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Where do you find non normie girls irl?
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>>33923504
i would say maybe STEM classes of some kind
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but that's vague as hell
i've met a few online who are completely focused on academia pretty much
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>>33923504
i said this in another thread but everyone goes to grocery stores even neets and femcels so i just spawn camp the entrance for sub5 women then ask them out.
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>>33923573
How do you not get kicked out of loitering
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>>33923573
How do you go and ask them out?
How do you approach them without it feeling like harassment?
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>>33923573
i would think you'd get arrested for this
probably a glowie reply
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>>33923589
I mean, I like sorta wander around a bit, I dont just stand and stare at the entrance.
>>33923592
>"Excuse me, I think I know your boyfriend."
>"Huh? I don't have a boyfriend."
>"Nice to meet you then, im anon. Can I have your number and take you on a date sometime?"

Half the time they have literally never been asked out before and get all flustered even though I'm a straight 5/10 dude. The other half the time they have a boyfriend and then I just treat them like an elder scrolls npc and walk away purposefully.
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>>33923619
i guess someone is gonna try this, then when it goes horribly wrong you can get them in a death cult?
i'm just glad all our support structures were replaced with internet r/relationshipadvice interlopers
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>>33923663
What do you mean im putting them on game
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>>33923504
Where non-normies hang out (we don't hang out anywhere in public and stay at home as much as possible).
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>>33926355
What about bookstores or libraries or that?
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>>33927011
You hang out at bookstores and libraries?
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>>33923504
All Women Are Normies
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Barcades
Conventions
Grocery sto'
Gas stations
Shooting range.
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>>33923504
CPUSA
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>>33927049
In spite of being 50% of the population women make up 85% of normies.
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>>33927384
accurate
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>>33927384
What do women do other than listen to music or watch a TV show or gossip about some random fuck
This... feels like a miserable existence
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>>33923573
>>33923619
lmao
which grocery stores do you recommend?
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>>33927447
>What do women do other than listen to music or watch a TV show or gossip about some random fuck>>33927447
Secretely think a lot about sex and jerk off when super bored
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>>33927517
Yeah they all read yaoi
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>>33923573
How successful have you been?
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>>33927569
0% success rate cuz im also sub5 itll work someday tho.
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>>33927509
idk i just go to walmart
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>>33927701
Bro.. what did they reply with usually
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>>33927447
i play vidya, read books and draw. life is fun when (You) aren't a boring whiny faggot
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>>33927708
>>33923619

Well if they dont have a bf its usually something like
>"Uh.... no"
>"Im lesbian, sorry"
>"Leave me alone"

And then when they do have a boyfriend they'll ask me how I know their boyfriend in response to my pickup line and then I just walk away.

I dont think it's completely over for me, Im low bf% and 6'1, my face is just straight up not attractive. Just gotta keep trying, yknow?
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>>33927733
>"Im lesbian, sorry"
Kek
Well, yknow anon, I respect your hopepill, and I wish you the best of luck. I hope you get a 10/10, God bless you you beautiful bastard
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>>33927711
animal crossing + life is strange are not vidya
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>>33923504
Bumping this thread. I also seek a non-normie woman. So tired of the type that just goes to the gym, parties, and netflix. OH, BUT LOOK AT MY PIERCINGS AND TATTOOOOS!!!
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>>33923573
Where are you from, because I live in one of those countries where it feels like it's super fucking weird to talk to strangers. Then again maybe that's why I should give it a shot someday since it could be seen as more flattering that I give them attention.
Though I think grocery store might just be the wrong place. When I go shopping I'm usually mildly stressed out and want to be left the fuck alone and I'm assuming it's the same for other people
>>33926355
That's what makes me so upset man. The chance of me meeting the types of girls I'd be comfortable with feels so astronomically low because both me and most of them stay at home for most of the day.
>>33927447
Dunno what to tell you man. I know plenty of women who don't fit that description. (unfortunately for me they're just all taken or not compatible with me)
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bumping this thread
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>>33923504
I won't read yet another how do I find a basement-dwelling, perpetually-online, vidya subhuman female version of me thread. They're impossibly delusional, because meeting people is actually what makes normies normies, and therefore no answer is possible.
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>>33923619
And this has never worked!?
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>>33927711
You are depressed and will end up as a cat lady
Guaranteed
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>>33934760
You and the clingy gf guy are my favorite posters
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what is non normie? like goth or emo? what happens to those girls anyway once they hit the wall? I have never seen a scene chick older than 30
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used book stores that also have games/records, if there are weird "shops" some areas have them for weeb stuff, vintage games, music etc. thrift stores generally but those will cover a much wider range. some also have clothes and stuff. Pet stores/pet related stuff. I could see if you got a dog and got into training it and socializing it as a puppy it would be one avenue (anytime you get a new puppy you are supposed to socialize it w/ other puppies). Art supplies stories/hobby stores for fabrics or painting/drawing stuff.
just have to think where they'd actually go outside for which would probably just be specific hobbies.

