I think I'm in love bros. What nou? it's my coworker and I don't wanna her to call human resourcers.
The last time I fell in love it was when I was in highschool aka 14 years ago.
>>33895395Really simple. Talk to her a bit in the morning with not a lot of people around and ask her if she wants to get lunch. if she says yes she's interested. if she says no she's not interested and you shouldn't pursue it. if she says maybe another time she's just debating and you have to show her you're cool somehow before she wants to.
>>33895929this probably>>33895395get it over with so you can figure out what to do next
>>33895929I don't know. I am in the same position as OP, and invited a coworker out to lunch and she accepted. She wants to go out more with me but I can't help but feel I am just a work boyfriend.
>>33895984after a few weeks of lunch you have to move it to dinner somehow so you can get drinking involved. tell her you have a busy day and cant do lunch but can get a bite after work. then take her to a decent restaurant, casually order a drink, and ask her if she wants anything. get her as drunk as possible and at least kiss her at the end of the night. if she doesn't drink still order one beer but thats it.
>>33895395do it outside
>>33895395Instigate the replacement of Human Resources with AI.
>>33895395Youre probably not in love youre just horny and lonely. Two things you can do1.fuck a whore or go to an amp and get it out of your system2. Pretend to be a normal human being, ask her out, get rejecte, then move on
>>33895929>if she says maybe another time she's just debatingThis is cope. Anything but yes means no
>>33898110>Youre probably not in love youre just horny and lonelyBut I don't think about her in a sexual way. I'm in comfort when I'm with her.
>>33898114some women actually enjoy being pursued. that's the whole difficulty of itone woman's harrasser is another woman's bold and confident suitor
>>33895395>I don't wanna her to call human resourcersyou ugly
>>33901065I think I'm a 6/10 but I have a very low self-esteem.
>>33895395Just send it. I had a massive crush on a girl i work with. We were alone one day and i just told her that i needed to get it off my chest and if it wasn’t reciprocated then it never had to be brought up again. She was cool about it and it actually turned into a very insightful conversation. Im currently seeing her and we talk everyday outside of work. Stop being a pussy and shoot your shot.
>>33901065Yes. Does that mean I should give up? Same situation as OP.
>>33902026>>33901065no, people have given good advice in the thread. If she says no to lunch, just distance yourself. its no grounds for hr complaint. Otherwise just rape her
