Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
Do you have impulse control?
>>33943818Yes.
My gf and I have been dating each other for several months. Last night I caught a glimpse of bumble on her phone. She told me that her friend wanted to know if some guy was on bumble so she was looking for him. She said she accidentally bought lifetime premium a long time ago and was helping her friend. Obviously this is highly suspicious to me. Our relationship seems totally fine otherwise. Am I overreacting for asking to see her app next time we meet (to see if she’s active or just swiping left to find her friend’s crush) and asking her to delete it?
>>33943836She quiet quit on you. She's now shopping for replacement.
I'm horny!
>>33943836Tell her that her keeping the app is bothering you. And desu this whole "stalking someone for my friend" excuse is kinda creepy, even if she's being honest
>>33943842How would you handle the situation?>>33943853You’re right. I should press the issue.
(repost for people in this thread)enter gender:are you autistic? do you think you are autistic? do you hate people with autism?
I fucking hate my existence as a manlet I have no reason to live other than existing to make others appreciate their own lives
>>33943909MProbablyNo
>>33943909MYes, I am autistic and I can't stand being around other people with autism
>>33943818Very, very poor impulse control. But it's there.
>>33943836The story is implausible but implausible things do happen all the time. For me the bigger red flag is that you caught her off guard with seeing this, she came up with this explanation on the spot, you were face to face so able to judge her tone of voice, the look in her eye, whether she seemed at all flustered and so on, and you still do not seem to know if she lied or not. That means either she lied or you have severe trust issues and in both scenarios it does not bode well for the relationship. It should not be hard to tell when your own partner is being genuine in answering something face to face.
>>33943909MNo, no and no.
>>33943909MNo.Probably some flavour of neurodivergent (maybe ADHD? never bothered to check, I could just be lazy), but I have zero reason to think I have autism.No, why would I? I
>>33943909F, no, I definitely share some traits, and no
>>33943917Surely it takes more than a few months of being with someone to tell with great accuracy whether they're lying, unless they have obvious tells.
>>33943911You exist to make a naive woman be shocked at how much she could desperately crave a short man's cock.
>>33943909MNo.Some traits overlap, but no. Not for their autism specifically, but they can get really annoying.
>>33943934Don't try to hype me up or whatever.
>>33943934>>33943937Also it doesn't make sense for a woman to be capable of lusting after a short guy. It just doesn't sound possible.
>>33943932I don't really think so. There is a difference between being able to sell a convincing lie with time to rehearse the story and prepare yourself, and literally being caught but still pokerfacing and experly lying in response.Plus it's an intuitive thing, you don't have to consciously realize their eye twitches or their voice sounds flat, you just listen to them and go "huh feels off/I'm not convinced". Or they are scrambling a bit, you eye them in a skeptical manner, and that makes it worse because they are realizing you're not buying it. Few people are expert liars, especially lying without warning to someone who knows them well and is very close to them. Most of the time people don't fail to miss it because they actually miss it but because their hope and desire to trust is stronger than acknowledging their gut feeling that already knows what's up.
>>33943917I do have serious trust issues, but I also try to be reasonable and give people the benefit of the doubt. Inside I’m of course freaking out. I want to ask to see her app to see what exactly is going on. The reason I’m asking for opinions here is to make sure my trust issues don’t make me overreact. She is foreign and has different mannerisms that I haven’t learned. Maybe she’s a great liar too. Idk.
>>33943909MNoNoin high school yea all the autists annoyed me. now that i hang out with a bunch of them itt i cant hate them only pity them.
>>33943944I'm 5'4" and I've had women lust after me. It's super rare and was far more difficult for me than it would've been if I was tall, but still. Once you've had a woman tell you she masturbated to the thought of sucking your cock, and then she later masturbates while sucking your cock so that she can orgasm with your cock in your mouth, a lot of your worries melt away.
GenderWould you date an extrovert who constantly goes to events like marathons, dance competitions, concerts, extreme sports, MMA, and underground Chinese casinos?
Men, would you date a snek girl?
>>33943836You let her know that you saw it so the next time you meet she could have curated her chats or temporarily deleted the app. You can't let a potential cheater out of your sight between confrontations.Man, I really don't miss playing these horrid spy games and gambling on whether or not someone is cheating. If I saw a dating app on my bf's phone nowadays I'd tell him I've become gender-confused and leave the next day, no questions asked.
>>33943909Yes yes and no
>>33943957>If I saw a dating app on my bf's phone nowadays I'd tell him I've become gender-confused and leave the next day, no questions asked.Stop being so insecure, lol. I just use them to find new friends.
>>33943953F>Would you date an extrovertNo. Absolute dealbreaker for me.
>>33943952I think you're just someone that's lying to me for some fucking reason.I guess I just don't have whatever it is you have because that hasn't happened to me
>>33943953No that’s exhausting. I would go to events if we shared an interest in them. Maybe work my way up to a 10k but I will never be able to do a marathon.>>33943954Female but may I pet him?
>>33943954I guess
>>33943944Go to therapy
>>33943967>Female but may I pet him?Yes. They're the most brainless little creatures, I love them so much.
>>33943818Only got it once i accepted that i was a nobody and that i had to humble myself before the Lord.It grew to an extent where i haven't looked up pornography or any other degenerate action in a whole year or so.>>33943836Put her to the test, leave her for about a week or longer, if she's loyal she'll come back to you, if not, she'll immediately settle for another guy.Don't be controlled by her, otherwise you won't know how to move on if she does indeed cheat on you.>>33943909MNo diagnosis, but people have told me this. Don't wanna get a diagnosis either since i want to join the armed forces in my country.>>33943953MYes, provided that i also get to engage in them.
>>33943954MYeah, I like snek. I’ve always liked the idea of owning one.I’d get a western hognose or a ball python, probably.
>>33943969Therapy isn't going to fucking help me
>>33943970So he is just like an orange cat.
>>33943953I would date Kiryu, if I die I die
>>33943953MDo they want me to join them? I go to a lot of concerts but I'm introverted, I wouldn't be opposed to tagging along to their stuff. If they want it as them-time then no
>>33943977bite my shiny metal ass
>>33943977I really hope for your sake that this is a bot.
>>33943972My short list for sneks is mexican black kingsnake, ball python and hognose so I understand the feeling.Hoggies are adorable.>>33943974Yes, without the destruction. Just zero brain activity. Sometimes a lil spicy.
>>33943979Chomp
>>33943957>If I saw a dating app on my bf's phone nowadays I'd tell him I've become gender-confusedStealing this one, nothing more unattractive to fellow fags than gender identity trouble
>>33943974I just want to tell you that I have a zero tolerance policy against name fags and I have everyone filtered, except for you because I do like the cat posting. Hope you enjoy your sunday.
>>33943954No.
>>33943953I would date an extrovert but that level of activity is too much for me
>>33943909M yes. It depends. There’s a wide range. With some people, you don’t even notice it except for maybe some quirks and those are the people I prefer.
I would do fucking anything to be tall. ANYTHING to not have to be a manlet I fucking hate my life
>>33943990Thank you anon. It’s 9 am and I am exhausted.
>>33943953Myeah of course
>>33943954how much snakelike snake from the waist down, snake with a human face, or just literally a female snake
How do we stop women from gaslighting men about the fact that short height is a universal nope from all women?
my gf says she cannot orgasm. she gets close, but has never actually had an orgasm, clitoral or from penetration. she did say she squirted once in her life (not with me lol)i hate to make this about me but im not used to a woman being unable to cum and its making me insecure as fuck the longer it goes on. i understand orgasm shouldn't be the 'goal' and she claims she is fine as it is, but it still bothers me. i have expressed my wish to explore it together without pressure. how common is this for women really?
Do you shower everyday?
>>33944003Would you get the leg lengthening surgery?
>>33944017No.
>>33943818It's wild how back in the 40s this was just how you picked up women, instead nowadays they pepper spray you and call you racial slurs.
>>33944018Yes, I would but I don't have the money yet. I would get it if I could ASAP
>>33943975ONLY BASED WOMAN AWARD>>33943964>>33943967>>33943994Bitches be like "Yeah I'll fuck Kiryu and Majima" but then refuse to deal with this.
>>33944012I think they meant a quirky girl with a pet snake.
GenderWould you date a really famous, rich person? They would actually love you and be faithful, but you'd be stalked, flooded with kys messages, and have a slightly higher risk of injury or death.
Has /adv/ taken the pussypill yet?
>>33944022I don't even understand what you're talking about.>>33944025No, I don't like being at the center of attention.
>>33944017I shower like 4 times a week
>>33944029Anon is angry that 4 different people have different opinions
>>33944025Bruh just last month I learned an athlete I admire got divorced precisely for this reason
>>33944016Not unheard of.
>be late bloomer>get first gf>suddenly get bi thoughts, specifically trannies and geting toppedwhat do
>>33944040Stop watching porn? Idk
*aura farms you*Chat, clip that.
Women how would you feel if you found out a guy you're dating admits that he got leg lengthening surgery before you two got together?
>>33943836Shes lying and you are going to get cheated on, she won't care until you find out and then she will be upset at you for finding out.
>>33944024OH lol im retarded.
>>33944043I'm more understanding of this than other surgeries that are done purely for cosmetic reasons. Tbh I'd be more concerned about him recovering well from that surgery, it's not easy
>>33944017duh? why would you not?
>>33944041this is the correct answer!>>33944042wtf?>>33944043it's like "well that happened"
Are men actually capable of being loyal when there will always be another woman with a better butt, bigger breasts, smaller waist, prettier face, better personality, etc.?I'm so fixated on the idea my boyfriend will always want to upgrade. Do men actually form emotional bonds as well?
GenderDo you ever look back at a particular old crush and be incredibly sad because you weren't the one who "fixed her"? I crushed on this one slut (her words) so hard and now she's settled down while being still as gorgeous as before
>>33944058I'm still trying to fix him
>>33944056Usually, most men are loyal, the ones who are not are very easy to figure out.>Do men actually form emotional bonds as well?Yeah, just be chill, and provide for us, and be there when we're at need, thats how our friendships are made.
>>33944056>Do men actually form emotional bonds as well?Yeah.
>>33944025Beggars can't be choosers.
>>33944058>fix thenmI think you are a nigger if you think like this.
>>33944025>but you'd be stalked, flooded with kys messages, and have a slightly higher risk of injury or death.I'm already here.
>>33944043*kick him in the shin*Don't do that.
>>33944017Nope, only like 3 times a week.
Never trust a skinny chef
You know how some men just look like prey? Big doe eyes, weak jaws, almost completely non-threatening energy. What is the point of those men existing?
>>33944091So true Mistress, we will genocide them all for you now.
>>33944087Do you want to be sued? That's how you get sued
>>33944091Why do you say they look like prey?If they don't make you want to prey on them, they're more like vermin innit?
>>33944096I'll make it an accident.
>tfw decent-looking enough for women to be comfortable around me, let me talk to them, cheek kiss and hug them without being seen as a creep, etc>not attractive enough for women to be truly interested in me, approach me, ask for my number, be invited to parties, dedicate me tiktoks, etc
>>33944100Why would you be a cunt like this?
>>33944103He better not do it.
>>33944104But in that scenario he already got the surgery What's wrong with getting it anyway?
>>33944110Everything
>>33944112That is not a sufficient answer
If I was rich as shit I would buy a pet melanistic fox and name it Kurama. What are some cool interesting things you would do if you were rich as fuck, /atoga/? If you're gonna say some generic gay shit like donate to charity or build a ranch then don't bother answering.
