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No one wants to see me because I'm male. Have been doing this since 2019.

I have had 3 women confess they found my therapy creepy because it came off as "flirtatious" which is not even true

Should I just quit? So far it's going horribly
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>>33930872
Therapists are just emotional prostitutes. Maybe try being a therapist to rich Jews in Eastern European cities.

T. Hungarian poster
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>>33930874
Don't I have to learn Hungarian to live there? Sounds rough
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>>33930872
How old are y9u? It might have to do with age. Maybe aim for troubled male demographics, like maybe become accredited in DBT. Fwiw I am a female who always preferred male therapists. The only reason I stopped was bc a male therapist advised me that the challenge maybe beneficial bc I struggle with other women. A lot of the males who prolific careers had stints working in prisons or inpatient facilities. Those patients aren't there "leisurely" if you know what I mean. And requires someone who "gets" them at a glance.

Good luck.
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>>33930887
NTA but what is fwiw
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>>33930894
For what its worth
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Male therapists all just want to get an easy date out of the "therapy" - males are bad news always.
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>>33930897
Never seen this before? I'm sorry if you experienced this, that is beyond fucked
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>>33930872
You'd have to be very slow or legally forced to do therapy for anything other than government gibs
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>>33930872
Specialize in male therapy. Females can't ever understand what the game is like from a male perspective. They're handed everything on a silver platter from birth onwards because of tits and a pussy. Males have to fight for everything, always.

Seriously, don't even bother with the females. Let them go to a female therapist who will tell them all males bad...
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>>33930902
All males are born wanting to sleep with all women and they are all predators. It's a fact. I want it to be illegal to be a moid.
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>>33930905
This is a very negative mindset. There are privileged males TOO. Idiot!!!
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Male therapist is like female navy seal

Life on Hard mode
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>>33930921
Is this Elliot rogers? Wtf you posting him here for.
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>>33930905
>Specialize in male therapy.
Males don't need that shit. They just need NoFap and self discipline unironically men are born as savage animals with unlimited power.
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>>33930933
NoFap is just rebranded orgasm denial fetish
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>>33930936
No it's tucking not you gross perv. Not indulging in as much pleasure makes you stronger in every way. It's not just sexuality you degenerate porn freak.
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What do you actually do as a therapist? Therapists just seemed like well paid hairdressers but without the hard work. Have you tried presenting more homosexual? Gay seeming hairdressers dont get this problem
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>>33930947
No he is right not comming every night is not healthy for a growing man
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>>33930959
OP here

I talk through your problems and give emotional support. A few women have even tried to seduce me because the personal warmth feels very sensual. I am a total pro and refused to take advantage

>>33930911
OP here

Read what I just wrote. You are so full of shit.
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>>33930981
"Oh boohoo and woe is meeee people won't kiss my man therapist ass and I am sooo professional and progressive"

Typical nice guy bullshit
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>>33930981
Is the prohibitively expensive hourly price because of regulatory and indemnity costs, or are you actually doing something more than pretending to be friends with people who only have untrustworthy assholes or no one as friends?
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>>33930988
I'm actually nice AND a guy. Sorry not sorry...
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>>33930995
OP here again

Real emotional support is expensive because it's valuable. I have helped over 10 people fix their lives and what the hell is my thanks for it? They don't even invite me to their wedding usually. I am brushed off to the side because people are embarrassed they needed me. I am tired of being devalued. I am sick of it to be honest with you.. I am a friend and I actually have a female friend who USED TO BE a client who ended up trying to seduce me. I refused and she threatened to lie and say I raped her if I didn't date her. Then we end up in bed and it was awkward. I had to put up with all that shit so I deserve every penny she ever gave me.

