>>33931267
Representing the still going crew.

I'm pretty much in easy peasey territory now.
I already was mildly grossed out by my porn habits before this months, but now that I'm able to suppress the habit part it's very easy to deal with.
Real question is, if I'll relapse in December

I literally have so much energy 2 weeks in so far. Think the memes might actually be correct

>>33931387
don't get cocky

>>33931267
I wanted to partake but my wife is a succubus, there are worse problems to have but I can never get past the first week when she's actively cockteasing me.

>>33931267
A tip is to always keep yourself busy. Occupy yourself with energy demanding activities like going to the gym, working extra hours in your job, studying extra at college, etc. Just keep yourself busy.

By the time you get home, you'll be too exhausted to jerk off and will want to go to sleep.

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So, are you doing anything with more of the free time you have now that you can use both of your hands?

>>33931267
You do realize the original thread is still up and you don't open a new thread til the old one is archived? Dumb ass

>>33932002
I know, I just figured it was coming soon so I'd start up a new one.

>>33932007
I realize of course that means this thread will hit bump limit sooner so maybe I should have waited till the old thread was page 10.

>>33931852
I would use my free time well but it's hard to focus on anything, it hasn't gotten easier it's only gotten harder, all I want I want is sex. How do I find sex anons, it's driving me insane, to go against your biology, I was meant to have sex with an attractive woman not cuck myself

had the day off today. ran some errands and did some chores, but still find myself spending a decent amount of time looking at porn during the down time. im pretty good on work days, but days off almost feel intimidating. also started early and am on day 39

(serious replies ONLY)

Went a little too far this year, i started watching BNWO ironically because the music was good in the spring, but i just kept watching. eventually i was reading r/cuckpsychology and getting really into erotic JOI audios that start with you just hearing "your crush" getting fucked through the wall but then the black bull catches you and your gf forces you to do bi stuff. i got an 8"x6" black dildo that really hurt at first, every time i had to tense and breathe through getting the big cock head to go in and just sit there for 5 minutes until i gradually started wiggling it. the last 6 months have been the best cums of my life as i just got used to slamming it in. i can have full seeing stars prostate orgasms within 60 seconds of insertion.

this week though i was cleaning my asshole in the shower and immediately felt guilty and hopeless. it's so loosey goosey now, it's not a struggle to get my dildo in at all any more. I'm 100% straight, but now even when I'm turned on by girls being pretty my immediate physiological response is my asshole starts winking and wants penetration.

I'm deeply, deeply ashamed of how far out of control i let this get so I'm doing at least a month of no porn and no nutting. i was just wondering if anyone had any good tips to get back into being totally straight sexually, so your prostate isn't involuntarily begging for pleasure any time sex comes up and how to get my asshole tight again? I'm really worried the doctors will know what I've been doing if they have to inspect it, or if i do start dating a girl (zero interest in men) she will feel it and go "why are you so well trained back here?"

also do i have to stop listening to gessafelstein and lazer sword and one true God and this other good music i made from things i heard in BNWO? it makes me feel like a cool guy to play it and gives me confidence

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I wasn't going to do NNN this year, I'd done it before then immediately reverted to my usual antics. Thing is, my porn use has really been drifting towards weird stuff that goes against my beliefs this year (Bi shit, gooner captions, AI etc). Think I'll start now for December 13th, turns out there's a 24/7 Moomin stream on YouTube and a load of audiobooks/history for sleep videos so I've got those to drag me back. Got plenty of things to sort out today and I've been awake since 0400 so hopefully I'll start strong. Feels like a hangover right now, I don't even drink or smoke but I feel rough and low hygiene right now.