>>33944101In all these years you’ve gone from saying you’re a disgusting unlovable freak to claiming you’ve kissed girls cheeks and spend time with them. That’s good progress!
>>33943836it's over
>>33944113You'd ruin what I like.
>>33944116I'd shoot your fox
How do I get some external motivation? Should I just sabotage myself so I am under pressure?
>>33944123Still vague. What is being ruined for you?
>>33944125You wouldn't do shit, bitch. Me and my fox would roll up on your ass and you'd get quiet.
>>33944126What could go wrong?
>>33943866Nta but get ready to dump her.
>>33944126I have turned my entire life around by becoming so infatuated with a fictional character that their presence in my mind has somehow hijacked the shame and "desire to do better for those around you" parts and I've been in an essentially permanent upward trend for roughly six months.
>>33944141That sounds pretty useful. Which character is it
>>33943909>(repost for people in this thread)>enter gender:>are you autistic? Dunno>do you think you are autistic? Possibly and or could be something >do you hate people with autism?not all of them
wtf. Christmas is 40 days away. What happened, women?
>>33944148Time is going a little faster especially in the fall/winter season begins.
2025 is almost overDid you find a bf/gf?If not, are you optimistic about next year?
>>33944149We are the dregs of society.
>>33944016Hard to say exactly how common it is because the topic is kind of taboo. A lot of men would feel the way you do so that puts pressure on women to not speak out about inability to orgasm because some assholes will hear it and only think>LOL apparently her guy is shit in bedThe thing is regardless of how common it is or isn't, it by definition is a very personal thing. I had struggles in the past both with climaxing at all and after that with getting there with a partner so take it from someone who has gone through it - it's about your own inability to let go, your own anxieties. Don't beat yourself up over feeling bad about it. You're only human. If you do not actually put pressure on her to "perform", you are already doing what you can do to not hyperfixate on it. Your thoughts and feelings are your own and you are allowed to have them and process them. It only gets problematic if you blame her for it. But you don't have to blame yourself either for feeling the way you do. It was never a choice, was it?
>>33944155NoI'm not optimistic because I'm a manlet. I'm barely a man to women because of my height, why fucking bother. I'm terrified to just talk to women
>>33944149Posts like this really show how men here are all the things they believe women are.
>>33944126I don't know if this works for you but sometimes I look at doing things I am not motivated for but rationally want to get done at some point, as doing my future self a favor. This is less abstract to me than the usual "it's an investment in your future!", to literally think, my future self will be grateful that I didn't want to do this and still did.
>>33944155>2025 is almost over>Did you find a bf/gf?No>If not, are you optimistic about next year?I'm not sure. Im getting old. Guys want women in their early to late 20s. Most guys will now probably be thinking of saving up enough money to get by because the economy is shit.
>>33944040Just do it, you're still researching your sexuality. Maybe you're bi or even gay. There's nothing wrong with being fucked as a male. For example, my 52 yo boss, who looks like a generic old grandpa, went to Thailand last month and was spitroasted by two ladyboys, and he's still married, btw. So it's okay to try it and keep doing it if you like it.
>>33944149>There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women>followed up with a bunch of additional standardsIt's nobody else's fault if your standards are very high. It is rare enough to find someone whose character you respect, who you get along with naturally, that you mutually fall in love with and are on the same page with in terms of the future life you want, that any additional standards quickly only undermine your ability to find this. That applies to everyone. Even objectively beautiful young women with lots of options, have to sift through those in the hopes of finding the male equivalernt of what you describe.
>>33944155No
>>33944155why are they filming
>>33944155no, it has never been more over
>>33944040Depends on how badly you want to experience it, not just in general but now/soon, and how good your relationship is, how much you like your gf.
>>33944040quit porn and enjoy your gf, don't nuke your relationship for a fantasy that will be nothing like the pornos because trannies can only pass with camera angles and filters.
>>33944166>Most guys will now probably be thinking of saving up enough money to get by because the economy is shit.What does that got to do with anything?
>>33944166Don't care if it is shit I vill buy a home. In fact maybe that'll lower prices
>>33944155>Did you find a bf/gf?No, I managed to avoid it>If not, are you optimistic about next year?Yes, I hope I won't find one next year either
>>33943803I wish I had a wife to live for and to die for
Women, how would you feel if your bf/husband called you a hot piece of ass?
>>33944181He's daaamn right.
>>33944181Praise is appreciated, not too fussy about the exact choice of words.
>>33944171to farm likes on ig
I lift so I can be strong enough for whatever dumb social media trend or fantasy my wife has.
>>33944142Doesn't really matter. Just find some piece of media that adequately represents some deeply seated childhood trauma or something you deeply yearn for. If you're like me, it'll happen completely unexpectedly and you'll be utterly confused as to why you feel the way you do. Either way, don't just push that feeling down. Embrace it and relish in it, make it your new baseline. My gym gains have been fantastic, I'm pushing 305 like its nothing when before I could barely force myself to even care enough about health or getting out of bed. Granted, I'm well aware that this mode of self-help is likely a form of mental illness. But it's a mental illness that has materially helped my life.
>>33944187I work out so I can lift my husband and make him giggle like a silly goose.
>>33944091Men have different purposes originally, they are supposed to both protect and nurture. The latter is especially important because human kids are so dependent and vulnerable for so long. So the ideal is men who are assertive, strong, brave, but also kind, loving and nurturing. Some men are like that. Some men are not very kind, but they are very strong and bold and assertive. Some men swing the other way and lack the metaphorical balls, but they are kind and nurturing. Just like some women will gladly overlook a man not being that nice if he's ballsy and risk-seeking, some women will gladly overlook a guy not being that assertive in exchange for a sweet doting partner.
>be manlet>get jacked>people will bully you for trying to make up for your height>get leg lengthening surgery >people will bully for trying to fix the problem you haveWhy even try
>>33944187Im actually going to call out coworker bros to start gym cause im too afraid of doing it alone, do you think someone can have decent gains without whey and stuff? Im not sure if I can afford it
>>33944195It's easier said than done I know, but in general you should not live your life for others. Or maybe in the sense of living for your loved ones, but not for the perception random people have of you. Regardless of how hot or jacked or whatever you are, perfect, every one of us grows old and ugly in the eyes of most others. It is a pointless losing battle. Choose what makes you happy and you will carry yourself with more self-respect which will inspire others to treat you more respectfully too.
>>33944149so im ugly
>>33944196Whey is just if you want to min max the shit out of it or are competing.That said tracking your calories and protein is wise.
>>33944176They'll be too focused on being career driven/saving up money to care for relationships, it's a good thing
>>33944200>every one of us grows oldI don't care about being old, I care about how I look now
>>33944203Yeah this will be the hard part since im not a good eater, 90% of days i skip dinner
Is she saying that if women cared about men's mental healths, they would do the same?
>>33944205Apparently not as much as you care about how others might treat you based on your looks. And that's something you don't control by definition. Most people (all those not young and conventionally very attractive) will never appeal to all, and look hideous or laughable to some.
>>33944200All I'm fucking reading here is meaningless platitudes. Did you use AI to come up with this too?
>>33943842I remember back in 2004-2005 I had what I thought was an online relationship with a woman in a different state and she started not talking to me. I realized something was going on where I was gradually no longer becoming part of her life and it led to my first mental health crash out. Spent a lot of time cutting myself over it while watching Cowboy Bebop late at night.
>>33944207Kek, no, pretty sure she's just saying that whatever disrespect women show for men's emotional life, it's still not comparable to the disrespect the other way around. Which is also just a pointless non-argument.
>>33944209Platitudes are platitudes for a reason, anon. And no.
Ok whatever Im pooping!
>>33944207No but that's a great idea desu
I had a dream he texted me. Should I text him? it's been months...
>>33944208>Most people (all those not young and conventionally very attractive) will never appeal to all, and look hideous or laughable to some.This is a fucking meaningless sentence. Beauty is 98% objective, not subjective.
>>33944212Platitudes have negative value. They're worthless and mean nothing. It's just noise
>>33944218You're just reading it sloppily, I specified that those NOT especially attractive to the far majority, so the most, will elicit negative thoughts or reactions in some. I did not say anything about beauty being subjective at all.Whatever man, you just want to be angry, that's fine, be angry. I'll fuck out of your thoughts.
>>33944212platitudes exist for people who are full of shit and out of touch to try to sound smart to other people who are full of shit and out of touch. they have a bad connotation for a reason, anon.
>>33944222It is what it is
>>33944222>and mean nothingNo, platitudes are things you heard so often without understanding them that they seem empty. Like "life is short". A meaningless sentence to a fifteen year old. They will think, wtf, what will you ever experience that is longer than life? If life is short, why does a class from a bad teacher feel like it lasts a year? But go asking people over something like sixty and not a single person will not understand what emotional weight is conveyed with that sentence. Which is why it gets repeated so often by people that do feel it.
>>33944217Be careful in case he says he'll put a restraining order on you, many such cases.
>>33944225Just stop looking, be yourself, and the right one will come along when you least expect it. There's someone out there for everyone.
>>33944183What would you prefer?
>>33944227I had a dream I got banned from a coffee shop because the manager (someone I know irl) thought I was stalking her or sexually harassing her with my mere presence. Anyway I woke up and the dream wasn't real, I could still buy a cup of coffee there. I also had a dream that there was news footage released of Donald Trump having gay sex with Vladimir Putin and it was treated as a national tragedy on the scale of 9/11, flags at half mast and everything. In my dream this news shocked me so much it made me urinate in public.
Am I took broken to be worth the trouble?M, I'm an objective loser. I'm poor, short, overweight, undersexed, I can't drive, my only relationships were online and ended with cheating and ghosting respectively, I've been job hunting for 5 years straight, anti-depressants functionally killed my emotions to the point I can only feel 'ghosts' of them.I have some positive qualities but those feel very pale in comparison to what I understand are severely glaring flaws in my person.
>>33944229I legitimately don't care nearly as much about the word choice as about the enthusiasm it comes with. There is a difference between a guy making you a compliment and being deliberately nice, even if they mean it, and when you can tell it just hits them in the moment. But for specifically sexual compliments I think making it concrete, so not saying someone has a great ass but that seeing them bend over makes you want to bury your face in it every time, usually is most effective. Of course it's your judgment call when you feel certain enough that this person will appreciate it from you, but that's always a thing.
>>33944196It's absolutely possible to gain muscle without supplements of any kind. For most people just cleaning up their diet, sleeping well, and lifting consistently with enough effort for a long enough time on a good schedule will get them the results they want. You can specialize on the margins by eating more protein and freaking out about specific exercises but for the most part eating 1-2g per kg of your goal weight of protein per day will be sufficient. Whey is just a cheap convenient food source to get extra protein in your diet
>>33944223I don't want to be angry, I just am angry
>>33944239Okay that's fair. I guess I meant even though what I said was well-intentioned it came across as you not being right or justified to be angry. And that's something I understand and did not aim for.
>>33944230That can't be pleasurable for her
>>33944239Don't call me mad, there's a difference: I'm angry And your choice to call me cute has offended me I have power, there are people who depend on me And even you have time you wish to spend on me
>>33944232>Am I took broken to be worth the trouble?No
>>33944171So you can laugh at them knowing their child will be Elliot Roger.
