Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
How do you cope with hair loss?
>>33946720Grow a beard and liftDo not wear glasses
>>33946710Women, would you date a fat and balding guy?
I fucking hate women.
>>33946710That masculine urge to turn girls into single moms...
foids hate to see a moid with motion
>>33946720you literally cantyou can lift, you can looksmaxx with whatever you have left, but you'll always look old, you'll always look ugly and women are wired to hate you biologicallyt.bald
The first riff has been played and written
>>33946734>foids hate to see a moidTrue.
foids hate to see a *white moid with motion
how does a slav secure a french gf?
>>33946727>Do not wear glassesWhy not?
I like being close to people but sex isn't something I vy for. I'm attracted to women and imagine women when I fap, but I don't see their faces in my imagination. I recognize that humans are social animals and grow to love the people they spend the most time around; I've experienced this with some male friends (in a caring, "agape" way; I don't want to fuck my friends) and think that sex comes about as an extension of this feeling.Men, women, what are your takes on this? What would you call it?
>how do I g-be attractive. Now stop asking retarded questions.
>>33946753Is that Alizee?
>>33946756They look strange on bald guys, go for contacts.
>>33946757low libido and lilkely low T. You probably enjoy watching children's cartoons.
>>33946759maybe...
>>33946758he looks like me except i'm black
Misogyny is the most natural feeling. Women are truly awful beings.
>>33946761>low libidoMaybe, but it doesn't feel like it>low TI get bloodwork done regularly. It's average to above-average.>You probably enjoy watching children's cartoonsWell this is 4chan, so I do watch a couple.
>>33946771>It's average to above-average.doctors are retards and don't have your best interest at heart. It's probably lower than it should be
>>33946775>doctorsWhat doctors? I check the numbers myself. Full panel tests are worth the money IMO.
>>33946752If he treats you well and has not shown any signs of being controlling then just go for it imo. Don't throw away something good because you think it MIGHT turn bad.If you have reason to think it might turn bad that is from the person themselves and not from your past trauma, then consider not doing it.Only you know the full context of your situation.
shame that the only women interested in me are short asian girls.Sometimes I'm tempted by how desperate they are, but I don't want my son to be a turbo incel, so it's white girls only unfortunately.
>>33946767>Misogyny is the most natural feelingNah, complete ambivalence with a touch of caring pity is the sweet spot. Being misogynistic is like being emotionally hung up about dogs barking
sex with female pigs
Haven't sleep
>>33946791wtf are you on about?Asian women were handcrafted by god specifically tailored to white men for the sole purpose of sex and impregnation.To reject asian girls is to reject god.
>>33946817They look like bugs
Is it a narcissist problem if I’m afraid of settling down with any girl because I’m convinced I can do better ?
>>33946817https://youtu.be/s8cyXDpyjT4
Do women actually like sex?
>>33946757MI don't care about sex either, I just want to feel like I'm special to someone who's fun to spend time with. I used to think this would make finding someone relatively easy, but dating apps have become the norm and are basically LinkedIn for finding someone you can tolerate enough to have sex with. And people are so atomized that finding someone organically just doesn't happen anymore. Zoomers think it's weird to date a friend. Love is well and truly dead.
>>33946783no controlling signs. is it weird i'm relieved and surprised you're actually throwing a bone in the it might be good factor? the situation is very context heavy, and I also noticed something that surprised me though going into another angle. he had a female friend over and we both got the vibe she wanted to have sex with him and he stopped me there and afterwards of her leaving said he would reject her and said "you trust me don't you?" seemed very serious. so I wonder how/why he would say that to me given his situation with his actual official partner, like as if it actually matters what I think? but context wise with his partner seems they haven't been in love for years now from what I've gathered when talking to my irl friends about it and him individually, so I trip myself up sometimes on the maybe bad thing and I'm wondering if this could be good and new for both of us. he's had a crush on me since we were teenagers/before they met, confessed to having feelings a couple of years ago, and I'm just now opening up to him more and letting him in. feel like he could be living the unrequited childhood crush turned maybe somethin more timeline now.thank you for replying
>>33946830Only with Chad, they dissociate when it's with anyone else
State gender. How to confront and control my bubbling feels of jealousy over my boyfriends opposite sex friends? I try to ignore it but it’s there….and it won’t disappear
>>33946729Live, anon. Balk at their hate.