Regrettably lost today, edging the last few days so didn't really "count" to be in it that long. I had gotten to a point where I could edge without cumming but went overboard, and to be honest the pleasure of cumming wasn't any different to the edging so nothing was really gained.
~2 weeks felt like my threshold before negligible gains, so could've ended worse. At least I learned a bit about myself and the fact cumming is actually underwhelming after keeping away for a while

>>33932629
Oh and another outcome is I'm more motivated to resume running after a break so that's a good reminder to touch grass

>>33931553
I really do feel confident though.
I've once managed to go for 200+ days before relapsing.
Though I do remember that around the 2-3 week mark there was another big increase in the urges so that should be right about now

Day 13. Haven't had urges in about 4 days

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>randomly came across an image of jen psaki and popped a boner over her and her titties
Christ. At least this means my desensitization should be improving at least.

>>33932629
What I hate about NNN is it's framed as win or lose, 100% or 0%. I hate it for so many reasons.
Fundamentally, it dulls tenacity.
If you "lose," you stop trying. You stop putting in effort. You give up. That's a horrible mindset and prevents you from gaining experience acting tenaciously. You don't want to practice instant resignation after one stumble.

>>33931737
Great advice. I'd add in my opinion you don't have to be too tired, you just have to be actively preoccupied, keyword "actively." Passive engagement is a lot less effective.
Find hobbies that keeps your interest. Drawing, writing, reading, music, maybe there are some games you want to complete.

Still keeping busy.
Taking brief glances at porn.

Almost broke today
For fucks sake I just need to cum

I noticed one of my favorite porn sites is uploading a video exactly on November 30th with one of my favorite pornstars
I keep telling myself that'll be my endgoal prize

people assume they'll have the "biggest" cum shot after 30 days no break but in reality the max amount of cum build up stops after a week or so
so what really is the prize here

>>33936436
for me the prize is just that I can show myself that I have the willpower to not fap for 30 days
and knowing myself, the first fap after those days will probably be very disappointing

>looking for references for a photoshoot I'm panning
>it's all hot girls in cute clothes
damn
>>33936436
For me it's just an excuse to hopefully quit and at the very least tone down on a bad habit. And even if everything goes back to same old same old after November at least I've enjoyed a month of an ever so slightly healthier lifestyle

>>33935214
Less nut November or "once a week November" doesn't have the right ring to it.

Look at it like trying to clear an arcade game with as few credits as possible. It's okay to get hit one or two times. Just keep trying to not get hit. Maybe next time you do even better.

Fapping and nutting = lost
Fapping and edging = still within the parameters?
Getting a whore and nutting surely is a fail?

Getting waves of horniness and I don't want to give my milf coworker the ick (probably already did yesterday with all my hamhanded flirtations out of nowhere). I wanna bone that petite milf with generous milkers aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

>>33931267
I just ate nuts and I'm happier!

>>33937088
>Fapping and nutting = lost
yes
>Fapping and edging = still within the parameters?
As long as you don't nut it's fine
>Getting a whore and nutting surely is a fail?
No. Fucking somebody else and nutting i'd say is not a fail.
it's being alone and fapping using your hands and/or toys to nut that is a fail imo

>>33937096
Was thinking along those lines as well, thanks anon. Only tried this NNN thing recently and it does affect how horny one can get and consequently how you behave around wahmen. I think I'll keep nutting from my imagination only after this november thing and quit porn.

>>33937088
>>33937096
>Fapping and edging = still within the parameters?
>As long as you don't nut it's fine
What the fuck is the point then? If you're trying to get your habit under control then edging is a partial fail. Doesn't mean you should stop trying but still

>>33931267
I honestly don't even want to nut anymore. It's always been a net negative. I hope to continue this forever.

>>33937569
I'm afraid that my body will forget what a boner is if I go full ascetic monk.

>>33937079
I just think it's bad that everyone takes the name so extremely literally. Instead of gaining experience "falling 9 times, getting up 10," people choose "fall once and stay down."

>Look at it like trying to clear an arcade game with as few credits as possible. It's okay to get hit one or two times. Just keep trying to not get hit. Maybe next time you do even better.
I strongly agree, but I'm disappointed it's such a rare perspective.

