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How fucked do you think you are if it was very apparent you searched a married women's computer for nudes?
on one hand she is a swinger hippy, on the other her husband is probably gona kick my ass

there's a chance they won't notice, but I cant fucking remember if I closed the file explorer before putting it back to sleep.
so for all I know file explorer just has her shit open or theres a video/picture open

also they know im the only person who would of been there to do it, so i cant even blame some one else
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That’s a rough situation, and the best thing you can do now is stop trying to cover it up and start taking responsibility. Snooping through someone’s private files—especially intimate ones—is a serious breach of trust and could cause real harm to both relationships and reputation.

You can’t undo what you did, but you can prevent it from getting worse. The first priority is to **not touch their computer again** or try to delete or edit anything. That would only look worse. If they confront you, own up to it directly, admit that it was wrong, and apologize without excuses. Trying to lie or deflect will just make it more damaging when the truth comes out.

If you’re worried about violence, stay away from the husband and don’t go back to their home or workplace. If confrontation feels likely to turn aggressive, you can contact someone neutral (a mutual friend, HR if it’s a work situation, or even local authorities if you feel unsafe) to help mediate or keep you physically safe.

Take this as a serious lesson about privacy and impulse control. It’s uncomfortable, but the only productive move now is honesty, distance, and reflection on why you crossed that line so it doesn’t happen again.
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>>33890400
Mildly fucked, depends on your relationship with them. If they aren't close friends, like, who cares of they're angry. It was a kind of shitty thing to do however
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>>33890400
>>33890402
>>33890635
>MIUUUHHHH MORALLLS
just so whatever you want
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>>33890400
that's just a retarded situation to be in in the first place, anon
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>>33890646
CRAAAAWLING IIIIIN MY SKIIIIIIIIIIN
>>33890635
>If they aren't close friends, like, who cares of they're angry. I
well i think the idea is they might retaliate against OP somehow
but yeah, situation seems vague and retarded
>>33890402
AI spammer is still here after 2 yea
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>>33890400
Lol. Just say you're in therapy for a porn addiction and if the dude assaults you you can always report him to the authorities
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>>33890400
I know this is totally just a crazy, unrelated thought here, but I just can't ignore what my gut is telling me... OP, are you by any chance an indian? (Dot, not feather)
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>>33890400
Are you talking about your mother or stepmother?its slightly better if its hour stepmother - just say to your dad she came onto you when he comes to kick your ass.
If its your blood mother, deny to the fucking grave. You have no idea what theyre talking about
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>>33890635
I kinda shittly justified shit like
they probably sent to a lot of people who ended up sharing it with other people and have it posted on some hook up social media
im also supper in different to shit happening to me, so it took longer to cross my mind they might be super pissed and not just weirded out like I would be
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Still need an answer on your indian status, OP. Your silence is concerning
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>>33890693
friend/neighbors wife, they asked me to take care of there dogs
>>33890752
no im not indian
i just know the chick would have freaky shit, and i am a porn addict so searching random shit online doesnt do anything for me any more
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>>33890785
I hope you reflect on the fact that your behavior is not distinguishable from that of a motherfucking god damn indian. Regardless of what that lady or her man does to you, this shame alone should compel you to change your ways.
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>>33890796
true
but are you guys telling me in the only person on this autist site thats done anything remotely like this?

/advice/ always has a autist making a thread asking how to treat women like shit or asking why are women upset when they are treated like shit
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>>33890848
You're saying you came here to get asspats from someone as autistic and fucked up as you?
You're spiritually an indian, don't bother showering
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>>33890864
or you know for other autist to say what happened when they got caught doing this shit
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(op) the only good news is now that iv done it, i dont actually want to get more shit from them now.
I was more excited from how i thought it would make me feel then how it actually made be feel

if I get caught i was thinking of bringing that up so i dont seem obsessive and it was more about the thrill.
even though they have no interest in me, hope they dont pull the pissed that a man you dont care about doesnt care about you shit
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>>33890400
Some losers husband shouldn't be able to do such a thing to you, but then again if you had the strength maybe you wouldn't go snooping for nudes in the first place.. a Strange World indeed isn't it!
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>>33890400
chances they won't notice + chances they'll ignore = pretty good
just pretend nothing happened
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How do you end in that situation, first of all?
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>>33890400
You are fine. It's not like you fucked his wife and killed their dog. You are probably overthinking it. Don't worry about it
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>>33890400
Fuck any other issues. Did you find nudes? Share them.
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did you ever think about taking the entire laptop home with you?



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