She is getting married in June and I'm proud of her btw. Amazing person just crazy

Crazy people are annoying so they have to pay to get treated basically.
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>>33931016
When you call her a "client" it sounds a lot like you are a prostitute who charged her to get off with you. And you refused to sleep with her? I bet that fucked up her self esteem. You made her life worst.
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>>33931018
Hey I never said I'm entitled to free shit. But I tried hard to fix her and she just made my life chaotic. We did have sex once but I felt pressured into it.
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>>33931016
>inviting therapist to wedding
who actually does that lmfao
>lie and say I raped her if I didn't date her
ugh, wtf is up with (presumably) cis women. like you are dealing with crazy women but wtf.
are there steps you can take to protect yourself from people acting like this in the future? would be hard since even if you were in one party recording consent state it would destroy your reputation.
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>>33931024
You literally called her crazy that's not a nice thing to do. And you think she's your friend after you called her a crazy bitch?
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>>33930872
I personally prefer a male therapist. A lot of my problems are male specific and women just don't understand them. Like how growing up my dad forced me to be ultra masculine and didn't like when I did stuff like writing or drawing because he wanted me to play football or learn about guns. How I could never cry or else he smacked me. Or how my brothers beat the shit out of me for not being as physically strong as them. Or how I struggle to connect with women because I've always been kind of nerdy and that's not what women want. I see my athletic friends who have had like 20 girlfriends so far and I've had exactly none unless you count temporary online girlfriends.

I have a really time believing a woman would understand any of that.
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>>33931027
I already texted her that I found her cute a few times. Before she basically came onto me before revealing she secretly had a freaking boyfriend (who is now her fiancee). Sooo if I was to deny her dates and sex she had the "evidence" to make itlook like I was the rapey one. So it all just happened.

Like I say she is nuts but she's a sweet woman and means well. Just has attachment issues. She decided she is addicted to me and needs me and all this.

It took all my self control not to just use her for sex constantly. I'm basically a saint.

So.yes she ended up getting me richer (she is rich) and she pays my bills for me. We have a complicated relationship.

She thinks im the one who needs to therapy when actually she is the one who threatened me first

Also her fucking fiancee wants me to stop hanging out with her which is upsetting

>Sigh
Thanks for coming to my TED talk

>>33931036
She low-key deserves it
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>>33931027
This therapist guy sounds like an asshole who used a mentally ill woman and just rationalized it later as "all her fault not mine". Sick stuff.
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>>33931046
You caused this you moron. You texted her flirty stuff first that makes it your fault not hers.
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>>33931053
I was just wondering how she would react to me saying she looked nice. I didn't ask for nudes.
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>>33931056
That is so inappropriate and you wonder why people said it's creepy. Oh my god
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>>33931016
You deserve it. Therapy is a fucking scame, specially for men. You desvere your pain and more for the bullshit you fling.
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>>33931051
Yeah that last post, if is actually OP, confirms he is retarded for thinking he could interact like that with a client.
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>>33930959
This anon here. OP you should just get topped by strong men, you are a slimy creep that has no place around women.
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>>33931060
But I'm the OP. I'm a male therapist. What the hell did I do wrong??

>>33931061
This was after she basically admitted to being completely obsessed with me and was texting daily. I just said she looks nice (TO HELP HER FEEL BETTER) and said let's hang out. Okay. Play video games and eat pizza. Not an actual date. Then she went nuts and ended up threatening to tell people I tried to rape her if I stopped seeing her or didn't date her.

She basically raped me lol. Not complaining she is a friend now. But I was used.
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>>33931064
Keep your misandry off the board please. OP is a little weird but he doesn't deserve the hate you are giving him.
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>>33931070
You were basically fucking with an unstable woman's emotions and your mad she got emotional on you. Creep!!
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>>33931070
In that case, you fucked up by hanging out with her. But yes you were actually raped. I take back this >>33931064
Sorry you went through that.
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>>33931081
I was raped but it's not like it was totally disgusting. I was forced to have sex once because I was scared of being accused of rape. So I did. But I still found her attractive. Basically forget about her because most of my female clients don't crush on me.

It's like EVERY WOMAN I EVER SEE EITHER HATES ME OR GETS OBSESSED ABOUT ME.