For non specific stores there are art classes, pottery classes, maker spaces where they might have say a welding class and a pottery class. Even if you got to less female coded stuff if there is something vaguely related to a "community" around it the easiest way as it provides like less direct social interaction. If they have art events or something, I've even seen in smaller towns at like antique malls cute kind of weird looking girls selling fantasy novels they've written.

There are probably some places not that far away around you that would give some avenue for this.

other general things would be like language learning classes, possibly music related stuff, rock climbing gyms (fitness that attracts nerdier/weird people)

Also if you want to go really hard look up local group therapy programs for depression or anxiety lol

note: i have only asked 1 woman out ever in high school and that was 15 years ago but this is my planning after thinking about this in the 15 years since, including interviewing plenty of "weird women" i've met online about where they might show up IRL
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>>33936894
oh yeah another big one I missed is hobby related conventions. There is stuff for a bunch of weird hobbies like having 'ecosystem" tanks or anime conventions or whatever, lots of weird ones you might not think of they might show up at just be aware of what's around you
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>>33936894
good advice, I can second this. obviously you need to be confident enough for cold approach in public settings. group therapy is much easier, I had dates from there, they went horribly, but still I had them
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>>33936835
I meet a lot of them at anime cons, cosplaying girls from older anime pretending they're still young. They usually become brutal alcoholics or stoners.
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>>33936900
>>33936894
Group therapy with strangers?
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>>33937265
yes there are organized group therapy things put on by psychs for things like social anxiety or dpression like
>>33936900
mentioned it's a pretty reasonible way of meeting people they are going to be rather fucked up but it's something.
Worst case sceanario you go for your issues and have them dealt with so it's easier to meet someone in general.
I had a generally good experience in mine group therapy is much less gay than normal therapy
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>>33937566
>yes there are organized group therapy things put on by psychs for things like social anxiety or dpression like
Wait really? Never heard of it!
Are there any other places I could go to meet strangers, like everyone barely knowing each other.
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>>33937641
i went over most of them any kind of class would be the easiest/most normal thing there are lots of more casual ones. improv, art stuff, just random organizations, languages, etc.
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>>33937650
is it mostly a bunch of college students for them
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>>33936835
Like me but girl
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bump
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>>33923619
kek based spawncamper
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Met a 7/10 femanon outside a bar on friday. We hung out for two hours. She was laughing, touching me and punching me playfully, for instance when I asked if she was a glowie sex operative. She told me not to reveal my power level.
When she wanted to leave I asked for her number. She said: “Not a chance. We just don’t vibe.” Even though we were clearly having fun the entire time. I am devastated because I have never met a femanon irl, and none of my friends are even on here.
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>>33943936
>glowie sex operative. She told me not to reveal my power level.
kek, based anonnette
>She said: “Not a chance. We just don’t vibe
wut? what you mentioned sounded like you vibed very much
sad4you anon
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>>33944069