>>33944231You're not that anon..you're dreams are funny asf, maybe whatever pills you take are causing you those dreams?
>>33944241The existence of ugly people does not change anything for me anyway.If I was just tall I would have nothing to be upset about
>>33944243Are you posting song lyrics? I don't care, piss off
>>33944246Lexapro?
>>33944232I get why you feel you would not be worth the trouble. Though it is hard to tell from a post, people are not usually objective about themselves and chances are you have some qualities you do not even realize yourself not everyone has, while they are very appreciated. You sound like you have a very low opinion of yourself and that will naturally make it hard to imagine others would not share that opinion.That said, most couples do not consist of two mentally balanced people without baggage. The biggest issue I see in what you describe is that you have a hard time feeling emotions. But ultimately it will matter less what you have to offer on paper and more whether or not you meet someone you just click with. Which usually also happens they relate to certain things about you, and those are not a downside to them.That said, the more complicated your person and back story, the more it'll help to find someone irl you just naturally connect with instead of trying to sift through all the potential dating options online, where people are encouraged to bail over the first sign of trouble.
Sum tempestas fusca
Women, what's your experience with stopping birth control? I'd ideally like to hear from women who were on the pill. Did your libido spike, if so, how long did it take to do so?
I have come to the vivid realization that I am God.yeah yeah i've heard it all before im crazy im not god maybe im crazy and im god consider that
>>33944256Your wife hates you give it up loser
>>33944256It takes about one cycle for things to reset hormonally. If it's been over a month it's over for you
>>33944249Oh yea, I read it can. You should write your dreams down.
Why can't I fallin love
>>33944195>>people will What does that have to do with hitting sick PRs ?
>>33944257Idk about all that nonsense but I'm just tired of being told "fuck you, give me stuff" by people who don't like me or care about me. If a woman doesn't love me then why should I give money to her instead of things I like or people who need it. I feel like I'm just a vending machine to some people
Why do men want sex and relationships so badly?
>>33944267Why do women want a bf so badly?
>>33944267We want sex because we're designed that way to keep the species alive. We want relationships because it's the best way to get sex and companionship in a way that keeps society stable. It seems the further you get from monogamy the worse things are for everyone
>>33944262Assuming this really is a long term (years long) problem, the most likely options imo:>your general emotional life is dulled (could be because of antidepressants, lack of health, exhaustion, but also because you try to deal with emotions by ignoring them and not feeling them) >you are not over your ex/crush or have otherwise found a way to canalize ALL your romantic and sexual feelings into this one object of desire>you are romantically and/or sexually avoidant and it is unconscious fear of the intimacy that will follow after falling in love that keeps you from being open to it (often a result of having experienced sexual abuse/assault in the past, but it can also have a different origin like sexual guilt and some deep belief you can't be both sexual and a good person)
>>33944267because I get serious suicidal tendencies otherwise
yesterday I plapped this fat chick drunk and high. I woke up and was like my god what have I done. she's texted me a few times. how do I deal with this tactully?
>>33944264I don't know what PRs areIf it's an exercise thing I don't care about working out specifically because of what I said. Working out isn't going to change anything for me or how women will see me because women don't care if you're muscular they only care if you're tall
>>33944268Women don't really want a man anymore
>>33944267People are social creatures. Being in a relationship is literally good for your health and life span. Loneliness makes people unhappy and less healthy. For men there's the additional element that men are less likely than women to have extremely emotionally intimate, open bonds with friends or family members. Which means that if they're single, nobody ever holds them and asks if they're okay. Which is just grim.
Life doesn't matter anymore and it has become very obvious everywhere you go. You can feel it when you are out in public, no one gives a fuck about anything anymore. Even normies are blackpilled husks now.I go to work and basically just do nothing. I don't give a shit if they fire me, it literally doesn't matter at this point. I'm poor if I'm NEETing and poor if I work full time. This society is pointless.No community, no property, no families, no future. Where the fuck do we even go from here?
>The sluts itt are on the pill so they can be creampied by ons without pregnancy, lmao.
>>33944276Tell her the truth.
>>33944155>Did you find a bf/gf?I think I found a woman I want to date, but we’re just friends for now.>If not, are you optimistic about next year?Very!
>>33944276Just keep it short, tell her it was an impulsive night and you enjoyed it, but are not looking for anything more and that you wish her all the best. Of course she will know or at least strongly suspect it's because you thought she was hot enough to drunkenly fuck but not hot enough to date or even fuck sober. But chances are very low she will actually try to pressure you into admitting that. She will probably be long glad to be left with something vague but positive and respectful.
>>33944181I mean, he's not wrong.
>>33944273:(
>>33944266No woman will ever love you, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>33944278This again? The 12 percent of adult men over 6ft will not produce all the children. This is a silly argument
>>33944187I lift so I can princess carry my gf.
>>33944288I have seen women love, if it doesn't exist then I can't trust my mind or my senses.
>>33944281NGL I am an optimistic person but I do still feel this at times. A week ago I was at the train station for my commute and a one-legged starling sat on my bench and let me hand-feed him. It was such a weird random Disney moment that I reflexively looked around to see if anyone noticed it happening - they did, but nobody cared. Just one blank face after another. Nobody even properly looked at the bird. It had one leg! And perfect balance! Weirded me the fuck out. It's especially jarring with very young people who seem already so over everything.
>>33944284>I think I found a woman I want to date, but we’re just friends for now.ngmi
>>33944291based
>>33944207Men used to send their wives to mental gulag if they wanted too much sex or too little sex.
>>33944287Sorry anon, I know it's not a great selection. As someone who had serious struggles with the second and third though, it's possible to overcome it.
>>33944256>Women, what's your experience with stopping birth control? I'd ideally like to hear from women who were on the pill. Did your libido spike, if so, how long did it take to do so?I don't take pills. I don't think women should take birth control pills, it fucks with their hormones and brain chemistry.
>>33944289It doesn't sound that crazy to meHow high is the percentage of men right on 6 foot or just 5'10?
>>33944299How do I overcome those
>>33944292You have seen some, too few however.
>>33944293responded to pasta award
I'm not really into this bitch, she's kinda crazy and too obnoxious. But the sex was good and she's hot, tho. Should I date her or nah?
>>33944256I have never taken hormonal BC but I find it very difficult to believe it couldn't take more than a month for things to "reset", especially if you have been on them for a very long time.
>>33944301Average height of the average man on the planet is about 5'8. saying over half of all men will never find a woman is rank stupidity
>>33944307You'll fuck up your life for a bpd again. Go for it, also remember you'll be here in a few years ranting about how she ruined your life.
>>33944307
>>33944268Do you know any women who want a bf badly? I only see them on 4chan and I honestly suspect they're larping for attention
>>33944307>I'm not really into this bitch>Should I date her or nah?You tell me dumbass
>>33944311I'm not the fucking average though. Most of them won't find a woman or at least a woman that actually loves them. Maybe not over 50 but right on 50 sounds right
>>33944317Nta, but my sister does
>>33944303For the second, obsessing over one outlet for all those feelings, it takes time but it was a gamechanger for me to realize I couldn't "just move on", I realized I was actively keeping myself from moving on because if I stopped caring about this person, I would miss my go to fantasies. Those memories were so intense to me that revisiting them was like being with someone without actually being vulnerable like in a real situation with another person. Realize the obsession serves a purpose for you and try to make that harder. So if you keep thinking things like "nobody would ever understand me like X", force yourself to open up to enough other people until sooner or later you have proven yourself wrong. If you catch yourself thinking "I like EVERYTHING about them" make yourself admit that you don't, you simply enjoy focusing one-sidedly on everything you like about them. Basically talk back to yourself all the time.It also helps to talk about it to others. It's shameful to admit you have been obsessing over someone you maybe never even dated, maybe even someone that doesn't exist. But once you allow yourself to voice out loud what your reality is and you allow others to respond to it, that can also make things more fluid, they will shed a new light on it, you will see it with slightly new eyes too. It is a long term process but if you keep noticing all the ways you invest in your obsession, it will become easier and easier to not do that, or go the opposite direction on purpose. And yeah it can be absolutely necessary to throw out emotional reminders, especially whole conversations, if looking through those is what keeps you hooked.For the third, try to park the idea of a relationship and experiment privately with your own sexuality, examine your feelings of shame and judgment, your assumptions. Alone or, if alone is too hard, with a (sex or general) therapist.
>>33944300MNone of the women in my life seemed to be able to take hormonal birth control without problems. I hate how widely used it is
>>33944251I don't particularly have a high opinion of myself you're right, I don't hate myself persay I'm just realistic that I'm not very good at life and have really bad luck. I would like to click with someone but I wouldn't want to inflict my negativity on them even passively y'know? I'm more than aware my circumstances are really depressing to hear about let alone be around
>>33944280This is not true for sociopaths and narcissists.
>>33944317Honestly, a bf would add an unnecessary amount of stress in my life atm
atogado you have a bleed out spot?
>>33944327Masturbation, fantasizing, journaling, intimate chats about sex with trusted platonic friends, embracing sensuality (dancing, dressing up and/or styling and grooming yourself, getting a massage, going to a spa or swimming nude...) can all help to grow closer to being okay with yourself as a sexual being. if you are aware of any negative lessons or experiences that stand in your way now, obviously you will have to process those, and not being open (yet) to new people can very much be a sign you are simply not done healing yet in that regard. If you do not know where to start with that, therapy is definitely recommended, if you can't afford that, at least get a self-help book on recovering from trauma or shaking a sex-negative childhood.
>>33944317I know several yes
>>33944335The plains of Angola
>>33944332True sociopaths, you're right, they are fine being alone. Narcissists, no, they need an audience, they need to be built up and have other people affirming their greatness. And they typically do very poorly when left alone with their nagging thoughts.
>>33944295I probably will make it regardless of the outcome desu.We both like each other but can’t really date right now given the circumstances we met
>>33944327>"I like EVERYTHING about them"I'm past that, but somehow am still hung up on them. I know their flaws and somehow don't care despite also accepting we weren't meant to be. but sometimes I wonder if I messed up
>>33944339Audience doesn't mean a girlfriend. A narcissist would rather stay alone than settle for average gf
>>33944331I hear you and it speaks to your character that you do not want to be a burden for someone else. But you would not be to someone who has a similarly complex story. For them, the fact that you can wordlessly relate to some things about each other is probably much more meaningful than whether you are a bit more negative or not.
>>33944272Reading this made me a bit sad since it seems completely incompatible with anything I want. I mean sex is uncomfortable and doesn't get me off so I don't want it. One of the worst things about a committed relationship is the expectation to have sex despite not wanting it. It'd be heartbreaking of my "lover" was in it to lock me down and use me for sex, even partially.And seeing as my mother and both grandmas divorced for peace and stability it seems to me like men are going to either terrorize and oppress individual women or the society as a whole. Why am I supposed to make that sacrifice for the greater good? I'd rather be in danger when I go out than be safe in the street and come home to someone venting his frustrations on me.
I exist
>>33944325>>33944337Really? What do they want a bf for and how are they seeking one?
>>33944348This is huge
>>33944344From what I know that's not true. If you have no partner it means not having an audience at home where you spend a significant amount of time. I also think many narcs care more that their partner shares the delusion that they're amazing than just how amazing their partner is themselves, and would rather have a doting groupie tier average girlfriend than a hot girlfriend who's not interested in being awestruck over everything he does.