>>33946830not with you because you offer nothing in returnwomen like sex in a way Daniel Plainview gets himself baptized in ''There will be blood''. Its a pipeline for them to get stuff from the man. On their own, they'd never have it
>>33946838MI'm not jealous or concerned about my girlfriend's male friends because they're all shorter than me lol
Do women like getting their pussy ate?
>>33946838FemaleHe shouldn't have any opposite sex friends unless he is fat/former incel in which case he was hoping to slam them and should distance himself Worst case he is a fuckboy and has a pseudo harem of "friends" and exes turned friendsMen and women cannot be friends sorry take it from an old hag
I hate w*men.
>>33946846Only with Chad, they dissociate when it's with anyone else
M or Fplatonic love between a single man and a single woman, how would you make it work?
>>33946848Based
WTF they finally made women hot
>>33946851MNot possible imo
How many femanons do you think there actually are on 4chan? I'm not convinced its more than 5.
>>33946851If I was platonic friends with a single woman for more than a couple months (as in we genuinely enjoy each other's company, consistently) the odds of me catching feelings for her would basically be 100%.I would "make it work" by respecting that our feelings were different and staying friends after getting rejected.
Men how can I make my bf choose a gym and start working out again? His stamina is suffering
>>33946859You don’t. My wife has gained 50 lbs in the last year and there’s probably no going back for her unless she wants to.
>>33946862That's a huge gain did something crazy happen? My bf moved in with me and gained like 30lbs over the past half year so I relate. He buys candy bars at every fucking store
would a femanon like to move in with me and become my life insurance beneficiarythe policy covers suicide and I am easily manipulated
>>33946859Tell him your body yearns for a strong, vigorous man, who can last all night.
foids can I nibble on your legsnothing sexual, im just hungry
>>33946859report him to the consul and have the praetoria haul him off to the colosseum, to struggle or die against beasts who walk on two and four legs as the republic bears witness
>>33946862>>33946865This is what's called settling down. They worked out and dieted to find a partner, but once they did, the reason for working out disappeared.
I hate women.
>>33946875Should I lie that an old ex hit me up with an ab selfie but I "deleted it" to put fear in him
>>33946875>Threaten break up>Somehow... reason return
Women have betrayed me.
>>33946878Let him "accidentally" catch you looking at pics of skinny him
>>33946859I'm a girl but why don't you just ask him? I asked my husband if he wants to work out with me, he said yes, all done. If he's not motivated I tell him I'll suck his dick after we're done. He's in great shape now.
>>33946887I already do that anyways I have them cycle as my computer background. God he used to be so hot
Men how hard do you grip your penis when you fap?
>>33946899Not very, it's a rather light grip. If you grip it too hard you can fuck up your dick.
Women lack souls.
>>33946903worse, they're demons, just look at mankeeping.
>>33946915You're right. Is there a single positive thing about women that doesn't involve their bodies?
>>33946899like a retard holding a ice cone
Surely you guys can't hate all women. What about your mom? I love my mom, even if she's obnoxious sometimes.
>>33946859literally just ask himwhy the fuck do you need to go trough all this rigamarolefucking tell him straight up
>>33946710Why cant this be incels and femcels?
>>33946922I don't think women like that exist.
>>33946922Because femcels only want Chad.
Incels should start bloatmaxxing immediately. Why should anyone stay thin and inshape if they can't lay down some pipe? Eating food is way more pleasurable than abstaining Prove me wrong
>>33946918Their bodies aren't even that good. Women are literally just becoming "cute face + cute voice", and the voice is RNG because that gets annoying since it's always laced with utter disregard for everything but their own public perception. Also the face is fake due to makeup, AI, weird angles, etc.>>33946920>what about the one human being you're expected to show unconditional love to due to literal involuntary neurological binding.
>>33946927All the femoids here bitch about fat guys. Also eating that much is too difficult.