My thoughts exactly. So confusing. If I had turned her off she wouldn’t have stayed, kept touching me, laughing and bantering with me.
At the very least she could have friendzoned me and I would be glad to have a fellow anone to talk to irl.
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>>33944090
she was clearly fucking with your sperg ass
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>>33944121
For two hours? So she was also fake laughing?
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>>33923504
All women are normies
Dogshit thread
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>>33944621
Normies don’t post here regularly
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>>33944737
normies dont even know what a fightclub is
they mightve heard of it but thats all
also 1st and 2nd rule
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>>33923504
mental ward
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>>33944750
>bla bla fightclub mentality
this is like alexa #10 in the united states. can we stop pretending like this is an obscure anime forum offshoot of 2ch? admittedly like 80% of traffic is /v/ + /pol/ but like damn. nothing more annoying than encountering an obvious anon irl and they pull the "sekrit club" shit on you
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>>33943936
Yeah women are like that
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>>33945046
>selfcentered amerilard+newfag response
ugh.
>we
who is this "we"? is "we" with you in the room right now? stupid neanderkikel.
>obscure
it is, in every other country than usa on the planet, except maybe israel
>obvious anon irl
most self contradicting statement ive read this whole year. bravo.
lurkmore faggot
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>>33945269
Nta but yeah its not sekrit club anymore :(
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>>33927049
facts, this anon gets it
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>>33945315
not with that attitude not
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>>33944269
probably, women like to waste people time and just have fun, they don't like taking things that seriously... especially if they're around a club dude
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>>33923573
sub5? so women you aren't even attracted to? it's strange, since above a certain level, the numbers vary hugely person to person
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>>33927447
relationships and work and hobbies, they seem to have more of an interest in those things than men
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>>33927044
my local library is ebin. decent internet and comfy lounging all over. qt smart workers who will discuss any genre and give best suggestions. any recs for imports are appreciated cause it helps their funding stats.
they have lots of appliances for rent (sewing machines, dvd players, shop vacuums, fucking air fryers of all things)
and lots of events like markets or clubs (i met my best friends at a christmas card making workshop)
ANONS GO TO UR LIBRARIES
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>>33951291
>UR LIBRARIES
our libraries in germany are fully kiked out
>closed on sunday and monday
>opened from 10-19:00
>no variety, no choice of good books
i went to 5 libraries in the past few months in search of some rare books, none of them had it, not even the online register. 3 whole books on general mysticism. 4 on esotericism, 0 on eastern/western shamanism, 0 on occultism, 0 on demonologia, 0 on witchcraft, 0 on metaphysics, 0 on christian esoterics, 0 on gnosticism, 1 on astrology, 0 on astrotheology, 0 on anthropology
im like, baffled. they have kilotons on soap operas, romance, islam, anime/manga, fantasy ect. but no thing on real interesting stuff
>no appliances for rent
>maybe 4 comfy chairs in the entire building, rest is hard, cold wood or steel
>fugly obnoxious witches as workers there
and the events are rare plus they suck pretty often
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>>33951599
forgot to add,
the libraries here are like these new modern minimalist shite made from glass wood and steel. fancy shmancy to look at, but empty on the inside, just like the people nowadays.

