>Be white incel loner in a very multicultural (see, brown) city>To find a purpose and a community where i could belong, joined a Mosque. The local Sheik and everyone else welcomed me because they basically workship any white converter>Found a super cute virgin muslim girl>Parents would be very happy to give her to me as a wife (end of inceldom, great)>BUT, their trusted Sheikh told them they shouldnt marry their daughter with a convert that bear a unappropriate (makruh) name unfit for muslims>So they said "take an arabic converter name, or we cancel the marriage real". The father even proposed i should adopt his name, that tho i dont likeMy Sheikh is on my side, and we will bring this issue on the local sharia court, as he claims my birthname is not makruh and thus its not a good justification to nullify the marriageBut its really worthy the efforts? Should i just change my name and enjoy my virgin wife?
you can't be punished for makruh. fasakh is just for haram
>>33906528No. Full stop.I’d rather you become an atheist than a Muslim. This is coming from a Christian. (Obviously don’t become either of those, but being Muslim is far worse).There are one of two ways this goes down with respect to religion:>You become authentically Muslim and believe a religion with a holy book that directly contradicts itself (see Islamic Dilemma for more info), written by a pedophile warlord who is borderline worshipped by Muslims (despite the hadiths of the ZUTTED narrative or other morally objectionable situations he was in), by his own admission showed no signs to prove his authenticity as a prophet (despite every true prophet before him doing this to authenticate themselves), and claimed to receive his revelations from an angel always when he was alone where there could be no eyewitnesses to corroborate his testimony.OR>You enter a watered-down version of Islam where the few core tenets of the faith’s morality (morals on homosexuality, marriage ironically, the Hajj, timed daily prayers, etc) are compromised to dissolve into today’s secular society, where your religion becomes nothing but an identity marker that people judge you by from the actual religion, even when you don’t believe those things in practice. It becomes as disposable as any other novelty and loses its meaning, like how a lot of Christian and Jewish denominations have fallen.If you really love your fiancé enough to marry her, then take her with you and convert to LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE. It’s a harsh recommendation but I can’t in good faith give one of anything else.
>>33906528No cause thats fucking stupid.
>>33906614>idol worshipping polytheist thinks his opinion matters
>>33906645AL ZUTT!
>>33906605So i am in the right? I Indeed i have the impressione my (potential) future father in law is trying to mog me. Hes know among the community to put arabic nationalism above Islam.>>33906614I didnt post asking advices to choose my Faith. I already settled that the religion sent by Allah (PBUH) by his prophets (PBUT) its the only real one. So stick to my actually request, thanks >>33906631Yea i think so. But i hope the court will agree with you. My birthname is after an Angel and accord to most scholars they are allowed names for muslims, albeit uncommon.I can AT BEST accept to start use their arabic translation equivalents, as arabic was the language choose by The Almighty (PBUH) to bless mankind with his Holy Quran. But outright change it to another one? No way in Hell!
>>33906528if you're actually a Muslim and your name is fine(i.e john or jesus, jacobe or whatever) ignore them, if your name is something wrong(i.e dickfaggot, stone worshiper etc) then you have to change your name regardless of the marriage>because they basically workship any white converterbe careful of such statements because they have may association with god in them which is a big sin(shirk)
>>33906614>polytheist wants people to become atheists rather then believe in godlmao'ing at you
>>33906528assalam alaykum, based brotheryour new islamic name shall bemuhammad al'anon in'cel djihadialhamdullilah
>>33906733As i said, i am named after and Angel of Allah: in the version of my native culture/languages and not in arabic of course. But my mentor said its completely fine and my potential father in law is just acting like a nagger because hes also kind of a arab nationalist (kind shirk-ing, but nobody is perfect i suppose ) and thus think all muslims should only bear arabic names
>>33906849>As i said, i am named after and Angel of AllahI'm not a scholar so i can't comment on that desu, it may go in or out of the category of forbidden names, with that being said, a possible "middle" path i can suggest is to change your name to something like jacob or John if worse comes to worse(not arabic so you don’t kowtow to the father and also solves the whole issue)>>33906849>But my mentor said its completely fineas i said, I'm not a scholar, i can't comment on the issue from a religious perspective >and my potential father in law is just acting like a nagger because hes also kind of a arab nationalist (kind shirk-ing, but nobody is perfect i suppose )if he's as you say then he's wrong, may god help you in dealing with him(potentially for the rest of your life) akhi>and thus think all muslims should only bear arabic namesthat's clearly wrong.anyways good luck.
>>33906528Surely regardless of who's technically right, pissing off your in-laws is just a bad idea? Why don't you go through the motions of changing your name, but then still go by your old name apart from when with your inlaws?
>>33906930>>33906956I really like the daughter he and his wife proposed to me: a 10/10 (for me) that among unbelivers as i was back in the days would had just ghosted me I still hope to convince him that his obsession regarding my personal name is stupid while keeping good terms