>>33937725
How?
I get random hard ons throughout the day way more when I don't constantly jack it

>>33936436
For me it's an exercise in self control and trying to get my life back together. I'm addicted to porn and desensitized myself to women to the point that I needed to look at several supermodels in a single session in order to get horny. I hadn't been aroused by a single girl in real life for years at this point. Over the past few days that has changed though which is a good sign.
I'm also a friendless KHHV social reject in my early 20s but I still have time to turn it around and preferably I'd do so sooner rather than later. I would like to have a girl in real life that I have sex with and porn has been a coping mechanism for several years know because I know it would be a lot of work to get one. And of course, not being turned on by women in real life would be a nonstarter.
I'm almost certainly going to have to go through a longer period abstaining from porn in order to fully fix my desensitization issues but it's a convenient start.

Holy fuck I hit day 15.
That means I can literally do another 15 days again.
My biggest fear was breaking before day 15 but now I feel more confident about reaching day 30.
I'll technically have to wait until December 2nd since the 1st I won't be home but this makes me feel way better about things

Well, not tempted but very fired up. Really crystallises the need for a foid in life.

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Waking up with morning wood, had a horny dream but not a wet one and woke up humping my pillow at one point. Man, I need a gf

Anons in this thread, I would like to ask you:
>What is your personal opinion about porn?
>What do you fap to in your imagination WITHOUT porn?
>How much do you want a gf on a scale of 1-10? Are you willing to put in a lot of effort to get and keep a partner, or are you more content being single?

>>33940652
>What is your personal opinion about porn?
It should not be as available as it is. Used porn for 20+ years now and it is a stupidly huge part of who I am and why I am like I am
>What do you fap to in your imagination WITHOUT porn?
Usually girls I know of irl, tho heavily influenced by porn.
>How much do you want a gf on a scale of 1-10?
10
>Are you willing to put in a lot of effort to get and keep a partner, or are you more content being single?
I would put effort in if I knew how. Kinda made peace with the reality that I will most likely never get a gf

>>33940687
>Used porn for 20+ years now and it is a stupidly huge part of who I am and why I am like I am
How is it such a big part of you? I'd think you just masturbate for however long and then do other things. Do you spend all your time watching porn and thinking about porn?

>>33940652
It's a part of the bread and circus of this era that keeps people sedated

Milf I'm currently having the hots for, reignited cause I'm try NNN as well

7? Was previously a 3 but the fap and porn abstinence, as well as working out and losing weight reignited my libido. Not just sexual, but for life as well.
Some moderate effort but not a lot, we're in our 30s were not romantic lovelorn teenagers any more and life does get in the way.

>>33940719
>Do you spend all your time watching porn and thinking about porn?
Pretty much
I'd go to work in the morning and my mind would all day be "I can't wait to be done for the day so I can go home and fap"

I also started watching porn at like age 10, so I spent the majority of my time outside school/work at home on my computer, usually fapping to bad porn. I even skipped a lot of days of school just to stay home and fap. This lead to never socializing and never learning how to socialize with others and girls. To this day I have no idea how to talk to a girl. I have no clue what a relationship entails. I have no idea how to even begin getting laid or a gf.

tl;dr I'm a huge fucking mess because of porn

>>33940652
>personal opinion on porn
most of it exceeds what we really need. most of it should not be easily accessible or shoved down our throats via social media.
it's the same as any other vice, meaning it's best when you use it in moderation
>how much fap with imagination
30% imagination 70% porn
>how much want gf
like a 5 or 6
was already in many long term relationships and the next one is definitely to marry so i'm fine taking some time for now
>willing to put effort
i've never needed to dedicate an extreme amount of effort to find a partner, i find that letting things happen naturally is when i find the best gf's/ have the best experiences

>>33940652
>What is your personal opinion about porn?
It shouldn't be used so much or everywhere online. But realistically I know banning it won't do anything
>What do you fap to in your imagination WITHOUT porn?
Nothing in particular. I just let my mind wander and focus on the pleasure
>How much do you want a gf on a scale of 1-10? Are you willing to put in a lot of effort to get and keep a partner, or are you more content being single?
10. I'm willing to put the work and effort in that's required to keep a relationship

>>33940735
>libido not just sexual but for life as well
Hmmm maybe they are intertwined after all

>>33940742
What if you were autistic to begin with, and you just used porn as a consequence of not being able to socialize?

