How is getting a girlfriend supposed to happen for most? Is it>Go to uni class>Accumulate boredom>Look at the girl with big tits and tease her>Alternative: She gets angry, tease the ugly looking fatty instead>Girl crumbles and overshares>Tease for a week>Weekend is coming but you're bored>Invite girl to kick cans with you in the park>Get drunk without thinking of consequence>Make out, repeat cycle, fuck Is it like this?
>hey could I get your number?>Maybe we could hang out sometime yeah?
And then, is the reason that you can't get a girlfriend from some point onwards is that the sequence can't follow because>You're out of uni and can't ignore responsibility>You're now a NEET and the responsibility of getting money is always in the back of your mind>You were bullied so the thought of bothering someone for fun comes off as evil>You got immersed in anime and porn so much you stop paying attention if people are not top beauties>You had to rely on your own so either your way to spend time doesn't involve more people or now you don't know how to make space for them>upbringing makes you see drinking as morally bad and harmful for brain cellsIs this it? Maybe it really isn't in the cards to get a girlfriend?
>>33899400Yes, but i don't know if you can execute this. I certainly couldn't.
>>33899432>upbringing makes you see drinking as morally bad and harmful for brain cellsYou're actually supposed to rebel against your parents. It's healthy.
>>33899400Are you attractive? Then it will just happen.Are you unattractive? Then it will never happen no matter how hard you try
>>33899452100 IQ take. Highly attractive males can be single if their mind doesn't work correctly. Unattractive males can have girlfriends if their standards are low enough.
>>33899400>feel overwhelming drawn to pussy>realize that you can’t actually do shit on your own forever>risk it for the biscuit until you find a woman who wants your dick inside her and understands a future isn’t something that just happens and requires work>filter out or have the ones who think 26year old Chad Shagmaticus Esq. III, competitive swimmer and billionaire tech ceo actually exists and will sweep them off their feet>>33899411FPBP
>>33899438Indeed. The problem comes when parents are too perfect and normally reasonable, so when they bullshit you it's successful gaslighting, and you can be functional enough and blame society for your luck all the way until the consequences are impossible to ignore. At the point im in my dad died already, my mom is emotionally dependent on me, and seeing me mull over it and actually call her out on her parenting mistakes puts on her stress that she can't handle and only makes them suffer.Maybe it really is on the cards that some people will have to suffer and get to the starting line late. The thing is how do you rehabilitate those without telling them the usual crap of "reframe what happiness is lmao, you were never supposed to be happy in the first place, back to being productive wagie!"
>>33899474*have them filter themselves out
>>33899474>>filter out or have the ones who think 26year old Chad Shagmaticus Esq. III, competitive swimmer and billionaire tech ceo actually exists and will sweep them off their feetSo filter out literally every woman in existence?
>>33899475>you were never supposed to be happy in the first placeThis is actually true though. Lasting happiness is impossible. Core buddhist concept. Life is inherently unsatisfactory.
> go partying> be nice to people> wait until a girl with i-can-fix-you complex notice you're autistic and approaches you> play along
>>33899475You’re still blaming yourself when you know goddamn well your parents fucked you over? What is this Stockholm syndrome bullshit
>>33899482You can read minds?
>>33899452I am attractive and had girls in the past approach me, but I looked like an autistic drugged kid.Now my hairline is receding, I still behave like a scared autistic school shooter, i still hold beliefs and do hobbies that are hard to identify with (what's average for this site in tastes of music, movies etc is wholely different from daily life societies).Could I pull off a thirsty single mother looking to settle down? Sure, but that wouldn't satisfy me, at one point I would cheat her with a young escort to feel young and desired. That kind of person is hard to accept for anyone.
>>33899494It's more like you can't build anything with hating parents. You CAN build it if you blame parents as a teenager, and that sets you on another direction in life where you prevent further damage. You make hating parents your identity and you group with parent hating peers. If you didn't hate your parents, you were sent on a one-man mission to satisfy your parents, then you learned after graduating at 26 or something the path they wanted was self-indulgent for them, you can't build anymore. There's no parent-hating clubs in any workplace. No, you have first-time parents clubs instead, everyone sharing pictures of their 4 year old and so on. Being angry at the world only helps when the timing is right.
>>33899532>No, you have first-time parents clubs insteadYes there is. 50% of the time a woman has daddy issues, the other 50% of the time she loves her dad.