Why are cute girls the topic of interest for lonely men?
>>33944350I’m not that solipsist guy. I’m going through something rn and had to externalize a little bit of it
>>33943836No you’re not overreacting. If she tries to make it seem like you’re in the wrong, or starts an argument to avoid it, the she’s guilty. Been there. If she’s innocent there’s no reason not to show you.
>>33944342I mean it's not wrong to like someone completely despite their flaws, that is a very necessary skill for any long term relationship. The issue is more when you idealize someone to make your obsession into something more rational than it really is. If you are realistic about their own features and qualities, maybe you can think of other things you are less realistic about that you could work to argue for yourself. A lot of the time the biggest pull isn't even "they are so beautiful/kind/special" but rather "nobody will ever like me this way again", "I will never trust anyone that way again", "I will never again meet anyone I feel that compatible with"... basically features of your pairing more than features of the other person.
>>33944349My sister wants a husband to spend her life with. She’s just recently started using dating apps again after dating around her workplace and friends of friends for a bit.I’m relieved to see her getting back out there again. She only dated one guy that she met in high school before that, a guy who I hate to death for wasting years of her life with empty promises.
>>33944344>A narcissist would rather stay alone than settle for average gfNTA. I can confirm this. I've had many NPCs who wanted me, but I'm better alone than with someone worse than me, which leaves a very small amount of girls to date.
>>33944279This graph I am coping, is actually hopium because I want a lifelong relationship with a woman, I just won't want to marry them.
>>33944355>"nobody will ever like me this way again", "I will never trust anyone that way again", "I will never again meet anyone I feel that compatible with"... basically features of your pairing more than features of the other person.Yea it's this It feels like everyone hates me compared to them
>>33944352comfy
>>33944351I think it's possible that way too. I met a narc who's been single for years but has very active hobbies and feeds in communities. He keeps calling average girls trash cause they're not exceptional. Getting average girlfriend for him means you're a loser, just a peasant like everyone else.
>>33944362Well there you go. You have to prove that belief wrong. It is easier to start out with friendships, trying to make new friends and see how other people respond to you. Sooner or later you will realize your view was far too absolute. Someone will enjoy something about you this other person never even noticed, for example. And once you can start actually fully believing your conviction is that, a conviction and not the truth, it gets easier.
God shut up you self righteous cunt
>>33944364I guess, though to me it also sounds like a cope for being unable to keep a girl around for long? Like a sour grapes attitude and a way to look down on most people in relationships even when you're single. I'm not convinced most people that speak that way would actually walk the walk if an average but charming person was head over heels for them.
>>33944335stfu
I hate narcissists so much.
>>33944352Because they're apathetic to average women.
>>33944374Average women can absolutely be cute, you shut your fuckin mouth
>>33944373Better pity them, narcs can't feel real love. They only chase success and become depressed if they fail.
>>33944357>I'm better alone than with someone worse than me, which leaves a very small amount of girls to date.I’m sure lol
>>33944365>You have to prove that belief wrongWhat if no one ever proves me wrong?
>>33944378I’ve pitied them in the past and only saw that used against me, so no. I’m glad they’ll die alone; they deserve it. Worst people alive.
>>33944381This is the same mindframe that any bigot has
>>33944373Once you spot that behavior you have to remove them from your life completely
>>33944383I don’t give a fuck.
>>33944380What are the odds that you actually ran into the single person around (or at least part of a tiny minority to the point you can't hope to meet someone like that again) who can appreciate and love you as a person? Of course, hypothetically, if you keep putting yourself out there again and again and nobody ever likes you regardless of what you try to show interest and friendliness, you would get severely depressed and give up in however way that looks for you. But I personally do not think that's a realistic scenario and even in that very grim worst case scenario, you would be able to take a break and isolate (or give up) at any point in those bad experiences. It's not like you have to make a choice now to either be in disbelief it could be possible and not try, or to keep trying and trying and trying no matter what happens during those attempts. You can and should take it one step at a time and keep reflecting on whether you still like your course of action. I hope this makes some sense.
>>33944385Yeah you do, like almost everyone you’re hating the righteous hate
>>33944384So I learned. He grinned the biggest shiteating grin I’ve ever seen when I did it, too. Creepy motherfuckers.
>>33944381>>33944378Isn't this the definition of a narcissist thought process?>i gave something and saw losses instead of gains, put all those cunts in the gas chamber
narcissists are just good at spotting lower-tier narcissists and making them know their place. >t. narc-chad
My boss is a narcissist. He helped me a lot. But I have to kiss his ass regularly. He called me his favorite pet in a zoo.
>>33944383What you call "bigotry" is actually called pattern recognition.
>>33944389>>33944392Like clockwork.
>>33944392It’s the definition of being normal, 99% of people are like this, they just psyop themselves into believing they’re not. Most people would’ve supported the Nazis in 1937>>33944395It was an example xd>>33944396I’m glad that you’re a qualified psychiatrist who can do what no others can: diagnose while having a bias, in an instant
>>33944392>>33944393Everyone is a narcissist actually, says the narcissist.No, you’re just pieces of shit.
>>33944389This fucking mentality is why the Nazis came to power in GermanyKeep it up, you're doing what we want you to do
I feel like my Manchurian code has been activated and I need to go become famous in Minecraft
>>33944403Righteous in my sentence didn’t mean objectively right, smart guy, it’s whatever people is subjectively right, which is the very core of propaganda
>>33944399>I want sympathy™!Get in line, fag. lol.
>>33944399Fyi not every narcissist thinks being called a narcissist is an insult.
>>33944407None of them do, in my experience. They’re Living their Truth and I just need to Deal With It
>>33944404go do that
Narcissism is a triangle>alpha narcissist (always gets his way)>beta narcissist (she got parried and is really mad)>anti-narcissist shaman (sells talismans that wards off narcissists (huge sociopath but heyyyy at least they're not a narcissist))
>>33944416Me when I’m the shaman
>>33944398>It’s the definition of being normal,Egocentrism is innate and natural but you're meant to begin correcting your thoughts and behavior as you mature. Childless men really struggle with this as you see on 4chan.>>33944399I don't think everyone is a narcissist. I just see no reason for a mentally fit adult to rage about being unable to use other people for gain while calling *them* narcissists.
>>33944406Nice non sequitur, retard. El oh el period.
>>33944393Do you make friends with other narcissists?
boy moans
>>33944422>I just see no reason for a mentally fit adult to rage about being unable to use other people for gain while calling *them* narcissists.I guess it’s a good thing I wasn’t doing that. I tried to be their friend, not use them.
>>33944422I see it everywhere, irl and online
Where do I meet clingy gf
>>33944427You can't be friends with narcissists, they don't view you as a human. Are you friends with your phone?
>>33944427You wanted to be loved in return. They couldn't provide what you wanted. You describe that as a justified reason to hate someone.
>>33944433I had to learn that the hard way.>>33944434You guys are so predictable and two-dimensional.
>>33944424Unironically, 100% truth? Everyone is either an enabler or they aren't. Enablers are always good and can do no wrong. Non-enablers are just, wrong about everything, lol, Non-enablers are like carrots, but being a narcissist is a lot like being a 6 year old that dislikes those carrots. You cry and puke over carrots, don't like 'em. Someone eats carrots, they're so weird, I could never.>>33944421How much money do you make? Shamans seems to be making *more* than weed-salesmen.>>33944423>no youAre you choosing this route with me now?
I know how unwise it sounds to ask, but - is it possible to find a domineering, demanding woman that treats love as more of a transaction for good behavior? Are older women into that?
my turm
>>33944444i fucked it
I need a back massage from a strong man with big strong manhands
>>33944439I don’t sell my shamanism because I find that reprehensible
>>33944447Ok
>>33944447And?
>>33944447just get an appointment bro
>>33944452>>33944453I don't want to pay for it
I'm deeply upset women have an animal-like lust-filled disposition towards me. I'm a human being, not your property.
moid make me food
>>33944454Get a bf
>>33944454Wait a few months and you might get it for free
Foids should just binge-date ugly men until they get used to it. Chad will turn gay/trans and stop dating foids.
>>33944457The only food I will produce for you is a bowl of my fresh cum.
>>33944460How>>33944461I don't understand
>>33944346I Guess you're right, thanks Anon, fuck knows where or how I'd even meet someone nowadays though. I;d like to get out more but cost of living, no job, threat of homelessness etc.
I hate women and jannies.
>>33944467ok
>>33944425where
>>33944468>I don't understandU lyin
I am existing
>>33944442>treats love as more of a transaction for good behaviorAren't they all like that?
>>33944479I am perceiving.
I was just kidding btw #funny
>>33944478I'm not.. What am I waiting for?
>>33944447Would you in turn massage the knots out of my back?
>>33944483I am creating
>>33944457I just put samosas in the convection oven... and I won't be sharing.
>>33944487Whoa dude
>>33944486Sure
>>33944491No longer dissociating
>>33944493That’s preferable.
>>33944442i see you've met my mother
Why the fuck is everyone so depressed. It's really gay.
>>33944495I’m okay
>>33944498How are you not?
>>33944433Not true. I view my friends as useful humans. Being cooperative is more profitable in the long run.
In my dream last night, my vagina looked like a slightly longer innie belly button.
>>33944501Do they know you think that of them?
From here on out I will be treating every subsequent gf I have like garbage. Maybe then they’ll still want to be fwb or always hint at wanting to get back together even though they’re in a relationship because the guy they’re currently with is too nice. Women are foul creatures
>>33944500>How are you not?I'm tuned in to the cosmos.
>>33944498It's literally the opposite of gay.
>>33944498depressed and horny
>>33944506Treating women like garbage only works if you're chad. If you're normal they just tune out, and forget whatever chunk of their reality you are occupying.
>>33944498Because we're social animals and modern civilization hinges on a vast proportion of us living as atomized units in their own living quarters and spending our lives generally engaging in social settings of low social bonding like work and education.
>>33944256I was on the hormonal IUD for 10 years. All good, my libido stayed more or less the same.
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>33944506I remember reading on the feyman biography that once he became mean to women he got laid
>>33944512I’m not sure if I’m chad but I’m attractive enough for the women that I’ve dated to have thousands, yes literally thousands of photos of me
>>33944498because the american dream is dead and billionaires killed it
I'm getting an orange tabby cat, come up with names for the creature please
Heytbthere peopleHow are you doingI hope we'llLife is difficult sometimesI don't know whtye to do with mineIt's toughDo you have any advices?
>>33944522Beavis
>>33944522Baby jhones
>>33944522Sandwhich
>>33944522Albus Severus Onceler Stark Jr.
>>33944522Grutchen. Gretchen with a 'u'.
>>33944522camila cabello
Women, how lesbian are you?
>>33944517I feel similarly..I'm European, female, and live a very private life. It would be nice to meet someone, but it feels impossible Can't tell if I'm god looking tho, probably average/low in the scale of attractiveness
>>33944522Nigga
>>33944535Kinda gay, if I have to be honest. I'm in my 30'ies and I'm battling bisexuality since highschool
>>33944501Your view is still transactional. You're just taking care of your watches.
>>33944522I've read some HP lovecraft and liked his books.Maybe you can find a cat name there
>>33944522JH
>>33944540>30'iesNah nigga you straight up gay as hell
>>33944546Hhahahah I can't do anything about it at this point .But seriously, I've neve had lesbianism Just very close friendships Can I ask why do you wanna know?