>>33940765
Probably the case, but we will never know

>>33940768
But it's important for you to know. I mean autism as in an actual condition. That would solve a lot of inner strife and guilt for you. Because knowing you have something like that will at least stop you from beating yourself up about it because it is debilitating in some ways and not your fault. But also you can find what to do about it, knowing exactly what the problem is

>>33940749
>most of it should not be easily accessible or shoved down our throats via social media.
Social media is not shoved down your throat. You choose to use it because you want to. You could only use the useful parts and forgo the unneeded ones, but you choose to click away. You are an adult stop blaming shit like this, if you were a kid that's different

>>33940794
Lmao you purposefully threw in your weird narrative just to prove a point.
Most of us use social media for the sole purpose to keep in contact with friends or family. Yet if you scroll through the feeds, the algorithm will definitely throw in 1 or 2 thirst trap posts just to see if you'll interact with the post or not. And before your retard mind says "hurrr durr it'z based on what you like!!!" I only follow family members and I haven't liked or saved a single post. I only open the app to respond to messages on there.
The system is literally created to keep you addicted to seeing more and more.
But of course the porn addicted moron can't think past their own perspective

>>33940794
> Social media is not shoved down your throat

? literally 90%+ of all social interactions end with “what’s your instagram / twitter / etc”
it’s become as common place as any other form of communication, you’re almost seen as weird if you don’t have one

>>33940810
Yes the algorithms are designed to keep you addicted. Does that mean you have to fall for it? Or do you have will and priorities and decisiveness as an adult? Because if you don't have these basic things, nobody can save you from yourself. Porn can disappear from existence (which will never happen, but just saying) and you will just imagine porn in your mind or find some other addiction

>>33940778
>But it's important for you to know. I mean autism as in an actual condition
I guess I don't care enough. So I have autism. Now what? It doesn't magically fix any problems for me.

>>33940833
Maybe if you're a zoomer and you care a lot about people seeing you as "weird", but that still doesn't mean you have to fully participate in it. Just because you have a social media handle and give it out to people that doesn't mean you have to be engrossed in it?

>>33940845
This proves you have poor reading comprehension and I'm most likely responding to a moron from India

Not even bothered by the challenge anymore, just want love.

>>33940903
Point out where was I wrong in relation to what you were saying

>>33940928
NTA but he said he doesn’t use the app for those things as you still kept trying to prove your point to someone who practically agrees with you. It comes off like you just want to hear yourself talk instead of having a conversation.

>>33940652
>What is your personal opinion about porn?
I don't really know. I don't really care what people jerk off to, especially if they aren't hurting anybody. I've been on the internet for a long time so I guess you could say I'm desensitized to a lot of types of pornography. I think it can be a problem, obviously, and some people get way too into it. Am I way too into it? Probably, I'm posting here after all. But I think there is a balance, and to a good chunk of people they might look at porn once a month or once a week or so. I think a lot of people's opinions on porn comes from religion, and that's why people often say they feel "dirty" or "ashamed" after masturbating.
>What do you fap to in your imagination WITHOUT porn?
I used to think about girls I knew but not anymore, especially since everyone's constantly got a phone or computer access these days.
>How much do you want a gf on a scale of 1-10? Are you willing to put in a lot of effort to get and keep a partner, or are you more content being single?
I've got more pressing matters to fix before I try to find a girlfriend. I think it'd be nice, but honestly I'm picky and not a lot of girls strike my fancy anyways. I don't really think I've ever been in love love as people describe it, I've only had crushes. I hope it happens one day but I'm not really in a rush just yet.

nighas start reading the THE FREEDOM MODEL PMO BOOK its 100x better than easy peasy and i have stopped cooming after 10+ years of use.

