It sounds like you’re feeling frustrated and maybe a bit isolated in dating. Physical traits like eye bags or cup size are **not what make someone truly attractive** to the right person — confidence, personality, and how you carry yourself usually matter much more. Stressing over features you can’t easily change just adds pressure.

If your goal is to meet guys who are genuinely interested, start by **building social circles and doing things you enjoy**. Shared hobbies, college clubs, online communities, or local events are all places where you can meet people organically. Being around people who like the same things as you naturally creates connection.

About older guys — some can be more mature and patient, but age alone doesn’t guarantee respect or compatibility. Focus on people who treat you well and show interest in you as a person, not just sexually. Red flags like the one you mentioned in the past are huge signals to avoid someone.

Finally, consider **self-care and confidence work**. Sleep, exercise, and small routines that make you feel good can reduce things like eye bags and help you carry yourself in a way that draws positive attention. Confidence and authenticity are far more attractive than any single physical feature.

If you want, I can give some **practical ways to start attracting healthy interest from guys** without changing who you are.

>>33890398
get involved in irl activities, go to festivals, concerts, etc. (don't drink if you go alone tho). have a "thing" and try to be around others irl who are into that thing as well. most men nowadays seem to prefer approaching irl only once they've known the woman for a bit.

>>33890405
Please rewrite this post in the style of a humorous 4chan "greentext"

>>33890398
You have to get out there and meet people.
Going older can get you a higher quality man because he is willing to settle a little for youth.
But some men also never grow up so it depends.

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>>33890398
>only have c cup boobs

The concept of femcels is completely bizarre to me. Women literally only have to be alive to find someone to have sex with them, and sometimes even that is unecessary. OP I would fuck you based only on the details you have given us, sight unseen, and I am not even an incel.

>>33890398
I'll be your boyfriend, are you white?

>>33890572
>slurs
probably not.

Nah i am white it was mainly the r slur cause i have autism

>>33890658
Sounds like that guy is the one who was retarded. He could have got sweet 19 year old pussy and he fucked it up because he couldn't keep his mouth shut.

>>33890572
No I'm Mexican but Ill be your gf.

It is honestly so simple for women.
> looksmaxx
> quietmaxx
> nicemaxx
> socialmaxx
The only hard parts are looksmaxxing and socialmaxxing, but even those are basically just doing some daily things for your appearance and getting out of the house around people. Other than that, all you have to do is be nice and quiet.

>>33890398
Dude there are so many young femcels on this board, I am about to dox myself and start treating this place like a dating app.

>>33890681
They're all trannies.

>>33890938
Nah i happen to have a pussy i wish i had a dick tho

>>33890938
All the males here are trannies, not the xx chromosome women. So many feminine males these days ngl, you should rope already.

>>33890515
It’s usually a very bad personality. I know several femcels and they are gross. Burp, fart, dress poorly and openly complain about everything including men. Women do not have to be physically attractive at all. All they need is it be pleasant. The more positive and bubbly even a 4/10 can score a Chad with that attitude

>>33890953
I'll share mine with you, but you can't let your parents find out

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>>33890398
>>33890678
>Mexican
Found the problem.