Women why are you so crazy?
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>>33931088
Stop calling her crazy you jerk ass. I am taking her side 100% on this one.
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>>33931088
You should move to being a personal trainer. A therapist should not feel this way about clients.
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>>33931091
It's real fucking complicated. I did some unfair things but she absolutely started it and forced me to put up with her CRAZY actions. I am in danger as a male therapist. People can easily lie about me and get me in trouble. So I had to do whatever she said for a few months while she was having a bipolar "Manic episode"

Was hell trust me!

>>33931094
She stirred up feels in me I couldn't control. I made the mistake of invito her over to play vidya and eat pizza. But she used threats to try and force me to be her BF so I'm the real victim here. Only she only verbally threatened she was careful and sneaky.

I wish I could forget her but it's complicated

And her stupid fiancee wants to murder me and is convinced I am secretly trying to date her still
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>>33931097
You don't sound all that stable yourself why did you even become a therapist?!

>>33931088
You are just angry that women react to your weirdness. Stop acting weird and women won't act weird back.
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>>33931041
same. honestly i don't like interacting with females in general unless absolutely necessary
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>>33931102
Women can be weird first.
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>>33931103
Have you seen this OPs other posts? He is a horndog taking advantage of mentally unstable women. At least female therapists are decent people usually!
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>>33931097
>It's real fucking complicated. I did some unfair things
It's really fucking simple. You made her life worse.
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>>33931107
Female therapists can present less creepy, then get you molested naked at a psych ward by twisting your words to make it sound like you are a danger to yourself. They are just as bad
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>>33931118
I had a female therapist who seduced me. People underestimate how much women like to seduce men to feel powerful. It's a kink.
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>>33931123
Yea right this doesn't happen IRL stop watching porno
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>>33930872
>therapist
gay, I rather anhero unironically
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>>33930872
Just quit and get into any other profession. Now.
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>>33931130
So you rather be a sweaty dirty slave that a cushy coach professional?

LOOL
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This thread went fucking crazy.

OP seemed like a normal decent person then revealed he is really a fucking abusive creep using women.

Look
>>33931097
>>33931088
>>33931070
>>33931046
>>33931016
>>33930981

What a gross person
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>>33931133
Theyd sooner die than have to listen to women. Why else do people not take on such an easy high paid bullshit job.
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>>33931136
OP here. Nothing I said was weird or creepy or wrong. Sorry not sorry!!!!!
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>>33931139
Males are insanely sensitive and sexist and it's ruining their lives and ours. We have to stop letting them just dismantle feminism everywhere.
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>>33931140
How many times are you going to get raped before you learn a lesson?
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>>33931140
You are a total complete creep. I just read all those posts and you are the cause of your problems.
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>>33931142
If men started being too empathetic and understanding towards women, professional therapy as a lucrative career would disappear.
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>>33931145
Mind explaining what was so wrong that I said or did? I didn't do anything wrong. You are just being irrational.
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>>33931143
I'M THE VICTIM I DON'T HAVE TO DEFEND MYSELF. MY FEMALE CLIENTS ARE TOTAL DICKS TO ME.

I did nothing wrong
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>>33931156
You clearly need the therapy not them lol
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>>33931162
That's not your choice to make it's mine. I'm a professional and I didn't do anything wrong.
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>>33931156
lmfao. inb4 OP raped her and is just using this thread as interactive way to to convince himself the opposite
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>>33931169
How the fuck can you read what I said and think I raped her?.... Fuck off. She is the problem not me. And it's not my fault either.
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>>33931136
Those posts are chilling AF. I think OP is actually evil.

>>33931169
This. What a creep.
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>>33931177
Rheddit pls go. What is creepy or bad?

WTF did I do??
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Most batshit insane OP of all time thread? Dude is a complete psycho who wants validation from us. Don't give him any.
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>>33931185
Penis in vagene of vulnerable mentally ill client. After engaging in relations a professional therapist would not.
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>>33931204
Did you read above?? She made me scared not to fuck her it's HER FAULT BRO
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>>33931204
Very sex negative take
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>>33930872
Will you be my therapist?
I am not joking.
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>>33930894
not the anon but what does NTA mean
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>>33931212
Yes. We should move away from puritanism. Clients should fuck their therapist to gauge compatibility before continuing with talk therapy. It's the only way. Partly serious.
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>>33931213
I don't give out my contact on 4chan sorry
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>>33931216
"Not That Anon"