>>33931267
NNN is just a meme like NoFap
Pornography is the real problem, not masturbating.

Congratulations to everybody who is still in it, we are now over halfway done

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I'm doing nnn and I'm fine, I've been horny some times but I've controled it quite well.

I really don't understand what the fuzz is all about, I wanted to see if I could control myself for a month and I don't know what I'm supposed to be feeling. Is this a meme?

Day 43 for me. I’m not looking at porn out of boredom as much anymore, but still here and there. Most days it’s not even an urge, just like a little thought of “that would be nice.” I still edge most days, but only 10-15 mins tops.

I haven’t been able to push myself to actually socialize more, just browsing this shithole more and watching Twitch more, but at least I’m not on Reddit or instagram.

>>33944647
holy fuck you’re so strong
not only that but you’re so cool
we’re all so impressed

>>33945345
It wasn't a showoff, wasn't my intention

i stopped keeping count of days. well into a flatline.
>>33940652
>What is your personal opinion about porn?
i am okay with it being banned.
>What do you fap to in your imagination WITHOUT porn?
it was girls that i knew and was interested in. may not have been the greatest idea.
>How much do you want a gf on a scale of 1-10?
it's probably a 1 or 2 now.
>Are you willing to put in a lot of effort to get and keep a partner, or are you more content being single?
i'm now content with being single.

I nutted.

came to say it's interesting how the first thread had a lot more posts per day and how slow this one is

kind of shows how many folks failed recently and stopped caring

>>33946040
I've got some bad blue balls that hurt but I'm still in.

20 years heavily addicted. I have undertaken another attempt to give PMO up few days into November, I am not counting but I am around 10 days clean now. I am starting to have persistent thoughts of peeking at porn but I know all too well how it will end up. Stay strong fellas.

>>33946081
no kidding
my balls and dick have never felt "fuller" and im really only waiting to beat my last years record (day 18) and see how long I can last from there

>>33946040
As for me I just stopped posting this whole thing isn't even something I consciously think about at this point for most of the day.
Only come here to post if I want to vent a little about getting horny or something, but it's becoming quite rare

>>33944115
I assumed everyone who participates in this is on the same page about that? Though looking at some of the posts, I guess not.
The thing is that quitting porn is a lot easier if you quit jacking off alongside it, at least temporary.

>>33946617
i don't even care to watch porn i wish i could bust a fat nut right now though

>>33931267
Day 13 of a clean SR streak checking in. Still no magic powers and people still hate me

>>33932247
You’re in the denial phase still. I was basically doing the same thing as you last month (minus bbc cuck shit) but it wasn’t pleasurable past a certain point and so I stopped and managed to quit porn/masturbation/orgasm entirely. I don’t feel the need to stick anything in there anymore but I definitely don’t tell myself I’m completely straight anymore either even though I hate men and would never actually sleep with one. I’ve basically conditioned myself to believe I am asexual and totally undesirable to the opposite sex even though neither one is true since I’ve fucked at least 20 women in 8 years. I just don’t want it anymore. Sex is demonic and evil. I’m convinced that when you orgasm you are letting spirits possess you temporarily. You can scoff but I have actual evidence to prove my point. I mean why do you think elites practice sodomy and sex magick rituals on kids? Ghey behavior is an affront to God and so I choose abstinence and I shall die on this hill brother.

>>33946837
it's bait he posts the same pasta in every thread

>>33946837
What would this evidence of post orgasm spiritual possession look like, anon?