>>33946922A chud would never call a woman a femcel, they don't think they exist.
the only thing you need to know about ihatewomen is that he comes from a long line of mercilessly hen-pecked men selectively bred for submissiveness, and he resents the genetic programming that has turned him into a cage-farmed chicken
anonnette excited about the potential phone upgrade: i went over this with you like at least half a week ago. you are going to get yourself hurt, and likely your friend and her husband. good things do not wait for you, if you continue down this path (and you KNOW that instinctually, otherwise you wouldn't be hung up over it this long). nothing anybody is going to say to tou is going to change that.distance yourself from this relationship, at the very least. i understand you find connections rare, there's history, etc. no amount of that is going to shorten the fall once you are dragged off the cliff.(reposting since some retard made a thread 5 pages early)
>>33946938Calumny.
>>33946922Women exist on a spectrum of "chad access" think of it like a long line outside of a night club that *never* moves. They only way to move up on that line is to cut in line without "looking out of place". So when a chick is nice, she's stuck in her section of the line, and is more or less *literally praying every single waking moment of her life* to be closer to chad, further up in the line. 99% of their life is scheming for ways to cut ahead in the line to be closer to chad, whether it's mentally (dream of chad) emotionally (act like chad) physically (look like chad's ex) financially (enter chad's sphere of influence) etc.That's why so many women are "single". They think "chad finds it cringe that they're in line", and so they're snowflaking trying to pull chad closer to them. To be fair, it's not their fault, it's due to them being trapped in their animal nature. This is always why they hate men. Most men have subprime genetics, and talking to normal men robs them literal seconds that they could have otherwise spent getting closer to chad or coping about "not being there just yet".This is again why I argue the only good women are autistic or from high trust societies. Everything else makes them icky and sociopathic.
>>33946922because femcels dont want incels
Going to slay a femcel for her daemon souls and forge a weapon of great power or craft a spell of tremendous terror.
>>33946945Aki wouldn't say this shit fuck you
Never simp.
>>33946952aki is dead ngga
White women, why do you vote to import men who are 10-50x more likely than white men to rape or kill you?
>>33946957Don't remind me
>>33946948careful you don't get grabbed anon, she might steal your heart!
The advantages and disadvantages of curved swords are well known, but what about advantages and disadvantages of curved penises?
Women are LE BAD
>>33946899I grip it firmly, and I don't use lube, so my hand doesn't slide along the length of it>>33946902>If you grip it too hard you can fuck up your dick.only if you fap too often or edge for too long
Where can I find an evil bitch girlfriend with loose morals who would still love me and help me scam normalfags with AI nudes and crypto scams?
Wait until women realize almost every major feminist icon was wealthy and happily married their entire lives.
Sometimes I wonder if there's someone I know IRL who browses this place and reads my posts.
>>33946938His dad was chad
>>33946975>Wait until women realize almost every major feminist icon was wealthy and happily married their entire lives.And also...?
>>33946985Jewish.
>>33946945I hope this isn't true
>>33946710I thought my mom was narcissistic, but I'm starting to think she's just fucking retarded, to the point of being borderline malicious. but I'm not really sure.I'm old, the son of a single mom, and I still have not learned to treat or understand women... it's so fucking over for meguys, how did you learn to accept that women can be really fucking stupid, even (or maybe esp.) the ones that you love?
>>33946987Proof?
need a misandrist femanon who grudgingly appreciates my warmth and easygoing demeanor and willingness to be vulnerable
>>33946991https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Feminists_by_religion
>>33946975lots of women should realize that their icons were and still are wealthy white women that had/have had really easy lives
>>33946990The way I did it was to imagine a cartoon character or something like that. Spongebob will *never* stop being Spongebob, no matter how anyone feels, no matter what happens. Spongebob might turn into sad Spongebob or upset Spongebob if something bad happens, but there's no actual growth or character development. Women are like that. They will always be themselves, so there's no point fussing over anything else.
>>33947001Trvke
I. Me. My. Mine.
All women are two-faced
>>33947009and all men are two headed.
>>33946941you think i'm going to be dragged off a cliff? and I wouldn't say super excited about a new phone, but more so aware that would theoretically tie me more to him in some way being on his hypothetical plan. i haven't accepted the phone offer, he hasn't bought it but we talked about it a few times since he kept mentioning it. I'm going to see how things play out after he tells her about me, which she already kind of has an idea of since I told her some of it already.
>>33946973Any help with this? I'm thinking about checking the women's prison for a potential girlfriend.
