I have this Korean coworker I have known for a couple months nowWe work together well especially on company events that happen every 3 weeks with planning organizing you get the jistI remember she would invite her finance to the first couple events we had when she started working but stopped showing up completely after the 4thI followed them both on Instagram and saw a story from the guy asking if theres anywhere in the area where he can stay implying they broke up and she kicked him outShe also never mentions him to meMore recently at the events we have together shes more upfront with meAt first she got annoyed at me for not wanting to put up a obviously broken company banner and to>be a manBut she treats me more nice now always completing me on my work making sure I get paid extra for the overtime I do setting up events she legit grabbed my both my shoulders from behind to say hi to meShe takes looks at me while I am workingHeres the one thing that really got meI was talking to some co workers and these events arent super crowded but when she went inbetween me and another coworker I felt the back of her hand brush against my entire ass and it did not seem like a accident cause she had plenty room to get byI don't want a office romance as I get paid pretty well and don't want to ruin things in my lifeI also suspect she got cheated on and there is proof>No mention of her bf on social media>All this guys posts are all of him wandering streets and when hes inside it looks like completely different apartments each time>All their photos together were deleted except one that looks like she forgotI feel like if she cheated on him I won’t lie she is attractive and got a nice rackI remember she asked me to take a pic of her and her friend and remember seeing the photo later and thinking that she has really grabable titsIdk if I am overthinking way too much about this or not
>>33937779The last event I had with her she had me take a photo for her and legit put her hair completely down just for me and looked absolutely beautifulThen later when we were talking she stood super close to my face smiling brightly at me with her boobs close to my chest thanking me for everything but then turned and leftI have no clue if she is just being friendly or wants to jump my bones
>>33937779I think she does like you. Of course, this doesn't matter as you said you don't want an office romance
she blatantly wants your penis in and all around her mouth
OP has posted this shit before. Either this is copypasta or OP is a massive fag, probably both.
>>33937956Actually it’s a update post the post under was the update but I figured recounting the story helped new anons understand my situationNext time I’ll link it my bad
>>33937912Yeah it definitely felt like flirting especially with how close we were while talking mind you it was a bit cramped but she went super close to my face and her boobs we’re 1 inch from my chestI think she tried to give me a hug before J left but at that moment she was standing too far away so she backed offHer ass did look good in that dress she had and seeing her with her hair down made me see how insanely pretty she was
>>33937779>Did my coworker want to fuck me?probably
>>33937814I don’t think I should pursue her but I’m in a dilemma here>If I do nothing she might advance on me even more with her thinking I’m playing hard to get when I’m just trying to be professional or she keeps doing shit like what I mentioned in my postOr>I tell her my concerns on her behavior towards me which if she was just being nice could cause tons of issues and cause company dramaWhat should I do anons I see her again in 2 weeksDo I just continue ignoring her?
>>33939963Shit now that I’m thinking about it she probably does think I’m playing hard to get that would explain why she has been trying to talk to me much more and why she put her boobs 1 inch away from my chest looking up directly at me smilingFuck anons what the hell do I do if this continues I’m not sure if this will affect my work or notI’m not gonna lie she is attractive and her boobs are nice (her dress makes them they stick out like torpedoes)But I just do not want to cause any issues in my life I haven’t had a better paying job in 2 years and even if I did hook up up with her I don’t know how crazy or desperate this girl is and would affect me at setting up events
>>33940459>what the hell do I doreport her to HR
>>33940596I unfortunately can’t because>I tell her my concerns on her behavior towards me which if she was just being nice could cause tons of issues and cause company dramaAlso the fact that HR values women over men in situations like mine
I'm not really an expert on these matters, but I think if you approach this situation from a normal human perspective, without any outside influence, just as one person to another, then you need to talk to her about it first. Of course, from what you say, it's clear that she's almost openly flirting with you. You shouldn't ignore her; I don't think that's right. In general, you need to find out more about her. And one more thing. I noticed that you don't really want to get into a relationship right now because you have a good job, etc. I don't know if she's adequate (to find out if this is really the case, you need to communicate with her on a higher level), but if so, it won't be worse. Don't worry about work, everything will be fine.
