Every match I've had on dating apps, even ones I've talked with for months at a time I've eventually ghosted and deleted my profile because I'm convinced that everyone is either totally indifferent or hostile towards me.I know the reason for this is because of me being bullied in primary school, abandoned by all my friends in middle school and isolating myself from everyone else in high school. How do I not let cliche excuses like that from ruining my life?
>>33894493Go out on the streets...... and fuck a gilf
First step: STOP THINKING ABOUT IT.Second step:Realize life / people suck including ourselves whether we keep our shit internal or have the physical dominance to put that shit on others openly. You're smart enough to know life's a game. Big strong ape with more bananas is favored in society because of fear / respect for accomplishments.You may have some handicaps as everyone does, even the big strong ape, but you need to become as big and strong of an ape as you can be without turning into an asshole.Eat better (Ben Greenfield), go to the gym and get yoked, take a walk in nature, work on your social skills even if it feels like rubbing your balls on sandpaper, do what you already know you need to do and chemically / all around you'll start to feel like a champ. Third step:Understand for every ten piles of shit, there's at least one pile of shit with sprinkles. Trust your intuition.. and filter out people / women you don't vibe with. Doesn't mean only hang with "nice" people, just people you get along with well enough, share similar interests and genuinely enjoy the company of. Also, those are the people you need to keep around and learn to deal with their flaws / bs.Fourth step:Cut people some slack including yourself. People, especially today, are always on guard and can come off as being stand offish. Break through that, and find out if they're a pile of shit w sprinkles. Don't endlessly dig through shit though, it shouldn't take that long to see if someone is a potential friend / partner.Fifth step:Understand no matter what, you're gonna fall on your face, get punched in the jaw, maybe even get "divorce raped", but if you want the future you dream of bad enough you just have to get up every time and keep moving forward. Worrying about that shit is only going to manifest it more; and if you improve yourself enough you'll learn to better avoid situations / women that may result in a crash.Final step:Never give up. You've got this brother.