>>339470122 minds syncedvs 2 minds split men win again
P_I _C _A _!
>>33947001I mean, yeah, I got that idea and I left my ex because I felt like she refused to learn anything from me but kept complaining about my wage and other stuff.but my mom is a special case. I can't accept the retarded shit she does, her deep ignorance, stupidity and stubborness (how the fuck do people like this even survive to old age???) and how she tries to contradict everyone just because. we've never had a good relationship because she's always been argumentative and I'm autistic, and she "learns" a bunch of "facts" from random people and from the TV, most of which are only true in certain contexts, or maybe were considered true in the past but not anymore. also, I've seen her flip sides multiple times while arguing. every time was like, wtf?also, she tries to get whatever she wants, even if it's the most retarded or even harmful (to other people) shit ever, usually because some "expert" told her it had to be done, and it had to be done in a certain way.
>>33947022I meant to say that she usually misinterprets shit she's told to do by other people and then acts on that.my mom has caused me so much pain and fear of other women...
>>33946990>mom was narcissistic, but I'm starting to think she's just fucking retardedAnon, she's just a woman and always has been. Never expect any intelligence from a woman.
>made bf 2 egg salad sandwiches, 2 pb and j biscuits, some cut up carrots and celery with ranch, a chia seed squeeze treat, a yogurt, oreos >forgot the napkin messageCan I put it in tomorrows lunch instead or will his bf instincts tell him it was supposed to be todays?
>>33946994So most are either Muslim or Jewish. Curious...
>>33947026This melts my frozen jaded heart
>>33946993I want a misandrist gf so badly
>>33947026>pb and j biscuits
>havent made a blondepost in a while>atoga quality noticeably plummetsso foids, when are you dyeing your hair?its an instant improvement
>>33947023>>33947022Are you on your own, like moved out? Unfortunately the cure for a lot of familial stuff is to just walk away.
>>33947027>Muslim or JewishLess feminist countries don't have demographic problems, while the most influential feminists are from them. Strange coincidence...
>>33947022Lol, is your mom MKG?
>>33947031Too many biscuits come in the pack for biscuits and gravy. That is the best way to use the leftover biscuits
Women, would it be a turn off if you could see my pierced nipple through my clothes?
>>33947040wank wank wank
>>33946710You are a truly insufferable piece of shit for making threads so early.It's really pathetic that you despise atoga so much.
>>33947057Chill out, FAQbro
>>33947056People were so smart back in 2025.
>>33947036I had moved out and came back home for cuz I left my (first ever) ex and had nowhere else to go, and didn't want to waste money on rent.I think I made a huge mistake in both leaving my ex and coming back here. I've already wasted more than a year here and I'm stressed af because of her bs and because of my job.I'm fucking retarded... I guess this is the price to pay for being the son of a single mom.
>>33947059>immediate deflectingThe FAQshitter is the same garbage as you.Why do you hate atoga so much?
You ever accidentally post in another thread?
>>33947056>So let it be said:lmao
>>33947063NTA, you're the only one who spergs about it
>>33947029nothing hotter than a woman who subconsciously implies with every word that she considers you slightly less human
>>33947072Nah, I complained too
>>33947072People have just giving up calling out the narcissistic OPs, becsuse the jannies don't do shit about it.Again, why do you hate atoga so much?
Why don't you spam that in real life on some corner on some soapbox with a microphone and a speaker or two
did I fuck up by not saying "I love you" back to him when he was spooning me and during that quiet moment he was holding me and suddenly said "I love you" to meshould I wait for another quiet spooning opportunity to mention how he said that awhile ago and/or simply say it back? i'm a little cautious saying it but I've said it before in a friend context with him but it's different now, and he's been doing a lot for me to show it in different ways
>>33947077We don't, schizo
>>33947080>did I fuck up by not saying "I love you" back to him when he was spooning me and during that quiet moment he was holding me and suddenly said "I love you" to meYou're referring to your friend's husband, yes?
>>33947080This is the most self-destructive post I've read in a while. You don't have to wait for "tv moments" to tell someone you care. He's probably chad too so idk why I'm helping you simp.
>>33947081You do, since you try to destroy it, by making early threads, effectively tsnking posts of others.