>>33944522SimonBubbaCostinVladNietzscheGary
women are you fit?I want to trace your back muscles
>>33944554I prefer backlets
>>33944554She's beautiful, but no, I'm not fit .I'm probably looking better in a dress than naked
>>33944556Good thing I have a dress fucking fetish
>>33944559Win win
>>33944556time to go to the gym femanon
And if I see you soon, will you want to see meOr will you just want to sneak away?Did I creep you out like a scary movie?
Limerence overtakes my mind once again. I thought I was too old for this. All I do is wait until I can see my professor again and try to make my assignments really good for said professor. I'm the best writer in class and he's always kissing my ass. One time he said one of my stories was beyond his critique and I nearly got the vapors like a victorian woman. Oh my fucking god.WHAT DO I DO?
>>33944556Do you think women start looking like men when they lift? The instagram girls are all roiding.
>>33944561TrueI'm kinda scared of it thoI've hurt my wrist last year and doctors suckI've started just recently with YouTube workouts, I'll try to get better without placing too much strain on my joints
>>33944563This is why I’m gonna get my PhD in my early 30s so I can be a hot mid-late 30s professor and fuck tight 20 year olds. Thanks for the motivation femanon
>>33944556I don't believe you
>>33944565HmmmI don't know.Some do.Years ago I've seen a lady who could have been a bouncer.You'll probably reatian your femininity if you don't roid tho
Women, would you rather have a handsy husband who you have to fight off or a husband who never touches you at all
>>33944570Okay kekk
>>33944568Fuuuck thanks for that mental image. I'm trying to get a master's and become a community college prof. Won't fuck any students cause I'm not into younger guys though.He's fucking happily married with two kids though so I have to keep everything pent up.
>>33944573Ugggghhh the first but I hate it
>>33944573The former.
>>33944581can't fuck 2d women don't care
Femanons, do you think super anxious beta guys should just feminize themselves and become women?
>>33944573Probably an handsy husband... Having a dead bedroom sounds like a nightmareI'd waist time wondering if he has a lover or a porn addiction
>>33944543I call my cats the plural form of that name sometimes
>>33944573In my experience handsy-ness actually contributes more to a bad sex life than him ignoring you.If a man is super handsy it feels like you're fighting him off constantly.
I have to wonder if my friend regrets getting married. I don't have definitive proof but I think they sleep in separate beds.
Where do I meet narcissist gf
>>33944595My mom just cheated on my dad. Want her #?
>>33944591NtaYea, handiness is pretty bad. With my ex I've got to a point where we couldn't have cuddles that didn't lead to sex ... Still feel like low libido would be worse tho
>>33944598another reason why men will date younger women.
i think i'm being shit tested but i just can't prove it
>>33944598Yeah it's totally dehumanizing when you can't just lay down with your man. I fantasize about cuddling with a movie more than sex but I feel like I can't have the former.
>>339438034chan is infinitely tamer and more chill than reddit. And both websites pale in comparison to the comments section of a newspaper recipe article. Anons love stroking themselves to the idea that they're epic hardcore internet users but this place is generally among the most chill parts of the internet
Are women actually sexual or is it one of their many larps that they pretend to have because they think chad likes it
>>33944581How do you stop having crushes on 2d?
>>33944597wooo lets gooooooo
>>33944601What’s she doing to my bro Anonymous
M and F>This girl at the gym keeps looking at me>Pay it no mind>She cute though>She appears at my gym's stories on Instagram and never did before.Should I approach her on Instagram somehow or is it a bad idea?
>>33944576What makes you so attracted to him? Is it his age, the teacher-student dynamic?
A girl and I bonded over applying for the same graduate scheme. We both got the same really good result in the preliminary tests. I was going to help her practice for the final interview.I just learned I got rejected. She probably got rejected too. I'm never going to hear from her again am I
>>33944608Meet some 3dpd (three dimensional pretty dames)
>>33944591>>33944598>>33944605God forbid a man be completely attracted to his soulmate
>>33944613M hereShe doesn't appear to have given you any signal that she's in any way interested in you. I wouldn't personally approach her in that circumstance
>>33944605True trueI don't even mind men going for younger women... Just be honest at least
>>33944618MIf she’s your soulmate, you can probably read the room and not constantly grope her
>>33944618Nah it's more about lack of control and his behaviour outside of the bedroom...If his only display of affection leads to sex it's.. idk it feels weird
>>33944619Yeah ok then. If I happen to see her there again I might try to say something.
>>33944607they are towards guys they like. overall they're not. men are way more sexual in general. the best you can do as an average or below guy is just focus on satisfying women. not simping, but in the bedroom. women seem to resent sexuality around guys they don't like. they can be intensely sexual with guys they like, but yeah overall guys are much more sexual.
>>33944614I think I've always liked the student-teacher dynamic because I'm a submissive but this guy checks a lot more boxes than that. I've been stereotyped as stupid pretty much my whole life because I'm a one trick pony. I'm bred for one specific type of creative writing and can't really do anything else. So when I took his class I felt truly respected for the first time in my life. He was just so proud of me and understood exactly where I was coming from and what I was trying to do with my work.He's not conventionally attractive but his personality and mannerisms are just so cute I don't notice. I look for him in every man I meet. If I don't meet someone like him I'm not getting married.
>>33944613do it pussy
How do we get women to want marriage again?
>>33944611we're not together or anything but we were really flirty with each other and i'd hang out pretty often where she worked until close most of the timeanyways a few sundays ago i was there and ended up going home with some girl and then the following thursday i show up like usual and this guy i use to be friends with starts showing up and they're all of a sudden bestiesi didn't actually think she was into me and we were just having fun flirting with each other, but it's too much of a coincidence that he starts showing up consistently right after that and it's really bothering mefuck i might have feelings for her
>>33944628Would you happen to be asian by chance? I’ve really only seen this in asian women, with the exception of maybe 2 white women
>>339446322D women are pretty cool because they look like this, loyalty isn't that important
>>33944616KekYeaIt weird to be so fixated on someone who doesn't exist
>>33944636Nah I'm a cracker lolQt redhead with freckles tho. I think he likes me somewhat.
>>33944632Simple, install Sharia and force marriage on them Subhanallah
>>33944632You have to make their lives better and not worse. Very tricky for men.
>>33944632delete tiktok and instagram reels from every teenage boy's phoneFUCK algorithmslop
>>33944645Is there a way to improve a womans live besides giving her money?
>>33944639Don’t let it make you feel like you can’t meet real women, bossHappens to the best of us
>>33944648Dont you mean teenage girls?
>>33944653Unlearn that she is your property to do as you please with.
>>33944598>>33944605Can I not be handsy without leading to sex?
GenderHow do you deal with loneliness?I haven't dated in 4 years.It feels like I'm wasting my youth
good afternoon everyonemen, are ur favorite animals either otters, penguins, cats, or dogs ?
>>33944658But what is he point of having a wfe then?
>>33944657No.
>>33944645Men are more progressive than they ever been in history and yet all you do is complainAt what point is it just pointless bitching?
>>33944660No they don't. You just got pozzed by the incel algorithm. The manosphere shitbags just want your money.
>>33944663>men, are ur favorite animals either otters, penguins, cats, or dogs ?No>>33944662>How do you deal with loneliness?I cope by keeping me busy with work and video games
>>33944667Faggit
>>33944600Who cares, 95% of men aren't getting younger women and remaining 5% get mentally fcked up or gold diggers.
>>33944663I’m going to pin you down and fuck youPenguins
>>33944662MThe only long term solution is to have a strong social life, but in the short term you can try and make sure you do varied hobbies throughout the week instead of, for example, rotting in bed arguing with strangers on 4chan for most of your free time, which will let the loneliness seep in much faster and stronger.
>>33944659Sure you can!!Personally I even prefer it. It feels like I'm not just "fulfilling a need" but like you actually want ME, you know?
>>33944665How does teenage boys having access to tiktok cause young women to not want to marry?
>>33944642Interesting interesting, what was your family life like? Normal upbringing?
>>33944662MI haven’t dated in 6 years. I’m trying to again now because I don’t want to die alone.I also have pets and keep in touch with my loved ones.
>>33944681Absolute shitshow of an upbringing but no father-wound, if that's what you're asking lol. I think it made my writing better and made me very driven so I don't complain. Are you still the aspiring professor anon?
>>33944676I've tried approaching my church, but all the old ladies looked at me weird...I don't have friends at the moment
>>33944678There's currently a huge cultural trend of teenage boys being massively misogynistic (because it's funny and because it's based and because it's what the really cool rich people in dubai say) and this convinces teenage girls that dating and marriage would be pain and suffering
>>33944682That's good to hear.Fingers crossed for you ...Where are you looking for dates, if I can ask?
>>33944682What's wrong with dying alone?
>>33944686So we must turn teenage boys woke?
>>33944662MAlcohol mostly
>>33944685In the short term, just find a varied assortment of hobbies. And I mean VARIED. For example, your hobbies might look like: flower arranging, cooking, mountaineering, gaming, supporting a football team, anime, and pottery.In the long term, you need to prioritise making friends. You need to identify what's preventing you from making friends and then you need to start taking steps to resolve that. This is of highest importance to you.>>33944692We just need to rewind the insane Dubai algorithm cartoonish misogyny
>>33944686I think we need to delete tiktok off of your phone
>>33944701I don't use tiktok, anon. I'm a 4channer :)
>>33944700>We just need to rewind the insane Dubai algorithm cartoonish misogynyYoung women are the ones who want all the muslims here
I have come to realize normies struggle more with making friends of the same sex than getting an opposite sex romantic partner. Holy shit lol.
>>33944505They don't know I'm a narc.>>33944541All relationships are transactional, but I don't expect anything in direct return and enjoy their affection. In the end, I would support some people disproportionately to how they support me. However, when you cooperate with a large number of people, it opens a wide range of opportunities and gifts that I couldn't achieve alone.
>>33944700What is the diffrence between Dubai algorithm cartoonish misogyny and normal misogny?
>>33944706You'd think that, but there's a weird love-hate dynamic with Islam for the teenage boys. It's not too far off how depending on the thread /pol/ hates Islam for being primitive and authoritarian vs. loves how it punishes women and has warrior spirit or some shit>>33944712Normal misogyny isn't a social fad
>>33944674i was just thinking in terms of sexual compatibility
>>33944672i was wrong>>33944675wheeeeeere did that come from lolsi was right (?)
>>33944684>Are you still the aspiring professor anon?Yeah it’s still me. Your desires are probably still shaped by your less than ideal upbringing, even if you didn’t have father issues in particular. If I do end up becoming a professor, it would probably be in chemistry. I have an undergrad in computer science but if I were to go back to school, I’d want to do something different. Also chemistry girls are hotter than CS imo heh
>>33944707friends have always been nerdcore. normies don't have friends they have sex-acquiring-personnel they ping when they're trying to have sex to find partners to get a wingman/wingwoman. Basically they just LFG vagina/dick and have zero character development.
>>33944632Who cares? We should aim for post humanist society already, Elon and the rest of tech dorks should work on perfecting robots instead of crying over birthrates
>>33944719Yeah probably but it's fun eheheheheInteresting. I failed chemistry. Good on you prof anon.
