonley and just wanted friends>Ive been "friends" with low life pieces of shits just to have someone to. talk to.What a degenerate. Please remove yourself so I don't have to look at you.
>>33891108>its about finding the select few that actually doSo much this. People are not all the same, filter for the good ones, even if it takes time and energy. Absolutely worth it.Goes for romantic interests too of course.
>>33890222>Ive been living the opposite way of this my entire lifeyouve been mind broken by a shitty childhood
what shit advice. being nice is just a way of communication. physically doing things for others goes beyond that. when it comes to communication, being nice costs nothing and gives you control over others. read "how to win friends and influence people"
>>33890222Gullible people switch between niceness and paranoia all the time, because they are incapable of picking up on social manipulation tactics. Also, you're nowhere near as "nice" as you think you are. If I'm being courteous, I don't expect jack shit in return, not even a "thank you". I do it because I consider it the proper thing to do. You do it because you want people to think you are something you aren't. They refuse to fall for your little nice-guy charade, and what a surprise, your nasty petty bitchy attitude reveals itself.
Be kind but take no shit on hood.
>>33890222I'll stop being a doormat before Thanksgiving and Christmas.
>>33890222Being nice will to the WRONG people will kill you.