>>33940635So you've decided on "funemployment" then.
>>33940643I do find this woman attractive but for once in my life things are going good with a high paying job, okay apartment, friends it’s just I don’t want to ruin it all over this womanYou know I can’t have my cake and eat it too
>>33937779>Woman physically touches and plays with youYes she likes you. Come on man.Unfortunately you should avoid work relationships so that's all you're going to get to enjoy.
>>33941174She hasn’t really touched me besides grabbing my shoulders from behind full grasp BOTH handsThat’s the moment things started happeningI am known a professional with colleagues with my attitude and I work incredibly close with this woman due to us being the only 2 people in the company with any event planning experience
>>33937779>I don't want a office romance as I get paid pretty well and don't want to ruin things in my lifeso why the blog?
Here’s what you need to ask yourself anon: “do I value my job enough to risk losing it by engaging in sexo with coworker?” If the answer is “no” then what I would do, as embarrassing as it is, is tell her you are ghey. I know, I know, you aren’t really but it’s your only option to shut her down. Because if you try ignoring her it may lead her to make up some bs about you sexually harassing her and you’ll get fired. Nothing makes a woman dry up faster than a guy who likes guys. This is the only option and it really sucks because you wanna fvck this bitch’s brains out but if you do you’re gonna lose the job.
>>33941657>It really sucks because you wanna fvck this bitch’s brains out but if you do you’re gonna lose the jobRight on the money anonYou said better than anyone in thread and understand where I’m coming from
>>33941454I just wanted advice on my situation
>>33944080You already got adviceYou don't want to take this any further so you need to be able to shut her down, saying you're gay is the best way
>>33944132Is there any other way?
>>33945174What if you could "have your cake and eat it"? Does she seem like the type to ruin your life for the lols? Are you sure that you're not just a blackpilled turbo virgin brainwashed into thinking that women go out of their way to get the guy they're interested in fired? If you want to pursue her, wait for the next event, and suggest you guys meet before or after work for anything. Could be getting a soda from the machine in the lobby, just outside of work. If yes, then you have a casual outside-of-work avenue to "feel" her out (do not grope her). If not, nothing out of the ordinary, no loss.
I don't know why everyone is so up in arms against dating/asking out coworkers. Unless you work directly with them every day or your company has an anti-fraternization policy it doesn't seem like a big deal.One of my exes mentioned after we broke up that her male coworkers asked her out left and right, and this was at a big name-brand engineering company. She got together with one after and it seemed like it was working out for them (it's been a year since I last heard from or saw the bitch so IDK what they're like now). If you're worried about HR, that's because you're a creep. Is it any wonders so many anons ITT are shitting their boots over that happening with female coworkers?
>>33937779>I don't want a office romance as I get paid pretty well and don't want to ruin things in my lifeThis is the right answer. Everything else is overthinking. DO NOT shit where you eat.
>>33945963>I don't know why everyone is so up in arms against dating/asking out coworkersThat's because you're retarded.
>>33945639Listen this woman is attractive I’m not gonna deny thatI actually saw the pic of I took of her and her friend on a repost on Instagram today and thinking to myself that I want to squeeze her boobsSure would her boobs feel nice in my face? YesWould my dick feel good in between them? YesBut should I think with my dick and try to fuck her when I am unsure of her intentions? Absolutely no>>33945963>Unless you work directly with them every dayI see her everyday and mainly work close together when we need events so every 3 weeks it’s a full week of us alone together>>33946018Exactly anonUnless this girl basically grabs my dick and says I want you I’m not touching her with a ten foot poll cause besides the possible ass hand slide and grabbing my shoulders I have no clue what her intentions are with me
>>33946020You're the ones sitting here stressing out about HR like eunuchs while your coworkers are getting deep into your other coworkers' gruts consequence-free. Fucking hell, do you know how many married couples I've met that when asked how the met, said "at work?"
>>33946089>I see her everyday and mainly work close together when we need events so every 3 weeks it’s a full week of us alone togetherThen that's gonna be a no-go, Joe. Shame you don't work in different departments or something and that the events need a full week of working together.
>>33946173I'm not stressing about HR retard. Fucking your coworker might work out or it might also ruin your entire fucking life for no good reason.