>>33944718Happens to the best of us
>>33944663hello, octopussys
>>33944700First of all, Thank you for taking the time to respond. What is preventing me from making friends is being ashamed ... Of being jobless and being so behind in life.I have one hobby, which is drawing... I've thought so many times about volunteering, but I keep being scared of it, not sure why ...Anyways, none of this can be resolved if I don't take action
This shampoo scent making me dizzy
Urgent question, should I date a hardcore feminist with daddy issues?
>>33944663Big cats (white tigers and snow leopards) and house cats
>>33944745yes
>>33944714>but there's a weird love-hate dynamic with Islam for the teenage boys. There really isn't outside of niche corners of the internet. Young men are largely against immigration, and young women are for it. When white men want their women to dress conservatively it's "misogynistic", when dubai arabs want their women to then it's "their culture". This is why nobody gives a fuck what happens to you western women anymore. We're done with your shit-tests, mind games, and daddy issues.
>>33944056Can, but you can always erode at our loyalty by being a nagging bitch. There will always be someone better in one way or another, we're always seeing attractive things, looking though not necessarily even window shopping. It's when cracks form in the relationship that we start looking at another seriously.We do in normal relationships, not so much if it's just a fling for the fucking.
>>33944745Do you like fingers in your rectum, she will try some weird emasculating shit on you 100%
>>33944728the only correct answer ( ;´ - `;)>>33944746twinsies !!
>>33944748>you western womenI'll sodomise you, freak. Bend over
>>33944745are you mid? if you're mid, she'll turn lesbian afterward.
>>33944753STFU
Men.If a guy makes inappropriate advances toward a girl "as a joke" and her boyfriend doesn't jump to her defense, does she have the right to be upset with the boyfriend?
>>33944745Meh, too little data to respond.Instinctually I'd say no, but what if she changes?Especially if she's younger, people can surprise us
>>33944703WorseIf you're on the internet, you're just seeing the whinersAnd on here you're just seeing the male whiners
>>33944689The internet lol. Once I move I’ll start giving a shit about dating in real life again.>>33944691Most things. I’ll die unhappy if I die alone and childless.
>>33944762Boyfriends. Are. Not. Pokemon!
>>33944632Let's be real, young men have incredibly fuck up sense of romance and marriage. They've been brainwashed by shit like pic rel which is everywhere now, marriage has been fetishesized, honeymoon has been sexualised, no wonder girls are pushing backJust look, this shit has million views
>>33944762What do you mean by defence?Should he start a fight or just glare at him?
>>33944525>>33944528>>33944531>>33944532>>33944543I like these onesI like Sandwich and maybe some hp lovecraft god
>>33944718>wheeeeeere did that come from lolsI’m sexually frustrated and you’re a qt3.14What were you right about?
>>33944745yes, high probability she's extremely submissive in the bedroom. probably down for whatever.
>>33944765LetsgoooGood to hear you're having a plan.
>>33944771Men who are unable to be attracted to ordinary looking women have developmental issues.
>>33944745I can’t really recommend it, but go ahead and touch that stove.
True crime documentaries are an accurate portrayal of all men, but women posting their own behavior all over social media 24/7 isn't reality. Foid gaslighting 101.
>>33944771Cute. I can see why men would want that
>>33944774I meant the name lovecraft gave to his cat both in IRL and his books.You know what don't google it, you're too innocent for his cat's name
>>33944784Lmao. I don't know tho, true crime is entertainment... And social media addiction is probably caused by the fragmentation of society.None of them representative of all gender
>>33944771>young men have incredibly fuck up sense of romance and marriage.yeah...
>>33944780Dante my beloved
>>33944771>young men have incredibly fuck up sense of romance and marriage.wtf is the right view someone tell me women expect s to know everything out of the womb, it's not gonna kill you to explain ONE (1) concept to men in your collective lives.
>>33944762In general, yes
>>33944773Depending on how offensive was the action. If it was an out of place comment I would expect a verbal confrontation. If it was physical I think a physical response should be fair.
I can't stop hating women long enough to convince myself to actually try online dating
>>33944762MYes. He’s a bitch if he doesn’t.
>>33944800>uwu please get shanked over my fine assma'am's gone mad
>>33944762I mean yeah he should even if he sounds like a retard
>>33944800>If it was physical I think a physical response should be fair.Lmao
>>33944800Real.
>>33944800You don't want to get physical even if you know how to fight specially on the US
>>33944800Why do you want your bf to die in a knife fight?
Dark souls 2 pvp is kinda good
>>33944809A dude can just walk up and touch your girl? How do you live with the shame?
I can’t believe there are “men” itt looking for reasons to not do the bare minimum for a woman.
>>33944771>marriage is a fetish now
>>33944800You say this but you’d give him shit for any kind of confrontation he responds to. Shut your bitch ass up
>>33944761stop that fuzzy unicorn ?>>33944775had a theory thingy i had to testnever heard of qt3.14 b4 !! i needa start using that now ^^
GenderWhat do you do in your free time?Have you met friends through your hobbies?
>>33944822Not letting other men make advances on her right in front of you.
>>33944818Marriage is a fetish yes, why else would men want to get married? They have a twisted, sexualised view of it and that has been created with excessive porn and internet consumption.
>>33944820I do not like souls pve, but the pvp is very good
>>33944824Why should men do free unpaid protection labor? You know bodyguards get paid, right?
>>33944771>>33944825I don't want to get married, fuck are you on about? I'd like to spend eternity with just one woman but I'd rather drag myself across a mile of glass with lemon juice before I legally get married or do a ceremony.
which is the clingy one supposed to be here, idgi
>>33944829Why? /Gen
Why do women fetishize about their partner dying defending their honor but them move on to a new one 3 months later
>>33944816>shameI don't consider my life and well-being an expendable pawn in the fight for my queen, dear simp/hole.
>>33944832UrrergggghhhhI miss having a boyfriend
>>33944825>Women view wanting and promising loyalty as a fetish
I just crunched the numbers and women owe me sex
>>33944828Really lazy bait. We should do unpaid bodyguard work because it’s what we’re supposed to do. It’s a bitch move to do any less.
>>339448353 months? Lol over 50% of married women admit to having a back-up partner on standby.
>>33944825>Marriage is a fetish yes, why else would men want to get married? They have a twisted, sexualised view of it and that has been created with excessive porn and internet consumption.I swear this is the same ESL chick that always posts ragebait on atoga.
I fetishize denying my husband sex for a full year during and post pregnancy
>>33944771Marriage is the formalization of an exclusive sexual union and a new family resultingYou are a dumb illiterate ho
>>33944845Nice
>>33944842Anytime you suggest to a woman that she should make dinner for her man or wash his work clothes or whatever it's always "I'm not doing unpaid labor, he should hire a maid!!" Fine, then men shouldn't do unpaid security guard labor either.
>>33944842Youbare free to try and fight Ahmed and his 14 brothers.
>>33944845We all know your slut ass would cave in and give up after 20 minutes MAXIMUM
>>33944833I just actively don't like the notion of the legal and cultural constraints place upon people by marriage as a legal act and institution, which I simply will not engage with. >>33944845Is that 2 years or only 9 months into pregnancy and 5 months or so post pregnancy grouped into something of a unified year and few months or less?
womenat what age will you give up?
>>33944847>>33944839You apes, you're supposed to be loyal before you step on that altar. You just want to get married because you desire power over women and fetishisize honeymoons cuz you're dumb horndogs
>>33944850Women will happily cook for you and do your laundry if you’re not a bitch, in my experience.
>>33944854Already did
>>33944832mask ;)
>>33944821Use it on me?
>>33944856Women won't happily do shit, they hold all the cards due to divorce courts and they know it. That's why men are walking away.
>>33944854I mean there's no way any woman over 38 on Tinder is serious about marriage or anything but wanting a quick fuck from older rich men unless they're delusional.
I've seen Watchmen recently Gender, do you have a fav superhero?Who and why?
>>3394485428
>>33944863>unless they're delusional.So 99% of women?
>>33944855How does marriage gove the husband power over his wife, that she doesn't also get over him?
>>33944864Capes are passé.
>>33944854god this special ed teacher looking nepotism hire human resource manager republican's daughter is *peak* damaged goods I bet her onlyfans does triple digits I love feet
>>33944790I'm not innocent, I just don't want to name my cat nigger. The cat is not even black, its orange and white
>>33944861It’s why bitches are walking away.
>>33944780Ordinary looking women think they look extraordinary though and think they deserve to be treated like that.
>>33944870uhm she used to be on discovery anonshow some respect
>>33944873Shut the fuck up, you out of touch retard
>>33944868Everyone knows only broke bitches get married because they are in debt and know their stable guy beta male orbiter has no friends no bitches and thus (in theory) enough disposable income to offset her girlboss look-rich spending habits, plus she can give marriage advice once she enters that shit which is quite lucrative.
>>33944876Whatever, little bitch.
>>33944874Bro I just want him to act like he likes me beyond the sex
>>33944780Men are checking out altogether. You'll get it eventually.
>>33943818A week ago I was hiking a hill with old castle ruins on it.Sometimes, when I stand close to the edge, I can feel my body pulling it towards it. That time it was exceptionally bad, even though the thing I was standing on was around half a meter wide.That's the most intense impulse I can think of that I have to control.
Why dont men just DO BETTER?
>>33944879He does, but he also needs the sex.It's how he shows love as well.
>>33944883Are you okay? this is the sixth time you've posted this.
>>33944885Never open up to women if you want a relationship to last, sadly not even women saying it themselves will teach other men this, they'll need to have one relationship minimum fail because they do.
>>33944885>You have to be a person in the relationship as wellDamn, women have it rough. Nothing that a 30 year old crisis won't fix, albeit too late.
>>33944889Please ignore the attention whore.
>>33944875I knew I recognized this paramore-esque woman from someplace. Hated Mythbusters, too many "plausible" myths i.e. total scams that achieved nothing but waste your time. She NTR'd that guy too forgot his name. RIP.
>>33944891Never trust what women say, trust what they do.Women say pretty things because it makes them feel good.
>>33944896I still would
>>33944896She cute
>>33944885AAAAAAHHHH I MISSED IT I WAS THIS CLOSE TO MAKING A "HOW LONG UNTIL SOME FUCKING RETARD MAKES A MANKEEPING POST" POST I WANTED TO CALL IT AND HERE YOU ARE I WAS LATE FUCK
>>33944869What about masks?
>>33944882nta>Men are checking out altogether. and whose fault is that?
>>33944854>>33944896Why and how the fuck is the cute woman from Mythbusters single right now
>>33944797That pic was the best few years of my life
>>33944905she thought she could do better
>>33944909Kek
>>33944885>mankeepingdo not google this, this is the Pearl Harbor of blackpill/ragebait. Women pushing this have no idea what comes after.
Femanons, will you have a cunt energy MILF era where you prey on young men?
>>33944885I got broken up with because I never had breakdowns and “struggled to empathize” when my ex was having one. Batshit insane, I hate women so much
>>33944898Language was invented by men, so of course women struggle.
Theres a girl hitting on me and I dont know what to do, it's the first time something like that happens
>>33944915Kek.Probably, if I reach middle-age
>>33944914>women cry constantly over everything>man handles it>women: :)>man barely opens up>gets emotional one time>I'M NOT YOUR THERAPIST!!!!!>women: :(
>>33944917They're actually quite great at it, that's why you never take them seriously, they're just using their skills to manipulate you.Always look at actions, it helps a lot.
Lesbian relationships have the highest break off rates
>>33944932UffHere goes my plan of marrying my bestie in my 40ies
>>33944932Nature doing it's thing.