It's a que to help autists realize that more than one person is talking to them

Always check urbandictionary.com first
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>>33931218
She threatened him and he felt pressured. It's obvious that it's not his fault.
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>>33931219
I can give a throwaway contact to you.
I have insurance through work, and would have to telehealth video conference in all cases.
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>>33931227
Uhhh. What about me here appeals to you? Just because I'm male? I can help give you tips on this thread if it helps. I will do that for free.
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>>33931229
Steamy therapist sex. You are an easy target.
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>>33931232
I am not in favor of clients and therapists having sex. Let me be extremely clear. Omfg.
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i believe this board is about 50% reddit and 50% female, this simply does not sound like other boards.
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>>33931229
I respect the edge 4chan instills.
I have problems with trust.
I have problems with women.
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>>33931233
Escorts are just therapists with sex as an addon. What do vanilla therapists even bring to the table. They can't even prescribe drugs or give you diagnoses that let you get drugs. Even escorts can hook you up with something good on top of everything else they do.
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>>33931234
The she devil's should go the hell AWAY it's ruining this place for everyone else
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>>33931237
Women are indeed annoying as hell. They always want something from you. Apparently the crazy girl who tried to force me to date her said I remind her of her dad..so she wanted to use me to replace him.
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>>33931248
You are such a dirty minded perv to think this way!!!!
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>>33931237
Be more specific about your problems how is he supposed to help you out?
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>>33931256
Sorry for being too correct. I think OP should become an escort too. Just being friends with people isn't a real job.
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>>33931266
He gets paid to help men and women cope with emotional issues. Not to be a human sex doll slash dildo. Perv.
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>>33931271
He should diversify his resume
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>>33931271
How does bankrupting yourself to have a creepy man pretend to be your friend then rage about you online help you cope?
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>>33931288
The woman caused the problems not him. Stupid bitches.
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>>33931294
Did you read the posts he left? It's really obvious he is the creep not her >>33931136

Read them again
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>>33931300
Oh I read them all already. He fucked up a little bit but he didn't CAUSE the problem. Begone feminist harpie!!!
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>>33931306
You are probably the OP pretending to be someone defending yourself LOL
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>>33931327
Sounds like is the poster that wants to purchase OP's services. Paying someone to affirm incelery.
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>>33931338
I am not that person but at least OP is a real man and appreciates cute manic crazy bitches. The fact that he got crazy pussy from doing therapy is also based and women deserve it for all the pain they give us
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>>33931344
OP here it's not like that. She basically forced me into it. So you can just fuck off.
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>>33931349
You brought this thread down on yourself with your "fucking roasties reee" attitude. Its one woman, not all of them.
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This board has gone fucking insane. It's half feminazi libtard and half incel from r9k.
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>>33931016
Now you just admitted you are LARPing. Therapists don't expect to be invited to people's weddings or even have their relationship with their client acknowledged outside of the office. Anyone who has been a therapist for two seconds would know that.
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>>33931349
why don't you just use a tripcode? example (in the name field is "#op")
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>>33931354
What the hell. I was not attacking women at all. Shut the hell up.

>>33931357
I don't expect it it's just I'm lonely and wanted to gain friends from therapy if it went well. It was never an expectation it was a HOPE I had.
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>>33931364
>gain friends from therapy
You are the therapist, the one person not meant to do that. If you ran group therapy, everyone else can hook up after, but you are meant to stay out of it, its your job.
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>>33931364
If you wanted to gain friends as a therapist, you should be an escort.
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OP here again

I'm hoping for real feedback I responded to too many troll assholes who tried to make me defend myself. I did nothing wrong. I'm amazed at how rude the people here are. I thought /adv/ was chill and helpful!

>>33931369
I am legit lonely and just felt needy. A few clients became friends but it took time and effort. People think I'm awkward.
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>>33931376
Why are people trying to push sexuality on me. I did NOT GET INTO PSYCHOLOGY TO GET SEX. holy shit.
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>>33931380
You acted like a retarded incel who hates women so people treated you badly here. Don't complain.