>>33946197That's true of any woman, double retard. One of my brothers managed to get a rape accusation and his life ruined from a regular ass ho he met through our sister.Anyway the matter's settled, OP is too close for comfort even in my opinion. If they broke up or if they started dating but it fizzled out from no chemistry it'd be more awkward than anything.
>>33937779She's a whore>t. Spent years in AsiaAsian women are fucking nuts. For some reaon they have this massive inferiority complex when around whites. It makes them resort to their base instincts which is to whore their pussies out for clout. But he careful, she's only doing it for status and reassurance. Once you fuck her you'll find she turns on you too, just like she did with her ex.
>>33946284That's true retard^3, a rape accusation can ruin your life. A rape accusation through your workplace is much, much worse.
>>33946173I’m gonna have to start putting my user as OP with all these replies>while your coworkers are getting deep into your other coworkers' gruts consequence-freeThis chick seems only interested in me as she is constantly takes quick glances at me>>33946182I believe I said in a reply but me and her are company event planners and we mainly do fundraisers and galas and while not every 3 weeks we have an event that was just to help you anons understand the time frame for that 1 week we are together for atleast 9 hours everyday>>33946197I’m afraid if I report to HR I’ll get fucked over>>33946284Hope your brother is doing better now anon>>33946307>Once you fuck her you'll find she turns on you too, just like she did with her ex.I don’t think that because her and that guy were engaged a couple months ago when he showed up at our events but he became a no show and all his instagram stories are asking for a place to stayThat doesn’t happen unless the guy cheats on the girl and she kicked him out would explain the flirty nature
>>33946418If you anons really want to know my take on my situation and I thank you all for making me realize what’s going on>She was engaged to that guy months ago (he was a tall white beta looking dude btw)>He cheated on her/argument>She at first was annoyed with my performance with the whole “be a man” and now after working with me for hours she sees how reliable I am>She starts wearing dresses that suit her sexy figure>Compliments me, smiles at me, grabbed both my shoulders from behind, put her face close to mine and her boobs close to my chest, literally tried hugging me>I’m white so now she sees a reliable white guy who puts in effort in his work and now is craving my dick and is flirting with meNow this could be the case unless I am overthinking like crazy but I genuinely do not know what her deal isWhat’s the verdict anons?
>>33946329This is what I’m afraid of because who knows how this chick will respond
>>33946418>>33946450Yeah bro you're being set up to be the rebound. I wouldn't do it.Think about it this way, she already had her eye on you while she was in a relationship before she knew anything was wrong. What's gonna happen to you?
>>33947680She had her eye on me after her fiancé stopped showing upI guess after cheating on her she doesn’t want a beta provider she wants a reliable strong man and I’m the only others man in her life that’s close so now she is hungry for my cockI mean she was literally the stereotype of WMAF and now she is hungry for moreI mean>Korean>Was with a white guy>Overly flirty towards meIt’s literally the stereotype>>33937835As much as her mouth probably would feel good I just can not think with my dick and ruin everythingUnless she invites me out to dinner or comes on to me I won’t know if she is being nice or wants to fuck me
>>33947829>She had her eye on me after her fiancé stopped showing upReddit as fuck phrase but I can't think of a better time to use it:>YOU POOR SWEET SUMMER CHILDWomen have their scanners on at all times for upgrades. She didn't spontaneously pick you>she wants a reliable strong man>she is hungry for my cockThis is your ego talking, and ego is a man's worst enemy. Trust me dude, this chick is three moves ahead of you, just because the overt flirting didn't start until after the breakup doesn't mean it wasn't already in her mind. >I’m the only others man in her life that’s closeWomen find men fucking anywhere and everywhere, she wanted you in particular dude, probably from the moment she met you. But you're not special to her, you're just another bench warmer. Trust me man I've seent it, I've seent it myself wif me own two eyes.
>>33947875Here’s a pic of what she kinda looks like just imagine a bigger rack but that’s how far her boobs go out in her dressI wouldn’t call it ego thoughWhenever she talks to other male employees at events she’s always taking glances at me workingShe barely talks to other guys they approach her especially with her new dressesShe grabbed my shoulders from behind to say hi like an anime characterShe always compliments me on everything I doShe always makes sure to be close to me while talking making sure she is close to my chestUnless I am truly overthinking and she is just being niceOr she really wants my dickWhich one do you think?