Men say you are in this situation:>have a doting high libido gf >live with her mainly>also have another apartment for a few months in another neighborhood Chances you'd use it to bring other women around and cheat on her?
>>33947080>Guy said ''I love you'' before she didhe's cooked chat
>>33947086He's Chad.
>>33947085not too high, but high enough
>>339470850%but I wouldnt be in that situation for long because I have an extremely low libido
>>33947085Fuck off.
>>33947088>says ''I love you''>chadno
>>33947085Whatever feels right
>>33947096He has a wife, a sidechick, and a girl who wants to be fwbs.
>>33947089What could she do to prevent this or catch you doing it?I'm uninterested in getting an STD. I hate cheating on principle, but also don't want syphilis.>>33947091Okay. My boyfriend's is pretty average for a man.>>33947097What does this mean?
women questions>Incels, get chad to like me more NOWWWWWmen questions>I made the mistake of liking women, will this time be any different?
>>33947093Your balls were busted
>>33947099men lose primordial energy when they say stuff like ''I love you'' and doing lovey dovey bullshitA real Chad wouldnt make that mistake
>>33947103You can use that to manipulate women.
>>33947101>will this time be any different?
>>33947103nta but that's blue-pilled.Chad is not what he does, he's how women respond to him. If women line up to suck his cock, he's chad. Doesn't matter what he does or doesn't do.
>>33946842>Its a pipeline for them to get stuff from the man. On their own, they'd never have itthis shit is so poisonous. how do you people even manage or cope with this reality?
>>33947084(s)he doesn't prevent anyone from posting here and even gives people more space to post images
>>33947108This
>>33947107What else to expect when incels and narcs flood the zone with shit...
>>33947086god I hate zoomersI bet you watch tiktoks without headphones on
>>33947100>What could she do to prevent this or catch you doing it?nothing realistically, unless you're prepared to violate his privacya couple living separately is going to have lots of dead time where he's unaccounted fora second phone and half an hour is all it takeshonestly i wouldnt even stress it too much
>>33947115Unc raging frfr
>>33947110Stop trying to kill atoga.
Foids, my girlfriend feels no spark, what do I do?
>>33947123electrocute her with a car battery
>>33947082fwiw they are in an open relationship, she's flirted with me in the past, and he was there for that. i told her about his flirting, he just has to be the one to tell her how far he's escalated with me past that. >>33947083you know what you're right i'm just a little awkward. I keep thinking back to that sweet moment and me not responding back to him though and wonder if it bothered him at the time like anxious or vulnerable
>>33947122Tell that to the other guy>>33947087
>>33947109>how do you people even manage or cope with this reality?how do you cope with gravity? its just how things are
>>33947127Sounds like a harem in the making. Have you talked with JH about your situation? Maybe she could help you navigate it?
>>33947115its not that deep unc
>>33947130He is spamming shit that nobody reads and gets deleted anyway.You are much worse, you sack of shit.
>>33947108>>33947105t.not Chads
>>33947109You run horses, start playing gacha right now
>>33947140You're not chad
>>33947137Figures you'd have a soft spot for that incel spammer
FemanonsWhat is the best way for a guy to approach you or ask you out or show that he's intereted in you?
For married men with kids,When your wife was pregnant, baby bump showing, were you more or less sexually attracted to her?Im a bit terrified of how bad I'm gonna look if I ever get pregnant
NEW THREAD BAKED>>33943803>>33943803>>33943803NEW THREAD BAKED
>>33947143>more deflectingYou are the very definition of cancer.Are you angry that none of the femanons ever were interested in you? Is that why you want to kill atoga?
>>33947144>be attractive>come up to me and make first move with a compliment or apt joke around surroundings or weather>gets me to add him right there and then and suggests something fun>leaves me be with what I was doing and exits with suaveness
>>33947146Lol, good one
>>33947144Know me for 5 years and use that time to demonstrate you'd make a good partner
>>33947147You can't kill what's already dead.
>>33947148That sounds kind of like harassment.
>>33947151>cheat on me for 5 years with easier women
>>33947152Oh great, a nihilist on top.How wonderful.
>>33947082>You're referring to your friend's husband, yes?How did you know that?>>33947127>they are in an open relationshipDoes she fuck other men?
