So I got cheated on by my now ex-girlfriend, and one thing that perplexes is why was she crying and so regretful when I decided to break up?I thought our relationship was perfect - appearently it wasn't, so they decided to cheat, so why were they bawling their eyes out when I said I want to break up?Isn't this what they wanted? Now they can fuck anyone they want at any time without remorse or risk, why are you crying that I am giving you that freedom?
>>33898283how are you doing post breakup anon
>>33898283https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNKIjLLZMWs&t=67
>>33898289Actually, horrible - it has already been a month and not a single day goes by without thinking "we could have been doing this together" as we did a lot of stuff together and basically shared each other's worlds.Me longing for her has even affected sex as I couldn't get hard when I tried to have sex with someone. Atleast they were very understanding of my situation and we cuddled until we fall asleep.My only copium is that something better awaits for me, but the chances of finding a perfect match (maybe not so perfect, ha) are really starting to look grim as I approach my 30s.
>>33898297>it has already been a month>Me longing for her has even affected sex as I couldn't get hard when I tried to have sex with someone.That is insane but understandable. She was probably crying because it would be hard for her to find a new man and realised her grave mistake was because she couldn't control her lusts. As a woman approaches her 30's, her value slowly drops down. It's the opposite for men. Would you ever take her back?
>>33898297I've never had a girlfriend but i've been in a situation where i lost a whole year worth of income becuase i gambled it all away on a meme stock.- I could've helped the poor- I could've gave it to my family- I could've bought the most stupid stuff and it would still be worth more Guilt is a natural reaction but it's a terrible emotion if you let it destroy you. Nothing in life matters beyond being a good person, and even if these things show otherwise, they are far gone, they can't be brought back.Live for today, live for the future, not the past so DO NOT let guilt overcome you. The best advice for now is to repent for anything you've done wrong, otherwise you won't be able to move forward, godspeed.
>>33898301>Would you ever take her back?I did forgive her at first, maybe out of desperation to keep her (keep in mind I found out first, she didn't confess to me).After explaining the situation to my parents and some of my close friends they unanimously agreed that I should immediately break up, which is what I did.I do not want to be labeled as a cuck for the rest of my life.There is no point in taking her back as I think the fully blind trust that I had in her is gone. It wouldn't be the same.
>>33898283she's only crying because she got caught.Why is she doing this?Because she lost her meal ticket and Chad sure as shit won't be paying for dinners or dates.t.happened to me last year, thanks ex wife
>>33898368>she's only crying because she got caught.That is always the answer.
>>33898368>>33898377This
women can't stand being held accountable for their own actionsShitty situation my friend, but good thing you left the little slut
>>33898297>only one month breakup>already having rebound sex as a maleGet the fuck out of here, normiescum
>>33898283Maybe she lied anon. Confront her then move on. You are probably lacking closure
>>33898297Youre already hooking up with hoes after a fucking month and you have the gull to complain. Fucking normalfags, man up bitch
>>33902085Tbh your right. Anon is doing the same thing his whore ex is doing. Their made for eachother
>>33898283That's actually common and usually how these situations go. She probably does really like you, she's just impulsive so she fucked another dude and probably does regret it. However, she definitely would've done it again if you stayed with her, people like that almost never change.
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you have to understand the cheating mindsetIt's hot for her to cheat on you, it's a thrillNow that it's just normal sex, it's not hot anymore, it lost the thrill
>>33902176Hi
>>33902085>>33902129WTF is OP supposed to do? Wallow in despair and cry in a corner for months before even starting to date again?Once your partner has cheated, it is instantly, irrecoverably over, the faster you move on the better.I for one am glad OP is getting pussy after a breakup, good on him for not spiraling down a depressive path.
>>33902165Cheaters don't actually feel guilty about their actions, either
>>33898301>As a woman approaches her 30's, her value slowly drops down.Slowly? Her biological clock is almost out of time, she's likely going nuts."Theoretically possible on paper anecdotally that one time for one person to get pregnant at 40" does not mean its a smart plan. She's probably already waited too long.
>>33898368>she's only crying because she got caught.Big toddlers and little toddlers are all the same.
>>33898297How do you hop to someone so quickly yourself, anon?Do you not see the similarity in your actions to hers?
>>33898283Anon, do yourself a favor and not dwell on anything other than you chose badly. There are plenty of people who wouldn't cross the line. Ever. Crying can be inappropriate, such is laughter at a funeral, or it can still be basic rejection. You do you.
>>33898283>why was she crying and so regretful when I decided to break up?Women have the expectation that they have no responsibility for their actions and that there should be no consequences for those actions, basically that they can fuck around endlessly and never find out. This was the moment she realized that there would in fact be consequences. It's not fair to anybody. Women shouldn't have so much responsibility, because they're not competent or equal. Unfortunately for all, society has told them that they are equal and responsibility is thrust onto them anyway, albeit in more limited ways than a man. They don't actually understand what that means because it's entirely incompatible with their nature, and so they behave much the same as they would otherwise in the meta sense, that is, without responsibility, while they're local actions become increasingly degenerate as they learn the boundaries. By the time they do learn those boundaries they will be used up eggless old whores of no function or value to anyone. It's an offense to the natural order, really.
>>33905015I was loyal fully during the relationship and actually straight up refused advances from 4 other girls, clearly saying "I have a girlfriend, I am not interested".How am I on the same level as a "cheater" that I tried to have sex with someone after breaking up?
>>33906702>>33906702Anon she probably had twice as many offers as you did if not more before cheating, even worse if shes moved on. Chad or not shes a women. They always have more than us. There's always someone better than you and her out there.>>33905015
>>33906702Explain how she cheated anon?
>>33898283>she>they>theyerm pick a pronoun...
>>33898283Wish I could help youIt's been over a couple years and I still think about her. Though new girls and time dull the pain.Hugs brother
>>33906702Anyone who says they were loyal isnt loyal. Kek
>>33898283What did you do to her anon?
>>33906732Maybe anon dated a tranny.
>>33906731Found her kissing another dude.I confronted them right on the spot, the other dude was an absolute Chad in looks and his first words were "Wait, you guys are not in an open relationship?">authors note: we were fucking notI think that is enough to break up with someone and consider them a cheater.
>>33906784Kek anon they kiss eachother in other countries on a daily basis. Its not even cheating, grow a pair and move on. NEXT
>>33898283>girlfriend>they>they>their>they>theyShe cheated because you're a pussy who's afraid to just call her a woman.
>>33898283>girlfriend>they/themMake better bait