>>33947966>I wouldn’t call it ego thoughThe ego part is thinking you're such a stud you spontaneously made this gook girl lust for your BWC. No dude, you were next up on the bench, that's it. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it just is what it is.Anyway dude you're getting weirdly obsessive and down bad. If you want to do it, just shoot your shot despite the 6 gorrillion times other anons and I told you it's a bad idea. You probably won't get raped by HR or accused of rape, but you will likely be discarded for a new guy at some point down the line and will be forced to work with an ex which will suck.Or, just go to an asian massage parlor and get a girl that looks like her to give you "full service." At least then you'll have some post-nut clarity and will have temporarily satiated your very clear case of yellow fever (no judgement, I'm terminally ill with that disease too)
>>33948065Sorry I don’t mean to come off as obsessive it’s just that this whole situation has been messing me up mentally>Or, just go to an asian massage parlor and get a girl that looks like her to give you "full service."This is actually a great idea especially if I find a Korean placeWhere can I find one of these places?I just want a handjob while the masseuse bounces her boobs up and downI love watching a pair of bouncing tits like any man does
>>33948065>At least then you'll have some post-nut clarity and will have temporarily satiated your very clear case of yellow fever (no judgement, I'm terminally ill with that disease too)Yeah finding a AMP is probably my best betI’ve never been to one so no clue if you can request a certain race to give you a happy ending if so I’m definitely picking KoreanDo they do other requests personally if I went I just want the massage and the happy endingSeeing some Korean tits and them bouncing will make up for me not being able to do it with my coworker and will clear my head especially with how much stress she’s been putting on my mind
>>33948588>>33949108Dude chill the fuck outJust look for AMPs in your area on maps. Don't call in or make a reservation, just walk in. The sketchier the better, it should have neon signs, covered windows, stained awnings, etc. Almost all of them will jerk you off and if you're lucky some of them will offer full "boom boom"You can't request a certain race no but all rook same anyway. Most masseuses will be middle aged or older but occasionally you get lucky and find a place staffed by young hotties or at least MILFy girls.
>>33949179Have you been to one what’s the experience like?Will she do my requests I have no clue how it worksI don’t mind if she’s a bit older as long as she takes her shirt off for meI’m just trying to blow some steam after all this Korean chick is fucking me up mentally and emotionallyI just have so much mixed emotions anon
>>33949232>Have you been to one what’s the experience like?Many times. You go in, get naked, lie down, the girl massages your back, asks you to flip over, then the fun begins>Will she do my requests I have no clue how it worksDepends, you need to just ask them for what you want. Like I said, some places will stop at just handjobs while at other places you can assfuck and facialize them like a porno. >I’m just trying to blow some steam after all this Korean chick is fucking me up mentally and emotionallyJust approach her with this same needy and desperate energy and your problems will be solved, she'll be turned off and won't want your as anymore kek.
>>33949370That sounds amazing anonI’ve always wanted to try it>Depends, you need to just ask them for what you want. Like I said, some places will stop at just handjobsI just want the happy ending would they be ok with my bouncing boobs request?>Many times. You go in, get naked, lie down, the girl massages your back, asks you to flip over, then the fun beginsWhat’s your favorite experience/memory?
