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I’m 21 and he’s 29 - it’s not like he’s my boss or anything. He’s not actually that old either. We’re both college students. But I’m like seriously crushing on him like we both hadn’t talk in the past semesters. Now he’s currently talking to me, first it was just the heys and now we had our first conversation together because we’re interning in the same place. Now I’m like obsessed thinking about him and stalking him online. Actually couldn’t find anything about him online. I’m thinking he uses a gamertag or something. He actually treats his friends so good too. It’s hot how nice of a person he is. Now I’m waiting for him to make the first move or it’ll be a one sided thing because I never been in a relationship before! Or just have the friendship develop more. lol So that’s what I’m currently feeling right now!
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>>33943419
Welp. His life is over. Younger student pursuing him like this. Let the groomer accusations on campus against him commence.
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>>33943419
based if straight cringe if gay
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>>33943423
Haha he can groom me anytime ;)
What I notice that he has a harem of girls my age as friends. But maybe it’s that class specifically that has majority of women.
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>>33943426
I forgot to put I’m a female lol.
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>>33943419
>It’s hot how nice of a person he is.
Lmao! Moid hands.
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>>33943427
>class specifically that has majority of women.
most likely.
i wanted my 60 year old prof to "groom" me when i was 20, but he had to follow rules. is just such a cultural mess that extending to students now.
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>>33943439
Wdym that's the go-to cover phrase for "I need him to strangle me while he dicks me down because he's tall/handsome/jacked enough" o algo
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>has crush on someone
>making the other partner make the first move
Yeah bitch that ain't going to happen.

You should be the one making the first move since you're the one who has a crush on someone not the otherway around.

Doing teasing, flirting or seductive to attract your ideal man. You seriously expect to get something out of nothing? He won't risk looking stupid for someone he ain't desperate trying to woo over.
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>>33943419
Are you hot? Do you want to fuck him or date him?
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>>33943419
>Now I’m waiting for him to make the first move
Ask him out, dammit!
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>>33943517
>Wdym that's the go-to cover phrase for "I need him to strangle me while he dicks me down because he's tall/handsome/jacked enough" o algo
Ah, I see. In that case, carry on.
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>>33943526
I’m cute and I want to date him
>>33943623
>>33943518
I’m just gonna change my appearance and see what happens !
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>>33943758
>>33943517
lol I don’t believe in that
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>>33944035
But women are attracted to bad boys?
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>>33945362
Well, I like nice boys who treat me romantically gently <333
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>>33943942
>I’m just gonna change my appearance and see what happens !
changing "your" appearance got nothing to do with "him" unless he specified he likes X or Y girl but he doesn't so you're just trying to just appear something else and expect guys to get a hint?

The hint got nothing to do with "him" but "you" only. that's not how you attract someone and yet girls think guys bad at taking hints or dating someone while girls themselves can't do better than most guy does where they humiliate themselves publicly with risks of rejection.
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>>33945362
This is why you don't ask basement-dwelling incels who have never been on a date for advice about dating.
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>>33946798
I've been on two dates
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>>33945855
I hope that's true.
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>>33943419
>femanon crushing on an unc
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>>33946633
Yea better change it for myself
>>33949728
LMAOO I knowwwww, it’s embarrassing
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>>33943431
No female would ever forget that dumb ass troon
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You talking about me?

>>33949834
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>>33949842
Nope, but I do suspect he’s on 4chan.
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>>33949857
Worth a shot. If you were her you would have known the little details I changed.
Best of luck anon, make sure he treats you right.
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>>33949886
Thx, I’m just gonna wait it out LMFAO.
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>>33949857
No! Don't be a fem brain, let him know how you feel!
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>>33949938
I’m gonna wait until the friendship develops and see what will happen
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>>33950017
Ok but still, you should try building the friendship too. Guys can get discouraged if they put in a lot of effort and arnt sure if you enjoy it as much as them. Really that is being respectful of your time.
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>>33950029
That’s true, I’m going to try that
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>>33950029
Yeah I agree with this. Bitches be like:
"I don't ever get that honeymoon phase attraction anymore"
because the girl simply just wanted the attention all the time and just give bare minimum to someone else and relationship dies out or worse people cheat.

What girls are talking about just crushing/obsessing over someone then their potential partner or partner loses interest over them because they're doing all the effort and get little to nothing in return.
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>>33943419

Happy 4 u girlie <3 enjoy the crush. But desu if ur mostly into the age gap dynamic, re-evaluate, especially if he's around other younger girls and ur just hoping he'll choose u. Talk about something you're passionate about or good at that would otherwise separate you from the rest of them. The age gap is a very generic thing in us females and we know how magnetic our youth is and ngl we all fight for the same 30 y/o guy. Do the same, and if he ever says something like "you're mature for your age", girl you win
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>>33943419
>Now I’m waiting for him to make the first move

>omg i like a guy
>i will do nothing about it!
idiot
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>>33954014
But isn’t it weird when he says "you're mature for your age" ?
>>33954181
I’m just checking him out from the sidelines. I don’t know if he’s like a rapist or something.
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>>33943427
yea it's over. he's got them on rotation.
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>>33943419
>29 is considered old for a 21yo
What the fuck
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>>33954514
I mean he’s almost 30 and I’m just in my 20s
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>>33954014
>Do the same, and if he ever says something like "you're mature for your age", girl you win
lmfao, that's a classic predatory line that pedos usually say to underage girls, not young adults in their 20s.
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>>33954922
Retard
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>>33955006
How so? My life is beginning and he seems well-adjusted in his life because he’s older. Just different life stages.
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>>33955006
Nowadays age gaps are a big deal. Did you not hear about that college guy who got beat up trying to meet a in 18 yo at 21?
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>>33957365
That age gap is fine though
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>>33943419
That age difference is insignificant. Hell, even if he were 39 or 49 I'd say go for it. You're both adults, you're crushing on him, there's nothing to think about here. Shoot your shot.
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>>33957918
Oh no, not 39 or 49 lol. It’s like I’m taking care of the elderly when I’m older
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>>33957983
Understandable. I'm just saying it's acceptable. This recent societal rise in prudishness regarding age differences between adults is just bizarre.
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>>33958547
It is but it shouldn’t really be acceptable. For example, Bruce Willis’ wife is 47 and she shouldn’t really be the caretaker for him you know?



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