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I come from an upper-upper-middle-class family where money hasn't really been an issue for more than a decade at this point, but we have always been very humble - we drive regular and own regular sized apartments, we still all work full-time etc. Combined family net worth is prob more than 1 million dollars, and mine alone is like 300k$+

Every time that I am dating I always hide the fact that money is not an issue for me, dress regular, never show it off, however, I am still 29 and single.
I do consider myself ugly (mouthbreather face) so I am playing on hard mode had a few flings, and the longest relationship I had was 1.5 years.

I am wondering if I should stop pretending I am "mid"? Just tell a girl outright "you can live with me rent free don't worry about no bills" or something?
Tell her I am fine she does not even have a job, as I earn enough anyway?
She can scroll on her phone all day or go to the gym, see her friends or something during the day while I am at work.

I am not talking about buying a brand new iPhone to every single girl I go on a date - I just want to tell a girl I am well off and I can make her life comfortable without giving the impression that I will buy her a Gucci bag worth 2000$ if she sleeps with me.

Any anons who went a similar route or will this only end up with me getting gold-diggers full of drama who might divorce-rape me in the end?
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>>33950440
I won't read status-obsessed threads. Attention issue: Just get a life.
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>>33950440
if ur so rich get plastic surgery
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>>33950440
Don't disguise it but don't lead with it.
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>>33950440
I am guessing you aren't from the US.
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>>33950440
What do you do for a living OP?
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>>33950440
You think a NW of 300k / family total NW of $ 1 million is a lot?
Where the fuck do you live buttfuck Mississippi?
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>>33953009
He's probably talking about real liquid assets not stuff like "I R a millionaire because I have a $999K mortgage on an $1M crack house in California LOL"
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Get a bimax anon
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You don't want to lead with money since you will attract women that think you're cool with giving her a $2000 Gucci bag every month (and expect that).

Having said that, and I have a similar background to you, in my experience even if you live frugally there's going to be habits that are going to indicate you come from money. For me, it's never looking at the bill or overtipping.
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>>33950440
>Combined family net worth is prob more than 1 million dollars
>I come from an upper-upper-middle-class family
No you don't.



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