>>33949445>I just want the happy ending would they be ok with my bouncing boobs request?How should I know nigga? Just go and ask. I'd say probably though, even places that refused me sex/BJs were ok with topless HJs.The only bad thing is that once you're on the massage table, it's all kind of a done deal. If you don't like the looks of the girl you get, just leave before you exchange money.>What’s your favorite experience/memory?My absolute favorite was having a threesome with two hot Korean hookers after a breakup, there's one place in my town where the girls look like b-tier JAV models or k-pop dancers. One of the girls was so turned on she gave me a second round on the house. Then there was a hooker at one place I became a regular of, must have seen her 4 or 5 times, she was middle aged but she was kinda tall and had the most insane knockers and figure, like an Asian Siri Suxxx (before she got the chop)However the best looking girl I've had IMO is bittersweet, because she was absolutely perfect. Short hair died blue, like Rei Ayanami's hair, PERFECT figure, big natural boobs without being too big. I didn't have enough cash on me for full service so I got a topless BJ. She got really turned on after as she was finishing the actual massage so I pinned her down and fingerbanged her until she came. She said to come back and fuck her but sadly the next chance I had to go to that place she had already moved on. I learned my lesson, always have enough cash on you if you come across a unicorn like that.Honestly these tales of debauchery make me want to go myself. I'm tired and really can't afford it, but work sucked today and getting milked by an asian fuckdoll always makes it better. That's my warning to you, it gets addicting. Once you find a good place nothing stops you from having sex except for a couple hundred bucks, becoming a regular can drain your wallet fast.
>>33949445>>33949503Oh and make sure you don't get pinchedI live in a very liberal West Coast US city that has basically decriminalized prostitution because "muh empowering sex work" so the cops leave the parlors and working girls alone for the most part. In other areas of the US/other countries I've heard they're definitely used as honeypots/sting operations so watch yourself.Quickest way to tell if the place is legit or a setup is to get the girl to flash you before handing over any money and having technically solicited prostitution. Just say "can I see first" while pulling on their shirts and they get the message (don't mention anything about watching out for cops obviously)
>>33949503>>33949516Thanks for all the advice anon I believe getting a happy ending will definitely clear my headI don’t mean to come off as obsessive but this chick has my yellow fever go crazy and I’m sick of itAny sites I can use to find these places I don’t know how to tell if it’s a normal massage place or a AMPDo I say I’m new or just don’t say anything since that could come off as suspiciousI have some extra cash so the max price I want for the massage, happy ending, and boobs bouncing is around 70-80 bucks with a 30 dollar tipI definitely want every last drop to be drained by a masseuse which I bet will feel amazing
>>33949567>Any sites I can use to find these places I don’t know how to tell if it’s a normal massage place or a AMPThere are multiple website you can use for this anon, I'm not gonna hold your hand all night. In general if it's not a chain place like massage envy then it's gonna be an AMP. If there are pictures of Asian women on the google maps reviews and some suspiciously vague 5 star reviews, that's how you know you're in.>I have some extra cash so the max price I want for the massage, happy ending, and boobs bouncing is around 70-80 bucks with a 30 dollar tipYou're gonna need more than that. Going rate for half an hour (basically a "house fee") around here is $50 and it's $80-$100 for the "tip." It's an expensive habit.
>>33949579That should be enough for me anon thanks againWish me luck and wish me luck with this Korean chickIf she advances what should I do?
>>33949618UPDATEI’m writing this in the bathroom cause I just got the biggest boner rnI got to work early by accident and she was also thereShe just came up to me and asked me to do her a big favorShe said>Anon, you know my birthday is coming up right? Since you’re really good at designing all the banners and stuff could you design my birthday cake?>I like a ton of filling on topAfter she says this she comes closer to me putting her boobs basically on my chest and then giving me a grin and walking awayShould I just let my yellow fever consume me and fuck her brains out?
>>33951370OK if you really want to do this tell her you wanna talk about it later tonight on a date or at her/your place
>>33951403It’s either this sketchy AMP I found or I pour gallons of cum in this bitchWhich should I choose?
>>33951370Chimown bruh if that isn't a more obvious come on I don't know what is. If you do plumb her, share and crosspost to /gif/ thanks
>>33951648Well it goes back to how much you value this jobDo you think fucking her would be worth more than the possibility of losing this job
>>33951703I’ll see what happens next with her if she does an even stronger come on I’m fucking her brains out
>>33951826Dude what more evidence do you need Do you want to fuck her or not She already gave you an opening, fucking ask her on a date/hang out
>>33952249She could be trying to still fuck with me mentally I’ll make a update post soon
>>33949232just lookup the area you live on usaSG and see where the koreans are
>>33952511stop being a retard and just go for it, life is only so long have some fun. Just try to finesse keeping your job and fucking this bitch You got it
>>33952555I did find a AMP place that looks super sketch literally just Asian Spa 20 minutes away near where I work literally just a couple photos that show basic beds and brightly litZero reviews and no website just general vague pricesI can’t tell if I hit the jackpot or it’s unsafeThey have a number but I’m not sure how to call them besides my phone which I do not want to use for security reasons>Just try to finesse keeping your job and fucking this bitchYeah probably my best betWhat about the AMP?
