>>33896127
You're so delusional, you'd still be an incel even if you had all of those "qualities".

>>33896127
only two of these things are true

She wants you to have social skills, be on an upward trajectory in life and to be low inhibition enough to do things like call her out on her bullshit, tell her no, walk away from her, etc. Literally everything else is negotiable

Who cares. Work a job and fuck hookers. Life is so chill and easy once you stop giving a fuck about these meaningless social games.

>>33896127
Imagine you have an extrovert best friend. A person who's very outgoing, has an active circle of friends, charming, and takes control of the situation.
When you're with him, he takes you around places, he leads conversations, he introduces you to other friends, and treats you nicely. You'll probably want to be around him, you're free to be a submissive person towards him because he makes you feel safe socially. The entire experience of being around him is exiting and addictive.

That's more or less what women want. You can even get away with being a shy introvert, as long as you make a woman feel the pleasant experience of being feminine.

Now, imagine you have this very extroverted friend I talked about at first, no matter how tall, fit or whatever, except that he decides to go on 4chan to post about his insecurities, and how no one likes him, and he gets aggressive towards you when you don't give him affection, and starts getting insecure about himself. In this scenario, he produces the opposite effect, doesn't he?

Looks > Height > Money > Fitness

That's all it takes.

>>33896202
wait which two

>>33896617
Looks is a bit ambiguous and "Face" would be more accurate.

Also, Face > Height > Fitness > Money

>>33896666
>"Feel safe"
>listen/be empathetic

>>33896677
Marry me

>>33896676
>Fitness > Money
No women in their rich mind would pick fitness over money, as long as the guy is not a fatass. Women don't care about muscles, men do. Men thing that getting muscles will make them look better, but look at all male models, all of them are skinny, tall, and most important, handsome.

>>33896617
>>33896676
Being fun and horny > all of that

>>33897216
troon detected

>>33896677
Let me chain you to a weathered stone wall with really cool hardware

>>33896127
That list isn't realistic anon, it still fits on my screen.

>>33896127
>>33896268
Unironically this. Do not give up on dating forever, just stop giving a fuck about "what women want" and do your best to enjoy your time here. The right woman will like you for who you are and should not be a drain on your enjoyment of life, only an additive to it. This is YOUR life anon, do and be who you want, and if a good woman comes your way, that's great, but if not, being single can be really fun and fulfilling if you fill your time with the right stuff.

>>33896531
>when you're with him, he takes you around places, he leads conversations, he introduces you to other friends, and treats you nicely. You'll probably want to be around him, you're free to be a submissive person towards him because he makes you feel safe socially. The entire experience of being around him is exiting and addictive.
I can't even imagine doing that with a lady, just going out to anywhere that isn't some specific errand or a worksite stresses me the fuck out

>>33896531
>That's more or less what women want.
A fucking tour guide who pays for everything?

Well that would be fucking fine if they were willing to do anything in return without running for the fucking hills once you have to inevitably take a break from reading the tour pamphlet and show a tiny ounce of genuine human emotion because you aren't the perfect un-moving in-fallible rock she demands as the fucking rock-bottom standard.

>>33896127
>Women have no idea what they want, anon.
My mother taught me that when I was a kid, and she is consistently proven right. Just be a strong man and the Almighty will lead you in the right direction.

>>33902274
>Just be a strong man and the Almighty will lead you in the right direction.
NTA but fuck you and your "everything will just work out" BULLSHIT.

>>33901655
Yeah, because you think staying in your house is a hobby.

>>33902015
>Well that would be fucking fine if they were willing to do anything in return without running for the fucking hills once you have to inevitably take a break from reading the tour pamphlet and show a tiny ounce of genuine human emotion because you aren't the perfect un-moving in-fallible rock she demands as the fucking rock-bottom standard.
Sounds like she wasn't into you to begin with. Women make excuses for men they're attracted to all the time, anon. You're just dealing with women who don't like you.

>>33896666
tall and handsome. Everything else is utter fucking cope. No we aren't attracted to your Pokemon cards or the fact that you walk a dog.