>>33946794
Nobody is stopping you.
NNN is just a vehicle to quit or tone down on porn imo. It's just arbitrary rules to make it easier to motive yourself

Had a wet dream but didnt wet myself. I have taken a peek at my ex girlfriend's nudes few days ago. Apart from that 0 urge to look at porn. But I'm semi-hard most of the day.

>>33946040
>>33946606
Yep
It's just kind of in the background now
The only urges I've had in the past week were just morning wood

Day 18, just a single thought of my ex or even a picture of something attractive (e.g. fully clothed woman that is curvy) gets me hard so fast wtf.

>>33931267
Slept with an escort last Saturday so I'm out

This was my record last year. Day 18.

Feels kind of anti climatic. I'm thinking I'll either last til this weekend or Thanksgiving day.

>>33951684
was it worth it at least?

>>33953017
>escort
>worth it
>paying for sex
never worth it anon

I had a surgery right before November started (It was a pilonidal cyst excision so right around my tailbone) and for the first two weeks I was so scared of getting boners because I didn't want the blood flow down there to fuck up the would I have back there so I just straight up unintentionally get this far in NNN. Lmao. I'm good now but I think I can make it all the way to the end, this is actually really easy.

Almost failed yesterday, had no issues for the past 17 days but on day 18 I edged for an hour. Took a lot of restraint to fight the "eh, the challenge doesn't matter" type thoughts but in the end I closed my pc for the night and went to bed.
I'm surprised I didn't have a wet dream or nutted in my sleep that night but maybe I'm not healthy enough. Also in the very slow process of losing weight so maybe that has something to do.

I failed day 14 and I don't think it was worth it. Day 10 to 14 was so difficult, I couldnt focus on anything and got nothing done. Nnn also made me look at more porn while edging like crazy. You should just avoid porn, cause that's the real evil. Jerking off is ok. I'll be jerking off until I get a girlfriend

Honestly it's just kind of boring now. I haven't had a strong urge in like 9 days.

11 days left!

the urges for me come in waves like a rollercoaster
day 8 was rough, day 16 was the hardest so far and besides that, it's been easy
so im assuming one more day during this week or next will be the worst and then NNN is over

Which do you suppose is more likely:
>getting ground through 12-16 years of an education system that hates men, an untold number of years of propagandistic media made by manhating freaks who portray men as hapless virginal retards (unless they're niggers), and in all likelihood a shitty home life with your shitty mom gave you psychological dick problems
>the pixels on the screen exerted magic on you and now you have dick problems
Porn probably isn't great for you, but if you're replacing it with fucking dumpy wallsplat minneapolis 4's and giving them the boyfriend experience for a shitty bj or some shit then you're a fucking retard lol

>>33956437
damn life pissed you off lol

just failed NoFap after 26 days. I didn't watch porn but I had an uncontrollable urge to masturbate. I had a strong sexual fantasy and I honestly ejaculated in about 10 seconds.

What do I do now? I assume a relapse isn't a complete disaster as long as I recognise what's happened.
I'm still on 33 days without watching porn videos.

Kinda crazy, lately the difficult thing wasn't as much fighting the hornyness (though I do get quite horny somewhat regularly)
But at this point it's much more about wanting to jack off out of boredom or as a distraction from whatever I'm supposed to be doing

>>33931267
I had a threesome 1st of November at 0200, and a couple of times more. And I watched porn almost every day and if I’m honest I jerked off twice a day too. But I’ve been good today, and I will be for at least 3 more days so it can be a personal record

>>33959076
The longest you've gone without jacking off is 4 days lol

20 days in already. Im gonna make it. I realize that porn isn't the worst thing in my life but it's definitely an extra nail in that depression coffin. I'm still depressed not jacking off but the burden is a little lighter.

>>33931267
going strong

Was looking at porn and let loose some precum. I need to stop looking.

>>33931852
What I've been doing for the past two months, focusing on my classes.