maybe the university library got the books i need, but in order to get in there one needs either a card that you study there or you booked an appointment b4hand to get entry and time allotted for you.
imagine that, you need to reserve, make an appointment to get into the library. like an appointment when going to the doctor
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>>33951599
>>33951619
That's terrible germanon... what locale were all the libraries in ? urban ?
I think this occurs when there is a separation of library and community, like building those soulless clinical libraries you have there. here in latvia most are pre to post soviet so quite multipurpose and practical still.
as for uni, based on what you said I have low hopes but maybe try building rapport with the attendants or a specific prof there ?
The specialists like archivists tend to be lax/agreeable if woo'd properly.
Godspeed...
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>>33923619
I may need to try this. What is your success rate?
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>>33951633
no, big city. Munich in Bavaria, south Germany to be precise.
>separation of library and community
yup
>pre to post soviet so quite multipurpose and practical
unironicly the cccp had (more) soul whilst being a communist regime than the west has today
>building rapport with the attendants
i too wish for things
>archivists
are arrogant and they scoff at you when you ask about the (((wrong))) book(s) and my interests are, well. rather weird and ebil and stanic for the average normie
>profs
profs are unobtainium here. profs are either arrogant with a stick up their ass or always full with work that one never sees them. i had once an internship at uni and the prof lady (she was very cute and very competent) was almost never present, i saw her 3 times in one month mb. her dark rings under her eyes had dark rings, even. which made me incredibly sad
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>>33951670
wtf I've been sold lies about german academia.. that sounds so irreversably fucked. Infrastructure being sterile and zog'd is one thing but once the people inside are just as bad...
>internship
what sort ? was it worthwhile or did you scout any other possible infiltration routes ?
if you stuck to the hip of raccoon eye prof, eventually it could blossom and be fruitful pearhaps ?
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>>33951035
im a 4, maybe a 5 on a good day im not hitting on stacies
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>>33951702
well it depends if you study there or if you work there. and on the bundesland/state ur in and if you are more in the city/countryside and what type of academic chair.
if you study, chances are ofc way higher to meet up with the prof.
if you work there. good luck
>worthwhile
meh i could take a peek inside and realise how boring and kiked it was. weirdly enough, the ppl working there were all beautiful and sexy. the women as the men. really, really weird. (one woman was a literal model) maybe all the monies they get made them take vacations every 3rd month lel
>infiltration
geg
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>>33951762
I guess then some low commitment but long term general studies could work, for resource access at least. Random courses scattered seasonally.
Supported of course by some meticulously budgeted blend of financial aid/part time work and tutoring/obscure grants.
>sexy staff
physiognomy real ?? chads and stacies experience success ?? socioeconomic factors ??
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>>33923504
bump
i aint trying that supermarket trick that the other anon said lmao thats never gonna work
i live in a pos normie touristic town, there are no non-normie women here and both of the libraries here suck too.

i kinda bped atp, i wont find anyone unless i move out
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>>33936835
goth and emo are normies imo.
Like asocial or very introverted girls who's interests are not social media related shit.
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In retard classes going "fuh buh buh" and eating crayons.
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>>33923504
You're in the right place. They are also on Reddit and tumblr and dating apps. I've just posted here before need a gf and they add me. Nobody wants them.
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>>33945269
ata and no, it's fucking over. also this is an american website primarily used by americans. just because you're fucking filipino or some shit and heard about "balasamgong epic wepsite pourchen" in 2020 doesn't make you special. 2007 /b/ is dead you performative faggot.
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>>33923573
I imagine the cashiers watching some guy stationed at the front entrance, following women who enter the store, and then come back looking defeated just to do it again for hours
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>>33923504
If you work in service, everyone's fucking each other. Even the hottest girl will get around to fucking you eventually, if you stay down long enough. They're all fucked in the head so standards don't really matter to them. If you get into coke, that's even better.
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>>33957028
>ata
what?
>it's fucking over.
4u
>american website primarily used by americans
technically wrong, but ok
>filipino
nah eufag
>2020
my nigger
>2007 /b/ is dead
ur low iq if you cant extrapolate or abstract. also /b/ was never good.
if im not upholding the rules and the traditions, who else will, the zoomies, gen alfa? you? you surely showed me what a discount faggot tourist you are.
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>>33923504
Otakon or Midwest Furfest.
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>>33957124
ata (am the anon [you replied to])
nta (not the anon)
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Anime and SFF cons
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>>33957298
>non normie
>anime
?
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You need to define what a normie actually is. I have never met one.



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