>>33947135i don't think i have ever talked to jh, does she go by the trip or anon? idk about i becoming a harem, from what I gather she was fine flirting with me but called it cheating if he flirted with me so I'm confused there. they've both come to me to talk about their relationship separately to vent, but as of the last couple of years it's been more him talking about it to me
>>33947156If you're fucking outside of relationships you should be castrated. Most men are nothing like that, they see celibacy as a virtue, especially the introverted ones.
>>33947152Fair enough
>"open relationship">fucks his gf friend and tells her he loves herfunny stuff if it wasn't puke worthy
>>33947153>That sounds kind of like harassmentShe already clarified that one must be attractive first.
>>33947153It's not. I have an hr degree and harassment is unwanted contact. Harassment is if you continue hitting on her if she said to stop.
>>33947162Why do you need 5 years to know a "good man".
>>33947145JH, you're not getting married.
>>33947158she has been in side relationships in the past he knew of and they have both dated a mutual guy of mine together. from what I understand she isn't currently seeking but he has confided in me that he thinks she's asexual as the relationship has gone on
>>33947169Im not her
>>33947165Oh, okay.
>>33947170>they have both dated a mutual guyAre they both bisexual?This sounds very millennial
>>33947170He's bi?
>>33947170*mutual guy friend of mine. who also had feelings for me but I rejected since I as in relationship at the time
>>33947163>gets castratedNothing personal
>>33947175>This sounds very millennialKek
>>33947116We won't be living separately and we will be having dinner and sleeping in my apartment each night, he just has the place leased for a few months. But he will be in university and I will be at work. So he will be surrounded by beautiful young women all day.There are some external pressures. Is it possible extra guilt could scare him away from it?For example, I will be paying both my rent and his for this separate apartment and possibly his tuition (there's a whole backstory as to why but it's irrelevant). And I was there for him at his rock bottom (also paid his rent back then).He expresses some shame but big gratitude about these things. But does that matter to a man if a cute woman offers him a quick blowjob after class?
>>33947168How else am I meant to do to filter out the ones who would deceive me or are only in it for sex? Men on /adv/ always say to wait till marriage, 5 years of friendship isn't as extreme considering that he can platonically demonstrate his qualities to other women and I can evaluate other men's value as partners in the meanwhile.
women should be banned from saying men because it *only* means chad, when they say it.
>>33947181>But does that matter to a man if a cute woman offers him a quick blowjob after class?Since when is that a thing?
>>33947183It's weird that any man I talk about is chad, which makes everything I say invalid, but when I ask you lot to define chad you keep deflecting and finally stop replying.
>>33947182>If you're fucking outside of relationships you should be castrated. Most men are nothing like that, they see celibacy as a virtue, especially the introverted ones.>I can evaluate other men's value as partners in the meanwhile.Nigga...
>>33947072I also find it very annoying. I wish the OP at least had the pasta if it’s going to hit the catalog way too early.
>>33947187>but when I ask you lot to define chad you keep deflecting and finally stop replyingENTJ, basically.
>JH looked like this in her prime and didnt get married
>>33947186There are hypersexual and mentally ill women out there.Even if not that, would my actions matter to him if he encountered and successfully pursued another attractive woman? Would he be blinded by the chance to fuck another person?
>>33947181This seems incredibly onesided.Like you are LARPing as one of those adopt a NEET providers.
>>33947192>Straight hair>Tasteful earringsI don't think so.
>>33947194Most people don't cheat. Do you have ROCD?
I would post my hands if JH posted her tramp stamp
>>33947181see, your problem is that you think just because you treat him good, he's going to be so grateful he remains faithfulmen don't think like that, he will be grateful for a week and then see some slut's whaletail in class and instantly throw you out in his mind
>>33947167Not all harassment is corporate.
>>33947188Can you not perceive any difference between thinking "hmm, we get along and she is loyal and dependable" and nutting inside someone?
>>33947201That's the legal definition of harassment as well sweet one
>>33947199JH never posted any of her skin in all these years, right?For all we know, she might be a pale gothie.
>>33947203>legal definitionWhere?
