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I want to become a more interesting person because my only hobbies right now are the gym, self-improvement and video games (not even real hobbies). The only real hobby I have is reading, and I'm pretty sure it has the opposite effect I want.

I'm also still a khhv at 19, so preferably something that would also make me more attractive to women.
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playing a large variety of games is more interesting to me than:
someone who spends their time outdoors 24/7
or grinds a single game to reach the top of the leaderboard

but to each their own
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>>33930741
What's interesting to one is boring for the next.
same with being attractive towards women

Generally speaking, music and movies are a good starting point. It's up to you if you want to get into normie stuff, alternative stuff, retro stuff, whichever genres and sub-genres.
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>>33930741
the most attractive hobbies to women are playing instruments (and being good at it), singing, being a band guy essentially.
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>>33930875
This. My dating prospects from 18-25 were pretty grim until I turned 26 and started a band. I literally get women throwing themselves at me after shows. I’ve always been attractive but being autistic doesn’t do you any favor. Being in a band was like an automatic “oh he’s hot AND interesting, let’s talk to him” and I’ve learned social patterns enough to speak to them, I’m funny too so that helps
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>>33930954
Op here, fuck it im sold. What instrument would you recommend?
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>>33930954
this x2. every woman has fangirled over some band member from a band she likes or has liked, and if you can be considered a "band guy", and she finds you attractive, her fangirl feelings will reawaken and be transplated onto you.
>>33930963
anything, even drums works if the girl is into rock.
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>>33930741

Adopting hobbies just to seem more interesting or to get sex will just make you hate your life and waste your time. As with anything else, not all women/men like the same hobbies. What is almost universally attractive is showing passion and interest in things you spend time on.

E.g., if you like woodworking, even if you suck at it, spending time making little crafts is way cooler than picking up a thousand things that you don't have a genuine interest in. Experiment in different crafts like cooking, playing instruments just as an above poster said, painting, learning new languages, etc. Eventually you'll come across something you like and stick with it, and then a partner who is worth their shit will come along and support you and your hobby.

If you like reading, maybe spend some time writing a little. Good luck.
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>>33930963
Guitar, always guitar. Piano/keyboard is good too
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>>33930741
Women don't give a fuck about hobbies.
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>>33931531
Yes, the game is rigged and like 75% face. The other 25% can make a difference for the right girl though.



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