>35 years old>no gf ever>no dates ever>no women attracted to me ever, not in school, university, or any jobs>lifted weights for many years but finally get my BMI to below 25>make multiple dating app profiles after never having done so>zero matches>start paying for apps>zero matchesSo all of the hopium was copium all along. And I'm proven to be unattractive. Now what?
>>33952679Height?
>>339527006'1"
based
>>33952704Then that's not the problem. You are either hideous or are so autistic that women can sense it from a mile away
>>33952704>6'1"BullshitUnless you have a god awful face or look like a pedophile you would at least get somethingYou're either doing something wrong or you're severely downplaying your face
>woe is me. my life sucksgrow a pair.
>>33952735>no argument>reddit spacingkill yourself
>>33952679>>no gf ever>>no dates ever>>no women attracted to me ever, not in school, university, or any jobsDid you ever ask anyone out? Or flirt? Or even talk to any?If the answer is no, you've never tried.
>>33952916I once tried talking to a girl in a cafeteria in university but she looked immediately traumatised that I talked to her so I walked away and thankfully never saw her again. That was over 10 years ago.At my previous job I sat at a table with other men and women during lunch and would sometimes say stuff but it was clear that all women were disgusted by my presence and barely said more than two words in my direction, so I stopped sitting with anyone.
>>33952679Try femboymaxxing. Most women are lgbtqia now and want to peg cute attractive boys.
>>33953050Your low self-esteem is probably the source of your issues. Women can sense that.Incidentally, your self-esteem leading to no success is fueling your low self-esteem in a vicious cycle.
>>33953050So, to be clear you've never actually tried, bar maybe ONE half-hearted attempt at conversation with a live human female no fewer than ten (10) years ago. Exactly what I thought...So why, then, the question becomes, does the no gf/dates ever thing surprise you? What did you think would happen?
>>33953062Women make it obvious if they like you
>>33952712Judging by the way you talk, I imagine you're between 5'9" and 5'11". Am I right?
>>33952679>>lifted weights for many years but finally get my BMI to below 25Great work, anon. Super hard to stay consistent like that.
>>33953065>I have never had success with a woman or even interacted with one>so trust me, I'm the expert here
>>33953065Yeah, they might like you if you actually hit it off with them after you talk to them or shoot your shot. How would they even know otherwise?
>>33953156I'm scared to do that. No woman would ever like me so they would react in disgust and contempt
>>33953158>I'm scared to do that.Well, obviously. Your thread begins and ends with that point.>No woman would ever like me so they would react in disgust and contemptSelf-fulfilling prophecy, you're your own worst enemy anon.
>>33953062>What did you think would happen?nta but i was under the impression that it would “just happen” like it seems to for everyone else. turns out i was fucking lied to
>>33953792>nta but i was under the impression that it would “just happen” NTA either but I was spoonfed that exact same shit since the fucking cradle.
>>33952679>women blablaJust fuck men. We are much less judgemental and more straightfoward, especially in dating apps. Plus, some will even look like women.
>>33952712Nah the benefits of height are vastily overstated, or at least for apps. I look fine, am 6'3, and I hardly get any attention from women on dating apps. I feel like height works better approaching IRL.
>>33952712I’m 6’7 and same as OP but I’m 31
>>33954489>>33952704lolol height is really a meme. I'm good looking but 5'10 yet i pull more than this 6' dude i know
>>33952679Accept it. Acceptance is the key to peace and life satisfaction. Not everyone can have sex or love.The sooner you accept that, the better your life will be. I’m 37, I dwelled on it for so many years feeling depressed. But at 36, I found self acceptance, and now my life feels as if it’s just starting.
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>>33952679>>no gf ever>>no dates ever>>no women attracted to me ever, not in school, university, or any jobs>>33953050>I once triedoh boy>>33953065>Women make it obvious if they like youOH BOYI almost have more respect for desperate wannabe PUA weirdos that trip over their own dick trying to harass strangers up and down the street being all "uhm hi excuse me I think you're attractive hello please don't walk away can I get your phone number you have a nice face" because at least they're proactive and will try talking to the opposite sex more than once before giving up entirely.
>>33953792>i was under the impression that it would “just happen”what would just happen? A girl would come over and sit on your lap and do all of the social & inter-personal heavy lifting for you?>>33953804>I was spoonfed that exact same shit since the fucking cradle.Who's been telling you guys this?
>>33955121NTA, but romance "just happening" is a thing when you have normal social interactions. Making friends, friends of friends, or converging social groups. I've seen a big prevailing mindset here of "oh not a girl so why bother talking to them" then wondering why they have no friends.