>>33931356
This board needs more feminism there's an abundance of woman hating incels who made it awful. First.
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>>33931380
I think its this post OP >>33931088
If you weren't a therapist people might have let that slide.
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>>33931056
You are a sexual predator
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>>33931393
So just because I am a therapist on paper means my childhood trauma and loneliness just disappears? Nah nah nah that's not how it works. I do solid GOOD therapy and I am tired of people misinterpreting me as sexual because Im a man so I must be a sex obsessed freak. I am actually afraid to have sex. I have PTSD. And I am working on it and fixing it like a champ.
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>>33931397
You did nothing wrong but you made yourself trollable. This is 4chan.
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>>33931397
My recommendation is lurk moar, then ask advice again without sprerging out the way you did. You might get useful advice next time.
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>>33931403
I've lurked this place since 2019
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>>33931380
Stfu incel
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>>33931407
Why are you even here??? Why are you people being so rude to me????
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>>33931410
Stop feeding the trolls
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>>33931404
protip: you can ignore posts.
i thought therapists were meant to have emotional skills to not get baited
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>>33931414
Actually you can use that irl too. You don't have to let your clients drag you into bullshit outside sessions.
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>>33931414
I was hoping by now I'd have some valuable replies. Not a bunch of meanspirited posts attacking me

I won't leave until people offer real help
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>>33931257
I'm not a therapist, I do not know hiw they work.
I'm not an engineer I don't know how most technology I use works.

When a piece of tech breaks you call tech support, whether or not you know what the problem is.

I unfortunately can't turn myself off and on again to see if a reboot solves my problem.
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>>33931414
He said he has childhood trauma issues so maybe not this one.
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>>33931422
Most therapists get into the profession to try and resolve thier own shit. No word on of it works or not.
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>>33931422
Well he should learn it then. He will just keep getting raped until he can set strong professional boundaries with insane clients.
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>>33931016
>don't even invite me to their wedding usually
This is illegal in the US? Wtf?
>>33931422
I mean this 4chan, I don't think childhood trauma is unique to this asshole
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>>33931424
OP here

My trauma is a work in progress. I deserve respect and kindness regardless of my being a therapist.
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>>33931420
I posted a real response and you didnt say shit.
>>33930887


You seem stuck on counseling female clients. Why? There are countless men who need desperate help.
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>>33931428
Yes, I didn't disagree.
I want to hire you.
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>>33930887
The working in prisons and inpatient facilities idea is good. OP needs to learn that when you are choosing as your job to be around people who will rape, its literally your job to prevent that from happening. It's not the same as people being targeted just for dressing a certain way or walking around a sketchy area. You are paid to take the risk.
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>>33931443
wait, OP is a therapist, not a psychologist/psychiatrist. nevermind.
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>>33931449
Stop being nice he is an abuser who used a woman he was supposed to be helping. Read the thread first!
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>>33931452
Maybe he was raped in the ass as a child so doesnt know how to be professional acting.
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>>33931456
OP here

My dad died when I was a kid and my mom was abusive. Fuck all of you creeps. I came here for Moral SUPPORT
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>>33931457
This is a larp. There is no way a successful therapist with real clients has this inability to not get sucked in when they already feel people are just trolling them.
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>>33931461
I literally said in myOP I am not even CLOSE to as fucking successful as I want to be. Ive been able to survive but I'm not super successful and established yet.
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>>33931465
If you are actually for real then you absolutely should quit. The only way you could continue is if you can work on yourself enough to not fall for bait. Whether trolls, or insane people trying to draw you into their abusive schemes, people will continue to destroy you otherwise.
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>>33931461
Therapists are total freaks. Most of them need therapy more than their clientele. That's why there's so much pressure in psychology for them not to fuck their clients. It happens constantly.
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>>33931469
what even is therapy then, since it clearly hasn't helped OP, despite his insistence it works. why do people pay for this. real problems need money or medical care, what does losing all your money talking do?
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>>33931468
I'm in my 30s with no other skills or qualifications. I'm basically stuck here now and I'm just worried basically.