>>33947204lurk more faggot, JH is a confirmed larping white femcel with a glazing fetish who works at a bakery, not a college lab
>>33947204She's posted toonmes, she's blackAlso she posted nudes on /b/ like 15 years ago but no one has been able to locate them
>>33947175>>33947176yes and yes lol, though he is like me and more straight leaning. idk what she is, but he called her asexual to me. he admitted to me that he feels like her true love was the mutual partner though, but he passed away. i miss him too and feel bad because that mutual admitted to having feelings for me right before he died. I'm also wondering what her thought process is with it being okay for her to flirt with me but then later on when he flirts with me she considers him cheating? they've both vented to me about eachother in the past but he has gotten a lot closer to me about his relationship issues/traumas/life in general within the past couple of years, so this has been gradual
>>33947206In the usa
>>33947211Shit, no wonder women want out of there.
>>33947204she used to do ASMR and joi content
>>33947195I'm not LARPing, but yes I am a provider.He's not NEET by definition. Maybe NET.>>33947198Yeah but this feels like a real threat. So many people DO cheat and STDs are terrifying.I know I should sit in the discomfort and accept that I can't control it but it's so hard.>>33947200Is there no way around this? Are you a man speaking from experience?
>>33947181Was he previously deprived of pussy and was really thirsting?Serial masturbator?Low impulse control (snacking, emotional outbursts and other similar behaviors)?Do you fail to keep him sexually satisfied, do you not match his libido?If yes to most, he might. Just a shitty checklist I pulled out of my ass. Some men cheat, some men don't. But chances increase for the former depending on who they are and the current status of the relationship. Like you don't match his horniness and your relationship is currently unstable, lots of arguing nagging etc etc.
>>33947202I just feel you're not doing math. The first guy is getting 5 years of "we'll see" All while you are actively evaluating other men. You meet a guy and hit it off in two minutes, while stringing along some other guy for 4 years so far. Does the new guy *also* get 5 years of evaluation? Logic says yes, heart says no. You either decide "this is the one!" in two minutes discarding the other guy you've known for years, or you "evaluate" the new guy for 5 years, while knowing the old guy for 9-10 years. First guy is like "yeah this is my babe we've been together for 10 years" and you're like "nah, new guy has that spark" so it keeps escalating. You give yourself these huge windows, so another guy can show up in the equation, and the oldest guy always gets fucked over.
>>33947209Are they child free as well?
>>33947199It's not a tramp stamp. It's a small, uncentered tat.>>33947192I only tried to straighten my hair when I was a kid and wanted to fit in.>>33947217I never did JOI content ever. Except as a joke here.
>>33946720Hair transplants
>>33947225>as a jokewe could hear the shlicking girl
>>33947144>>33947148>>33947153>>33947165They should just make life like a game where you can only interact if you're in the same league. With microchip implants attractive women could appear simply as blurry sillouettes if you're ELO isn't high enough.
>>33946732Oh my God I've been on a black girl phase for the past three weeks and you show me these black girl goths??I just want freedom
>>33947228I'm assuming you're thinking of a different voca that I didn't do. Because I definitely wasn't when I posted that joke.
>>33947230You just described all women. Chad is highlighted in neon green in 8K resolution, every other man is removed via an AI filter, unless they're scary then they're highlighted red.
>>33947224not intentionally, no. they wanted kids but it just never happened, fertility issues maybe. he mentioned getting a car later on and my male friend heard the type and told me he's basically trying to lock it down with that potentially having kids
>>33947220>You do x and yI've never done those things and your whole fanfic is based on a false premise. The first guy doesn't get "we'll see", he doesn't approach me because he doesn't know me. If he does approach me I tell him I'm not interested in knowing him because I'd never date someone so shallow and unstable that he could imagine he's romantically interested in a complete stranger and act on it.The first guy gets friendship, as does the second guy, and they also get friendship from the other women they're friends with. This is how healthy and social human beings function and how they want to function.
>>33947218>but it's so hardYeah, I know, and I'm sorry. But cheating is mostly genetic. If he's going to do it, he's going to do it.
>>33947225>JH will never post her "NO COLOREDS" raceplay panoramic tattoo out of fear of getting doxxed
>>33947189GIOYC is doing fine without it, though>>33940165
>>33947234NTA Chad is sexy-scary though. I think you mean ugly-creepy
>>33947236He gets friendship *without* approaching?