>>33955140>romance "just happening" is a thing when you have normal social interactions.yeah, when you have normal social interactions.these fellas refuse to talk to women unless the girl is sitting across the room twirling her hair around her finger while sucking on a lolipop and criss-crossing her legs while whistling at them, and whatever they must think all the "obvious signs" are when a girl likes you (even though you're a complete stranger to her and refuse to talk her)I thought it was just the one guy making the same thread over and over again, but obviously there's a few guys out there who suffer from the same self-fulfilling prophecy.
>>33955110yeah but I’m actually that tall and women avoid eye contact with me. I also hear white women shit talk white men all the time and I’m white.
>>33955201>I also hear white women shit talk white men all the timeno you don't
>>33955102This is unironically the best advice in the thread
>>33953792>under the impression that it would “just happen” like it seems to for everyone elseYeah, but it "just happens" for those of us with an active social life and who actually regularly interact with women.>turns out i was fucking lied toNo, you really weren't. You merely did nothing to set yourself up for success, either out of laziness or cowardice or both.
>>33955287women are repulsed by me.
>>33955297Such is life
>>33955297Why? Because they don't throw themselves at you on sight?How would you even know?
>>33955317Probably because I'm only 6'1 and my face is average
>>33955297>>33955323this is just r9k shitposts>women are repulsed by my because I'm not a 7 foot tall rock star billionaire social media influencer with a 9 inch cock and a 10 figure salary - only those guys are able to start dating girls back in jr highmeanwhile you've got all sorts of fat normies and short redditors and average-at-best people with girlfriends, boyfriends, wives/husbands and kids.
>>33955333>meanwhile you've got all sorts of fat normies and short redditors and average-at-best people with girlfriends, boyfriends, wives/husbands and kids.cap
>>33955213I saw them say you can’t be racist to white men when I was there and the other white men agreed like cucks
>>33955343>braindead zoomoid detectedThat tracks, you little faggots are the most sexless generation in history.
>>33955438Shouldn't you be in the retirement home unc
>>33955413>I heard this one vague hypothetical thing taken out of context that one time, all the timethis is why you don't have a gfone nothing thing happens one time, and you turn this ant hill into some eternal mountainI bet it was in some college humanities class as well.
>>33955466It was in context you n*gger I was there
>>33955473What was the context? It was a humanities class wasn't it.
>>33955483No it was a gathering party thing and they were talking about men and this bitch that has a boyfriend (could be black too) was talking about having sex with another guy and the other women didn’t tell her it was wrong
>>33955498>was talking about having sex with another guywhat does that have to do with racism
>>33955509They were talking about black men and then white guys and then mentioned racisms. I’m trying to be vague so I don’t doxx.
>>33955576>I saw them say you can’t be racist to white men when I was there and the other white men agreed like cucks> this bitch that has a boyfriend (could be black too) was talking about having sex with another guy and the other women didn’t tell her it was wrongThese are two completely unrelated and totally separate conversations>I’m trying to be vague so I don’t doxx.Yeah I'm sure that the girls from the """gathering party type thing""" are lurking in this thread.
>>33955592One of the guys could be
>>33955606one of the guys could be what?
>>33952679It's over basically
>>33955640I posted that when I was jobless and in a dark place in life.Years later happy to report that I have a great job but am more lonely and older than ever, it never gets better
>>33955640>You will die aloneThis is solvableIt's very easy to die by taking lots of lives with youGrab a big vehicle and drive a pedestrian-only zone at max speed untill either the engine/structure gives up after the impact with 100+ bodies or the law enforcers shoot youEither way, you'll die like a pharaon, with dozens of strangers following you into the afterlife
>>33953156>How would they even know otherwise?Girls shoot their shot, then the guy has to do the work. At least that's what happened to me and to all the people below 30 that I know in a relationship. There's no point courting a girl that hasn't approached you.
>>33955868Completely backwards, but I'll let you cook lil zoom-zoom.
>>33955868>There's no point courting a girl that hasn't approached you.There is a point, the point is that you could get a gf by talking to girls, vs not ever talking to girls unless they walk over and sit on your lap
>>33955333>women are repulsed by my because I'm not a 7 foot tall rock star billionaire social media influencer with a 9 inch cock and a 10 figure salary - only those guys are able to start dating girls back in jr highUnironically, yes
>>33955333>meanwhile you've got all sorts of fat normies and short redditors and average-at-best people with girlfriends, boyfriends, wives/husbands and kids.I saw couples like this at a concert but I have no idea how these people got together in the first place.
>>33955868>There's no point courting a girl that hasn't approached you.It's much easier when you already know they like you but it's so rare you better marry her
>>33958337>I saw couples like this at a concert but I have no idea how these people got together in the first place.Maybe they don't have unrealistic standards towards the opposite sex? Have you tried approaching average girls out there? I'm also average as fuck with no dating experience and at least two normie girls showed interest in me, I didn't follow up with them because my wallet is smoother than a Barbie's crotch and nobody likes a broke dude, not even the ugly ones.