>>33952657Why have you not asked her out yet
>>33937779WTF is with all these naysayers ITT? If you think she's single and into you, fucking go for it, man.
>>33952716Still a bit weary obviously from the other incidents with herWhat are your thoughts should I go to that sketchy AMP?
>>33952728Yeah I’m gonna wait one more time for it to be even more explicit as whatever she does next might be even more forward/horny or she’s gonna drag me to the bathroom and suck my dickI’m at work now and she hasn’t done anything yetAs for the AMP as sketchy as it is should I go I heard the sketchier the betterAnd I really need to blow off some steam
>>33954870I'm gonna be real, you're an idiotShe's already give you so many signs and yet you don't do anythingEventually she's going to think you don't like her or that you're an autistic who can't pick up on things and stop trying
>>33954886Ok you’re right I will talk to her tomorrow but what about the AMP should I go to that sketchy place?
>>33956339Well how soon do you think this girl is gonna fuck you if you ask her outGoing to the AMP might relieve tension and make it less stressful asking her out I guess, but it also might remove your motivation to do it
>>33956357Probably like that night in all honestyI just looked at the schedule for the rest of the week on my job’s board with all employees and she won’t be in till next MondayI don’t have her Insta so I can’t text herI’ll go to the AMP soon so 5 final questions I need you to answer for me since this thread will be dead by then so please answer them>Should I go to the sketchy AMP (Called Asian Spa, no reviews, no website, no info besides prices and phone number)>Will the masseuse take off her shirt for me?>Will the masseuse jiggle and bounce her boobs for me while jerking me off?>How should I approach her? Should I ask for dinner?>Or do I drag her to a hotel/my place and fuck her brains out?I will make a update post soon so just let me know the answers to these questionsThanks again Anon
>>33956453I dunno I wasn't the guy who has been to AMPs beforeIf you actually fuck her you better put some pics or vids to /gif/ though
>>33956455Will tryMaybe you can atleast try to answer my questions?What do you think anon?
>>33947657Then you are fucking retarded.
>>33956460>How should I approach her? Should I ask for dinner?Well she said yesterday that she thinks you can design her birthday cake, whatever that means. Ask her out and tell you wanna talk about that or whatever else.>Or do I drag her to a hotel/my place and fuck her brains out?Ask her out for dinner or whatever and if she seems to like it ask her if you wanna go back to your place for the night
>>33956472Thanks can you also answer this for me?>Should I go to the sketchy AMP (Called Asian Spa, no reviews, no website, no info besides prices and phone number)
>>33956481Bro I dunnoI've never been to onePersonally I wouldn't if you're confident you're gonna fuck this girl tomorrow
>>33956487I said she’s not in I thought she would be at work tomorrow so I gotta wait
>>33946307>>33937779Asian girl here, yeah she deffo wants your cock and may be a bit of a whore.
>>33956500I say try and go to AMP to get some post cum clarity with Asian fever. If you still want to fuck her, I say go for it but with caution not to loose your job. She's clearly flirting so if you decide not to fuck her just say you're not wanting any coworker relationships but do it like you're flattered because you would in all honesty smash her. In the end update is what happens.
the advice here is absolutely retarded. >a pretty girl at work is interested in me>AVOID - it can ruin your life!>why don't you try an AMP instead?>okPretty sure getting arrested in a prostitution sting and being labelled a lifelong sex offender is going to ruin your life worse than asking a cute coworker on a date. Not to mention whatever venereal diseases the prostitutes have. Yes, herpes can infect fingers (herpetic whitlow if you want to look it up). No, condoms don't protect you from herpes and warts. Get off this gay website and ask your coworker out, you fucking pussy.
>>33957464>In the end update is what happensSoon anonThis will be the last post I make besides the updateI can’t believe this is still up after a weekAny last general advice