I'll be fine I'm just EMOTIONAL TODAY. Being judged as a bad person when I am trying my best to be awesome fucking HURTS
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>>33931476
Are you a registered regulated therapist, or did you just do a soft skills course and became one without professional accreditation?
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>>33931474
Therapy is just emotional prostitution. I'm the person who said that earlier. It's just paying someone else to relate to you and be there for you. And talk. Just with no physical touch or sexual climax. It's disgusting. Look up stats on how many therapists and their clients end up getting married it's extremely common.
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>>33931486
I'm getting really scared someone in here is going to try to fix me now. I don't think I can mention any more specific details. Let's just say people accept me as a therapist and they find me through looking up locally available therapy providers for anxiety depression and traumatic experiences.

That's all I am comfortable with saying at this point
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>>33931491
Dox* me not fix me. Fucking autocorrect.
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>>33931491
if you don't have a qualification to maintain registration from, then it's not like you lose much if pivot for a while if its going so badly.
are you getting therapy for your trauma? why does it seem like it doesnt work, i would have thought it would have worked by now at your age.
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>>33931501
Most people overlook male therapy providers TO BEGIN WITH. I get a lot of women with daddy type issues or just "issues with males" who are constantly testing me for signs I secretly hate women. Which I do deep down but I never act.on it

,(my mother was very abusive to me but I know it's not every woman who is like that)
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>>33931501
>are you getting therapy for your trauma
I am master classing my OWN trauma using my own special method. Basically I am my own navy seal. I match 10 miles a day and i do fasting and meditation. I am winning against my trauma by becoming my best self
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>>33931487
people get so weird about anything being compared to prostitution, like oh no anything but that. then fuckin force me into sex work for being born wrong. is like just accept that your fancy therapy job is just safe prostitution. is all just babying emotional people while meeting their demands.
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>>33931511
is that because youre poor or because you dont want people to judge you and document your trauma in therapy like the others?
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>>33931518
Prostitution is evil. People should get free therapy and sex from FAMILY WHO LOVES THEM. This world is so toxic!!!
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>>33931522
It's both things.

But I mainly want to respect myself to overcome my bullshit like a strong powerful man. I am learning every day. And it's hard. But every time I make progress I feel amazing.
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>>33931530
Doesn't that conflict with the whole therapist thing of telling everyone else to get help? Like I think respecting yourself like that is better. Just seems contradictory to your job. Also you miss out on learning to deal with people being mean.
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>>33931530
You are just afraid to be vulnerable
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Where a wedding ring pretend to be married they think ur less creepy and not hitting on them because they will think ur normal enough to get married to someone
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>>33931543
Fuck being vulnerable until I can prove to myself I can unfuck my mind first.
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>>33931555
Nuclear black pill moment

Stupid bitches only respect a man with bitches. Eww. I hate foids
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>>33931558
Therapy feels like being sexually molested while being recorded, all that shit just kept by the therapist to use against you like an abuser. You should go to therapy so you know what it feels like and why its so wrong, so you don't do that.
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if i was a therapist i would be like
"i don't care about any of that, we are going to need to do more testing"
and then give them pieces of paper with anime girl feet on them and watch them expectantly

i would get equally frustrated if they picked the "wrong" picture (all of them) or if they refused to choose

then i would do more like such tests until they were healed

i call my method "the best and most successful method for total rehabilitation," honestly i am surpirsed that the name is not already taken
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>>33931588
btw if you don't understand why this works you need the therapy
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>>33931562
So hateful
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>>33931588
OP needs this. Would learn to not care what mean judgemental people think about him, and let it all breeze over him and move on.
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>>33931610
Did you read his posts? He took ADVANTAGE of a goddamn mentally ill woman don't defend him.
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>>33931620
Maybe if he learned to not be a desperate little bitch faggot he would not be the type to do that.
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>>33931628
He should be jailed for hurting that woman. Did you read the posts or not?

