Hi /adv/ I need help on what to do about this situation I find myself in.>My best friend went to a different country recently for an internship. >His ex-girlfriend currently lives in the city he was staying in. >His current girlfriend knew this and asked him if he had any desire to meet up with her while he was out there. >He told her he didn’t and had no plans to do so. >My memory is hazy but I think he implied that his girlfriend would be okay with him seeing her for a platonic lunch but I could be mistaken on this. >In any case he confided in me that while he was out there he was in constant communication with her to get her recommendations on things to do while in the city. >So much so that she essentially became his guide for a while and they ended up having dinner together and exchanged gifts with each other in appreciation. >The whole situation really disgusts me. >He doesn’t see it as cheating but does feel some sort of guilt because he did not disclose this to his girlfriend when he came back. >My conflict stems from the fact that I didn’t tell her about this because he means a lot to me and it was said in confidence. >His girlfriend is an incredibly kind, adventurous, intelligent, beautiful, and brave woman who’s always pushing herself. >Frankly, after getting to know her over the course of a year I found myself having developed a crush on her.>She's secretly the motivation behind why I started doing certain hobbies and improving my physical health and looksmaxxing.>We’d exchange texts on the daily and she would ask me for advice regarding her own life and her thoughts on her boyfriend. >In fact there was a conversation where she asked me about his negative traits and how she should handle them. >Out of respect to my friend I told her to work through the issues in their relationship even though I inwardly believed it best for her sake to not be with him.
>Anyway I have found myself unable to speak with either of them and have slowly distanced myself over the last few months because my heart yearns for her and my disdain for his actions grows.>However I feel as though my disgust stems from jealousy instead of concern for her wellbeing.>Truthfully it’s been enough time from when he confided his secret to me that I now wonder if bringing it up now would essentially prove that I’m doing this to drive a wedge in their relationship as from what I’ve heard it’s currently doing well with no public issues.>But I feel as though a lie like this can’t be left uncovered and a large part of me wants to tell her what I know even if she’s currently content in the relationship.>Also there’s no way for me to know if she was actually all that against my friend meeting up with his ex.>Maybe she was okay with it or would be okay with it given that supposedly nothing physical occurred.>My friend has been trying to hang out with me and I’ve rebuked him at every opportunity with the excuse that I am isolating myself for mental space which is partially true I suppose as I have developed a hate for my friends.>I know for a fact that he’s the type to disparage stuff like this and most likely has complained to our mutual friends about this and most likely even to his girlfriend.>I believe this to be the case because she reached out just a couple of days ago asking me how I am doing and lamenting that she hasn’t heard from me in a long time.>Before this we hadn’t exchanged any conversation or texts for almost a half year.>So I know for a fact he’s complained about my absence to her and I feel that telling her all this now will only serve to make me feel better and I’m not sure if that’s okay.
I suppose all I'm asking at this point is if it's worth telling her what I know? Or should I just let it be and remove myself from their lives?
who gives a fuck? Never stick your bose in other people's shit.Do it anonymously, at least
>>33898270That's fair. I suppose it's none of my business. I just wish I had done something sooner. Doing it anonymously is probably out of the question as it will lead her to question everything and won't have anyone to really confront or discuss it with. FUCK MAN. I hate myself for developing feelings. I'd rather have remained uninvolved.
dae enjoy cheating? Not the act of cheating but the knowing you both cheat on eachother make it more hot?I feel like my generation either is with the normie chad gf bf relationship or with the super pimped out cheaters povTbh i find it so annoying seeing couples that are so attached by the hip, its like their being gay without even tryingLike if your gf says she likes to fuck black guys to your face but you two are still datingThat's why i think dating apps have more options for relationship types (ethical non monogamy, etc) you can still have fun and not be a complete cuck
>>33898201Stay out of it. As the messenger of bad news you will be hated by EVERYONE
>>33899260This. Also bros before hoes. Hoes come and goes, bros is harder to come by.
>>33898201>Doesn't know how to use green textHow can this get any replies?
lusting for used goods is insecure and pathetic. At most have sex with her and move on with your life lmao
