I still live with my family. I have a boyfriend and I'm planning to move in with him soon, but we're waiting until after the holidays.My family loves my bf, and they're always happy to see him. They're old fashioned though, and they've been acting weird because I brought a guy friend over the other day.They kept whispering to me like "is everything okay between you and Todd?" And I tell them we're fine, and then they ask me who my guy friend is and why I'm hanging around another man.I've told them he's just a friend, he knows I have a bf, and I'm genuinely not interested in this guy as anything but a friend. My family does not believe it, and they had grandma tell me about how Todd's a good guy and they act like I'm doing something wrong and it makes me feel guilty.
>>33932419Continue ignoring your family. They're wrong, you're right, it's that simple and it won't even be an issue when you move in with your bf
>>33932419as a man in a happy relationship i personally would not choose to hang around one on one with a female friend in my parents house, i dont like the expectation that having the courtesy comes from insecurity, i think its just a natural kindness to give your partner
>>33932419This is crazy.Stop talking, interacting with your abusive, disgusting, and toxic family. What fucking right do they have to suggest anything?Fuck them!I hope they die and burn in hell!
Because Todd will be better off if you give up your friendships for him. It's not good for you personally and if your family had more collective brain cells they'd ask for you to keep the guy friend as a more of a distant friend instead of cutting him off completely.If the friend himself forces you to choose he's not worth it. If your family does- they don't have your best interests in mind.