>>33944932The left is the percentage of people breaking up after X years of living together (married)?
>>33944932Now let's see lesbian-male relationship data
>>33944903society
>>33944948>lesbian-male relationshipUh...?
>>33944948Not listed because the break off rate is 0.
>>33944945Just monika
>>33944946No that's rightLeft is just living together
>>33944951the ones who decided to take one for the team and embrace cock
Femanons when a girl tell you she's going to a motel alone is she inviting you?
I cannot imagine our male ancestors having the unlimited patience for women antics that modern men have. I refuse to believe Grug let Grugette just yap about whatever.
>>33944932WaitI'm a little drunk, but doesn't this say that lesbian marriege works better than gay mariage??
Why do non normies glorify being a normie so much? I've tried knowing normies and I can see why depression pills are so widespread. Holy shit.Non normies should strive to be winners instead. Just maxing everything out.
>>33944914>Women pushing this have no idea what comes after.The unkeepable immature men die alone and society copes better by teaching men that going to therapy and participating in child rearing in a marriage isn't the end of the world?
>>33944976I suppose normies feel a sense of belonging others dontAnd probably are less anxious about stuff
>>33944979Winners have both of those things as well.
>>33944981How do you become a winner, then?
>>33944977surely therapy will fix having to work on a dead end job without ever being able to buy a house
One day, Hillbilly Elegy will be considered a modern American classic.
>>33944885If you are a man who is in any way emotionally intelligent and who is comfortable showing vulnerability, you will get so much sex
What does it mean for a guy to be a good kisser? Is it just something women say after a guy they're attracted to kisses them and they like it because they're attracted to him and so they say he's a good kisser so he kisses her more which she will like since she's attracted to him?
>>33944984money
>>33944977Never go to therapy anons, the people shilling this shit are often "therapists" themselves, which are grifters. These parasites need to get a real job, starve them out. IGNORE THERAPY POSTERS AS THEY ARE MOSTLY THERAPISTS SHILLING THEIR GRIFT
blond pretty boys where are you
>>33944977that doesn't happen
>>33944988I don’t wanna live in that world. Yeesh.
>>33944991what does it mean for a woman to be a good kisser fool
>>33944992Ouch
>>33944996Mediterranean thread
>>33944999checked I don't know I've never kissed anyone tongue or not
>>33944996in germany doing butt sex with each other
>>33945002they have blonds...?
>>33944984Maxing everything out.Maximizing money. Increasing income. Investing. Maxing out Roth IRA. Looks. Tretinoin, exfoliating, moisturizing. Losing weight. Fitness. Running. Weight lifting. Sports. Getting good at one. Credentials. Stopping vices.
>>33944977That's not how male psychology works.
>>33944991I don't know, to be honestMy first boyfriend always kissed me with an open mouth.Drenching half of my face in spit... So I guess not being too mouthy would help?
>>33944994What are the alternatives to therapy?Nta
Daisy from Great Gatsby is such a pathetic piece of human trash
>catch elevator with pretty girl>she drops her spaghetti all over the place the whole ride >we leave the elevator together and her earrings fall down TWICE on the ground>I open the door for her.>She's extremely ashamed and embarrassed and I say it's fine, it happens to all of us.Men, take care of yourselves, feeling pretty is awesome.
>>33945008Thanks. It feels hard to keep up with those things when you fundamentally don't believ you're not gonna make it, but I'll try
What do you think about this bio for my profile>Looking for good time, for one night of for the rest of our lives
>>33945020I hope that it sounds better in your native language
>>33944996How does curly dirty blonde sound?
>>33944996Blond pretty boy is a need
>>33945015lol true
Could women tolerate a man so washed up that he’s spending a Sunday afternoon watching episodes from season thirty-seven (37) of The Simpsons
>>33945030Please don't tell anyone how I live.
>>33945030Nice I'd probably sit thought the Simpsons with him, even if I haven't watched them in ages
>>33945030simpsons in current year?
>>33943803Got banned from the Democrat server for being pro-womenGot banned from the Conservative server for being pro-womenGot banned from alt-left and alt-right servers for being pro-womenWhy are men so thin-skinned?
GenderAge you ever had a fictional crush?Who?And why?I think part of the appeal for a lot of people is identifying with the character... Not sure if it's a roundabout way of living themselves tho
>>33945041share the messages
>>33945042Gosh I'm illiterate. *Have *loving
>>33945034It’s shockingly much less shitty than I feared.>>33945040I’m afraid so. Bart has a smartphone and they recasted Lou to be voiced by someone who’s actually black
>>33945042>GenderF>Age you ever had a fictional crush?Mh... 12 or so? >Who?Seth from the OC, Jess from Gilmore Girls.>And why?Seth was really cute and nerdy.Jess was cute, smart and a bit of a dick.
>>33945042M>Age you ever had a fictional crush?Around 13>Who?Azula, Holo, some dragon rider girl from a book I read, Lyra Belacqua>Why?I for sure loved scary ladies who could kill me. That's Azula and the dragon rider explained. I don't think that bit involves any self-identification...I also loved wild ADHD girls, which accounts for Lyra and, again, the dragon rider girl. That bit might be self-identification.Holo I think was just because of bare feet and hormones.
I want her to snap MY choker. How about that?
>>33944990>emotionally intelligentMost of the time that's agreeableness. And this trait (not a type of intelligence) can be both an advantage and a disadvantagehttps://youtu.be/ZjGT074oQow
>>33945045I didn't screenshot them and I am bannedFrom the democrat one, I said something like I don't hate trans people but transwomen aren't the same as me.For the conservative one I said something similarFor the alt left one, I just said "I hate men" For the alt right one, I said "I hate men"
I want a boyfriend and then a husband or I will kill myself
>>33945067No retard I meant what I said
>>33945069>banned from the alt left for "I hate men"Based alt left.
>>33945069Jobless behavior
Why do men hate marriage? Are there any men whoar e happy to be married?
>>33945023sex
>>33945070Just get one how hard can it be
Does anyone else get the feeling that half the girls here are from third world countries?
>>33945069>thinking pro women = anti menEvil
tall women are kinda hot
>>33945080Yeah mostly america
>>33945080What makes you think that?
>>33945077It took my dad three tries, but he’s noticeably happier married than he was in the past. My stepdad is also maybe the biggest wife guy I’ve ever met.There aren’t many things I want more in life than to marry a woman, personally.
>>33945079Harder than you think
>>33945070Sorry I can be only the fleeting but intense love that you will always remember
>>33945089NtaThat sounds really sweet.Good luck anon
>>33945077Yeah I want to get married. I just need a girl who1. is a perfect match personality wise2. is okay moving to the other side of the world as soon as we're able3. is pretty4. wants kids5. has a gigantic sex driveeasy
>>33945072I assumed you believed in a pseudoscientific concept like emotional intelligence. I mean, most often, when people talk about emotional intelligence, they're actually referring to a trait - agreeableness. Although, I could be wrong, the concept of EI can be quite vague and easily distorted to suit people's own interpretations.
>>33945070I want to save a woman from Christine Chubbuck-ing herself
>>33945091Maybe you are too picky
>>33945056What is it like being bisexual as a preteen?
>>33945093Thats my worst nightmare unironically
>>33945077you really dont get anything out of it these days. There's literally no gain for the man to get married
>>33945096This list just boils down to >never disagrees with me>does whatever I want her to>gets me offNo wonder women don't want marriage anymore.
>>33945097When most people talk about emotional intelligence, they're talking about 1. being able to figure out what other people are feeling AND 2. then knowing how to act on that information. (And 3., knowing what emotion is appropriate to a given situation and then actually having that emotion). That isn't agreeableness, even though agreeableness has some overlapping aspects.
>>33944996This is a brown woman by the way, at best, at worst it is a brown man.
>>33945095Thanks. :)
>>33945102I am thats true
>>33945116Probably not that true desu
>>33945042F. I was around 10ish, I had a crush on Marsupilami. Idk why. I think I associated him with being at my nice grandma's house and all the feelings of comfort and safety that came with that.
desu ive had sex (with women) a few times and like sure it felt good but it was overall a net negative cause i lost my soul. took like a year to fish it out of the river styx haha
>>33945112The list is a joke you fucking autist, it's obvious that it would be very difficult to find someone who happened to fit all these boxes.In any case, it seems like a stunningly bad idea to get into a long term relationship with someone who wants to stay here for the rest of her life given I want to move to the other side of the world for the rest of mine. Same with the kids thing
>>33945119How would you know
>>33945116Do you have a mental checklist or something like that to share
>>33945077I love being married to my wife. I just wish that marrying her didn't make the sex stop. And I also wish I could bring that part up online without everyone accusing me of being a shitty husband or of not romancing her or whatever. I feel like you should only marry a woman if you're open to the idea of never having sex ever again.
>>33945120average girl crush
>>33945109Wouldn't know, I'm straight.
>>33945122Where do you want to move
>>33945122The problem is thinking you'd be settling for less if someone didn't check all those boxes.
>>33945127Better than being called a furry, at least.
>>33945070uhm are you clingy
>>33945124Just a hunch. Nothing wrong with being picky or having standards
>>33945125Yea but I don't know
>>33945078Really? :DWhat do you look like and are you a biological female?
>>33944996just buzzed all of it off
>>33945042I'm mentally ill-levels of obsessed with a character from fiction, yes. I dont let it dictate my life but i would be lying if I said I felt the behavior was anything short of unhinged. >Why?The woman in question represented what was essentially wish-fulfillment for me. Her voice, mannerisms, interactions with others, their dynamics, all of it. Reading the story I basically felt like I was a lost little boy with no safety or comfort from the people in my life again, and it unlocked this flood of raw emotion in me that never fully subsided.
>>33945113This is just one of many skills developed through your classic intelligence. If you call skills "intelligences," then you can make hundreds of such "intelligences".
>>33945042Mi dont think it counts if the crush isnt a real personyou might as well have a "crush" on an inanimate objectlike a table or a lamp
>>33945125white catholic likes me a lot and taller than me in heels bilingual
>>33945141you fool, i'm obviously a brown man like this seething non blond shitskin says >>33945114
>>33945157well if he's wearing high enough heels, any dude could be taller than you :)
Would it be a true and unbiased statement that most human beings are fucking stupid?
>>33945157ntacheckcan be a checkhow tall are you
>>33945113>1. being able to figure out what other people are feeling AND 2. then knowing how to act on that information. (And 3., knowing what emotion is appropriate to a given situation and then actually having that emotion). That isn't agreeableness.i assume being compassionate and polite is often mistaken for understanding
Women, can you handle real romance?
>>33945157How tall are you in heels and why bilingual, if you don’t mind me asking?
>>33945163that's true >>339451655'8
>>33945164doing the bare minimum in life gets you the top 20% of humanity.
>>33945157Doesn't seem that bad, any language preferences
>>33945173>5'8yeah, that can work, am more than bilingual
>>33943818For most impulses, I have tremendous self control.But because of that, I dump all my insane twitching and hand gestures and my more mild silly quirks into a mental bin labeled "Harmless: Ignore" and just act on the weird simple impulses with abandon.
>>33945171Yeah, I've been with my husband for many years and we're happy lol
>>33945181which languages
idk why but when i see women smoking cigs especially irl its just full blown erection. it's primal.