We are in a thread created by an evil monster.
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>>33931644
Why is that mentally ill woman going to a paid friend instead of a regulated mental health professional? OP is literally just some autistic retard that chose to be a therapist against all good sense.
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>>33931644
But you are exaggerating he isn't evil

>>33931666
He helped her. She is getting married so she is probably doing better.
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>>33931688
You are defending a sexual predator. Fucking burn you sexist trash.
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>>33931688
>He helped her.
She will never feel safe at the doctor's office again. In her mind, all professional relationships can be subverted. It is profoundly unhealthy, especially if the patient was already nuts.
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>>33931695
Yeah. If he wants sex so much he should become an escort, then it is al aboveboard that sex is on the table, regardless of how mentally ill the client. That way the client can't be the victim.
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>>33931697
Why would she be the one that feels unsafe when she now feels she can manipulate and rape anyone? She must feel like a god now.
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>>33931697
OP here

She fucking THREW HERSELF at me. All I wanted was to hang out play retro vidya games and get some takeout. Then one comment about her looks sent her into a meltdown and she said we either have sex or I'll report you for sexual harassment

I WAS BASICALLY RAPED DOG. FUCK OUTTA HERE
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>>33931715
This. The OP was the victim and everyone wants to pretend some random BPD slut is le innocent princess
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>>33931715
Because the professionals who are supposed to take care of her are as weak as her diddling uncles were.
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>>33931716
You are pathetic. You cannot invite clients over. It is a conflict of interest. You know this too. You know what you did was wrong.
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>>33931721
OP is a basic therapist, not a forensic psychiatrist trained to deal with sex offenders like her.
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>>33931727
The vast majority of counselors receive training in childhood sexual abuse and are aware the hypersexuality is a symptom.
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Guys was I raped when I threatened my personal trainer into letting me mount him?
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>>33931726
I was extremely lonely and sad and feeling suicidal and she is over 18 and kept texting constantly

She texted all day for a month before I asked her to hang out

>>33931727
She is kind of a sexual abuser but she was from a broken home so I forgave her in the end.
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>>33931734
You sound very faggy
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>>33931735
>extremely lonely and sad and feeling suicidal and she is over 18 and kept texting constantly
Nobody cares. You are a professional and know better
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>>33931741
That's the thing. I dont think he is a professional. Therapist isnt a protected title.
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>>33931741
No I don't. She hurt me and I forgive her. But she chose to hurt me. I thought it would be fun to hang out and it was until she started freaking THREATENING me to fuck my life over.
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>>33931750

That would have been my assumption before he hit us with the following:

>>33931167
>I'm a professional and I didn't do anything wrong
>>33931491
>Let's just say people accept me as a therapist and they find me through looking up locally available therapy providers for anxiety depression and traumatic experiences.
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>>33931752
You are the victim but you were negligence to hang out with her outside the sessions.
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>>33931760
Professional is a made up category. Fuck off. If someone is a good therapist they will fix you up even without some fancy ass degree paper.
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>>33931760
there is professional as in paid then there is professional as in regulated. OP hasn't specified which, but i suspect its the former.
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>>33931763
True but irrelevant

>>33931764
You could be right
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>>33931774
If OP was a regulated professional he would already be in trouble for serious misconduct. Instead its no different to fucking your swimming instructor or mechanic, only she used threats to rape him too.
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>>33931774
At least he had sex. Men can't be raped. Stupid motherfucker has been using women.
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>>33931782
I am a regulated professional it's just she swore she won't tell anyone what happened and she kept her word but it's still disturbing that she threatened me originally to tell.
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>>33931787
you fucking idiot. why are you trying to be friends with your clients then. didnt you learn this when you dumped years worth of wages on getting qualified?
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>>33931792
I was seriously lonely and she made me feel good. I was planning to try to marry her or something. But it didn't work when she turned out to be kind of psychotic. She ended up meeting someone else anyway.
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>>33931797
Is there some kind of therapist rehab you can go to and relearn how you are meant to behave with clients? arent you sorts meant to have peers observe you and evaluate you semiregularly as part of your registration?
also if you get out to a job, you can get out to bars and hobby clubs where you can meet friends that arent rapists



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