>>33947230This is the future Elon wants
>>33947233mmhmmm
>>33947219>Was he previously deprived of pussy and was really thirsting?Yeah. But he also dated women he decided not to pursue further because he didn't like them.>Serial masturbator?He was, but was very careful to not get porn induced ED.>Low impulse control (snacking, emotional outbursts and other similar behaviors)?Yeah, he's struggled with it. But he successfully stopped every substance cold turkey for this relationship.>Do you fail to keep him sexually satisfied, do you not match his libido?Nope, I'd say mine is higher and I'm crazy about him.That said these questions all apply to me and I'd never cheat on him. Even if I see someone else I find attractive and they seem open, I simply avoid them because I love him.But is there a large cognitive difference between men and women when it comes to loyalty?
>>33947209>>33947235This sounds like a very sad marriage Were they always in a open relationship or did this happen after some time?
>>33947160>i don't think i have ever talked to jh, does she go by the trip or anon? idk about i becoming a harem, from what I gather she was fine flirting with me but called it cheating if he flirted with me so I'm confused there. they've both come to me to talk about their relationship separately to vent, but as of the last couple of years it's been more him talking about it to meShe posts as anon
>>33947241Approaching romantically. I assumed that was what you meant because there's no sense in telling a platonic friend "we'll see about dating".
>>33947244>But is there a large cognitive difference between men and women when it comes to loyalty?a man understands loyalty exclusively as a public concepta man will cheat in private and congratulate himself for remaining loyal since he didnt get caught
>>33947144>>33947148>>33947230It's probably better for men to simply not approach. Dating apps are the new public square, anyway.
>>33947249So how does the 5 years work? Friends for 5 years? Dating for 5 years?It sounds to me you're saying you need 5 years just to have the first date.
>>33947238I'd never get a tattoo for fetish reasons. That's so dumb, even by my standards.>>33947243You can't hear anything but me being completely cringe in https://voca.ro/1b8ORFOnQBSi. Stop inventing new ways to make me look dumber.
>>33947145More attracted (possibly by far)
>>33947255do your partners ever gaslight you into believing obvious fibs for fun or are they more respectful
>>33947169why do you insist on calling every anon after some obscure e-celebits so tiring
>>33947258Gaslighting is a strong term. They joke a lot, if that's what you mean.
>>33947255>gaslit her into posting it>its not even that good>didnt even try to hide her valleyass accentwack
>>33947264Syd looks so hot here
>>33947260Whatever, Swiss.
>>33947239You didn’t even link to the previous thread this time, either.
>>339472545 years was an estimate, sometimes it could take 2, sometimes 10, based on both parties and how quick they are to get along and if they're in compatible places in life (both simultaneously single and having the time and drive to date, both employed, living in the same town, similar plans for the near and far future).I'm not interested in anyone I don't know and trust, which is also why none of my friends use dating apps to look for a bf. I was friend with my bf for 7 years before I decided that I wanted a partner and he'd make a good one, so that was when I asked him out.
>>33947264Is that a valley accent?I met this black girl who had an accent very similar to that even though she's born & bred in London. She said it's because she's one of those accent cucks whose voice changes based on the people around her and she dated two Americans
thinking about that time anon posted about how he raped his japanese coworker 1 day before he left japan for good
>>33947246it happened after some time i think a few years into the relationship or after their marriage. they got married really young, and it was her idea to open the relationship. i'm just wondering if he still wants children because he still has time left if he can, and I am just going with the flow but his actions towards me with the phone stuff makes me wonder if he wants something potentially long term>>33947248oh. well idk then if she is anon, maybe, maybe not
>>33947274>accent cucks whose voice changes based on the people around her and she dated two AmericansLol, the memes are true.
>>33947272That's valid, just a longer-term kind of tempo. Would you be upset if he had feelings for other women while being with you, despite that timespan?
>>33947278The memes?
>>33947264It wasn't supposed to be good. IT'S A FUCKING JOKE, NOT ACTUAL JOI, LIKE I SAID IN THE FIRST PLACE.
>>33947255JH, can you give /adv/ice to this femanon? >>33947277
>>33947264How do i get a woman to look at me like this?
>>33947072Please link the old thread after baking a new one.