>>33945157>whiteYeah.>catholicI’d convert for the right woman and doubt I’d regret it. I’m already a Christian.>likes me a lotProbably a check.>taller than me in heelsI’m 5’10” without shoes on, so probably a check.>bilingualI can speak a little Spanish.
Don't know if it's normal.I'm a woman but sometimes I wish I had a peenis
>>33945187EnglishGermanRussianand my own
>>33943836The litmus test is her level of transparency.I'll use someone else as an example.A coworker once told me about how her husband had made plans to have dinner with an old female friend he hadn't seen in years before they were married.The wife's response was along the lines of "That's fine, I'll come along and meet her."The proper transparent response would've been to say "Okay but don't blame me if you're bored or annoyed by our chatting." Or something.His response was "You're crazy!"SusShe shouldn't have a problem with you looking at her profile if you ask respectfully and keep it to recent activity.I can imagine her not wanting you seeing her lust after a hunk before she met you.
>>33945190I hate that its so hot
>>33945197>and my own?
>>33943836bro...come onbe honest with yourselfits over>bumbledodged a bullet, she's retarded too
>EQ is not a psychometrically valid concept. Insofar as it is anything (which it isn’t) it’s the Big Five trait agreeableness, although this depends, as it shouldn’t, on which EQ measure is being used (they should all measure THE SAME THING). Agreeable people are compassionate and polite, but they can also be pushovers. Disagreeable people, on average (if they aren’t too disagreeable) make better managers, because they are straightforward, don’t avoid conflict and cannot be easily manipulated.Chat, is this true?
God dammitWiped too hard again :(I had 3 good days of nice, hassle free wiping after my poops but not today. There was just so much crap in my ass
>>33944155Nahim going to spend 2026 to get my things into order
>>33945155humans are retarded, im certain people have done exactly that.
>>33945205emotional intelligence is one of those silly foid concepts, like astrology
>>33945200She'd be hot if it weren't for the cigarette. Now I know that kissing her would be a horrible, horrible experience, and that her house and all her clothes fucking reek. How ugly.
>>33945203its not interesting at all. trust me
I am getting psyoped by japonese rent a gf instagram hoes
>>33945216you made it up ?
>>33945207Get a bidet you retard
>>33945220no its just a niche ugly small european language that nobody speaks or wants to speak
>>33945221What happens when I have to poop somewhere that isn’t my house? Then I’m screwed
>>33945205pretty much
>>33945223tell me
>>33945223Turkish
>>33945215how could you be so wrong.i will contest though. she looked better before the boob job
>>33945223Estonian >>33945224
>>33945223hi slovak
>>33945224Just deal with it. Your asshole will be grateful for the fact that it gets the bidet most of the time.
Too many nasty Europeans
>>33945228I said european>>33945233>>33945234no those are cool>>33945227Slovene
>like to flirt and tease>am /fit/ and decently handsome so can get away with a lot>brief touches, strong eye contact, ‘joking’ flirty jokes>make it my mission to get them into me>eventually they will either get tired of it when they realize i won’t make a real move or straight up ask me outwhy am i like this? once i know i could have them i lose all interest. i’ve noticed there are women who fall for this and who basically ignore me, no inbetween
>>33945237I like Slovene
>>33945237The weird language that sinn fein is making people learn
Femanon, I'm trying to fuck. Are you cool with that, or nah.
Why are women such itty bitty ninnyclels>oh noo muh fee fees , nigger!>hecking hold me, daddy!>pls love me chaderino why did u do these 2 me!>creepy!>ew pedo! stay away from me creep!>have sex incel how hert u?like what is there problem?they need to grow up
>>33945245Only when I'm drunk
>>33945242you never heard it. It also gives me a terrible accent that I cant fix>>33945243no idea what that is
>>33944985>>33944994>>33944997>>33945011Epic (you) response
>>33945205While emotional intelligence is questionable on its own, EQ is definitely taking that vague concept too far.
>>33945245With me, no. With someone else, I don't care as long as it's consensual.
>>33945249What does it sound like?
How do you even meet girls. Do you girls do things other than going to parties. Where am I supposed to interact with you?
>>33945247We are complicated, anon...If there was a way of making myself happy with less, I'd take it in a heartbeat
My life kinda fucking sucks without a woman in it.
>>33945262You just want Stacy
>>33945248So based>>33945254Would you watch? Assuming you had nothing else going on.
>>33945256have you ever heard the band laibach?
>>33945256badim sure you can find recordings on youtube
>>33945267I don’t, actually.
>>33945271they dont sing in our language. for this exact reason
>>33945146you'd need to waterboard me to get this information. >>33944977Therapy is an unironic scam in 95% of cases especially in regards to men. The male psyche does not benefit from being told how or what to feel or why things feel a certain way. Especially when most male misery is just the result of real, material circumstance. No amount of feel-good talk will bring dead loved ones, fix a broken past, increase ones dating prospects or anything like that. It's why the trope of just getting fit because you're sad exists: real and material changes are what make men feel better and more secure in their emotions.
>>33945059Uhhhh with a strapon?
PeopleDo you have a favourite band?What's the last song you've added to your playlist?
slavs just look and sound like vampiric anime characters to me, imo
i've managed to shift my fixation over to another woman finally, after a good five years. like the last one, she expressed interest in me first. before that i was pretty much indifferent to her. i doubt anything will come of it, but at least it makes going to work somewhat exciting again.
>>33945278but they still have the accents, no? >>33945283stay innocent, don't expose yourself to anything more
>>33945284You're as sad as the dudes falling in love with cartoon characters, man. Just talk to them and actually behave like a real person in the real world. Good lord.
Why do you act like a pedophile?
>>33945287I dont know, havent listened to them in years. not my thing at all
>>33945281M>favorite bandThe various bands that Frank Zappa led.>last song I added to a playlistIn a Glass House by Gentle Giant.
>>33945279Nta.The problem I have with this line of thinking is that you seem to see male problems as real and female problems as made up...As if relationships weren't the main source of suffering for both sexesI don't even disagree with the idea that a lot of therapist are trash desu
>>33944091>You know how some men just look like prey? Big doe eyes, weak jaws, almost completely non-threatening energy. What is the point of those men existing?Those men are for raising the children that alpha males sired with their wives.
GenderWhat's the craziest sex toy or object you use for masturbation?The pic is mine.
>>33945249>t also gives me a terrible accent that I cant fixpost voca i bet its cute
>>33945085I just hate majority of men. I know there are a few decent ones.>>33945075I have a j*b. I am highly educated and get paid very well too!>>33945073I just shared this tweet and a tranny mod banned me.It's very pro-trans at the expense of real women.The one woman mod tried fighting for me but the other 4 tranny mods overruled her.
>>33945297I never said they're made up. I said that the act of sharing emotions and talking about how your life makes you feel has a legitimate benefit to the female psychology. Date any woman and you'll learn this very quickly. It's not a dig on women for being that way, my point was just that men do not have that wiring. It doesn't help. It's why men dont vent to eachother on serious topics unless it's an actual immediate crisis in most cases, because it just isn't the default way of coping with issues.
>>33945301MMy hand.
>>33945270Bro sounds like a rapist in the making
I think incel rage is that, men universally acknowledge the existence of "ugly girls with a heart of gold", but women unanimously decide "ugly guys with a heart of gold" is 100% bad no upsides.
>>33945305>I just hate majority of menBut most of us never bother you?
>>33945290a lot of assumptions in your response, friend. i get the idea here, but what would we talk about? i feel like a complete fraud trying to have a casual conversation with someone. i don't even enjoy it. being a real person in the real world almost always entails withdrawing from interaction for me. i've been disappointed too many times to assume most people are at all interested in meaningful conversation.
>>33945301MMy onaholes, but they're pretty standard. One's a mouth and the other is essentially a little body.
>>33945303literal humiliation ritual
>>33945301My best friend's ex-wife
>>33945313Most of my experiences with males irl have been negative.
>>33945281F. Probably Arctic Monkeys or The Shins.>What's the last song you've added to your playlist?Freebird
>>33945069You should hate troons more, but I respect the fact that you at least don't view them as real women.
>>33945305Korrasami coded post
>>33945306>men dont vent to eachotherThen how do they ask for help or advice? /gen
>>33945322Are the ugly ones worse?
>>33945281only answering your question if you tell me yours, and what the last song you listened to was.
Are networking events really just corporate orgies?
>>33945164I think it's better to say most humans are distracted. We spend so much mental energy just existing, eating, working, keeping things in order, that many of us just don't have the mental energy to get off autopilot.
>>33945326sure men vent to each other. usually only about work though, at least in my experience.
>>33945330Yes, but all the sex is self sucking
>>33945334What do the women at the event do?
>>33945335the upper management
>>33945335Autocunnilingus
>>33945318:( come on
>>33945326Advice is one thing. "What would you do in this situation?". Because advice isn't pure venting, it's asking for direct thoughts on a matter that can directly assist and guide your decisions. But venting for its own sake is usually kept for surface level struggles like "fucked my back up at the gym" or "boss is being a cunt again" type things. Anything with the emotional depth to disrupt the brevity of a relaxing conversation is less common.
>>33945337Also this >>33945336
>>33945305Do you only fuck the decent ones?
>GenderHave you watched the documentary about India's poop festival?
Who up watching Young Sheldon sigma edits
are you able to picture the faces of people you have a crush on?
>>33945329Sure:)Idk about having a fav band, but this is the last song I've added https://youtu.be/nSf4RUCrSgQ?si=IzXELKfCZKsWLnPB
>>33945328It's hard to compare. Men in general are bad people whether they are rich or poor, good looking or ugly.Most men don't see women as people. They see us as a means to sex.99% of men who say they are cool with waiting till marriage get REALLY hostile when you withold sex for more than 2 dates.>>33945325Idk what this means>>33945342I am a virgin, but I do have a BF rn. He's ok
>>33945347>>GenderM>Have you watched the documentary about India's poop festival?I tried, but I can't stomach it.
>>33945339Isn't most advice pure logic, tho?Ex: in most of my problems I usually know what I ought to do, but still find myself stuck.How would a guy untangle something like this?
>>33945359Just ok? How long have you been together?
>I am a virgin, but I do have a BF rn. He's okShould I pity this basedboy, or whatever?
BAKED>>33945366>>33945366>>33945366
>>33945365Since June.He's great and everything. He just works long hours because he is in residency (he's a doctor).He is also a virgin and is a bit old fashioned in a good way but very open minded. I will likely marry him :)
>>33945372Cute. Good luck to you two.
Why would women hate men?
I forgot about this fkin filter. Laugh at me.
>>33945377demon lady
>>33945301F. That I use currently? A bad dragon dildo, I guess. I used a ton of random household shit before I could buy sex toys, though.
Why are we back to making early threads, and not linking the old one?
>>33945281https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iG9tUJ7Am4i've been listening to this like almost every day
>>33945130China or Taiwan or Hong Kong.>>33945131>anon discovers the concept of life compatibility>>33945148Intelligence is famously vaguely defined yes
>>33943909MNoNoNoI am, however, ADHD as fuck
>>339451121. is kinda cute2. okay personality, just not insane3. open to 2-3 kidsis this realistic?
>>33945359My problem is that i don't want to be beta bux. I can go without sex for several dates. I've gone on no fap streaks. I can handle it. I'm a bit awkward anyway, so getting to know them a bit first isn't a problem.
>>33945301what the fuck..?>>33945347Fi don't care enough about india to watch it.>>33945351lmfao!
