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I don't very many dates and I basically don't know what kind of woman I even want. How do you even go about figuring that out? Like to me, I think I'd want a woman who gets jealous easily because it would make me feel wanted. However, a friend told me "You don't know what you are asking for. You don't want a jealous woman." So in your opinion, how would you go about figuring out what kind of woman is your true preference? Another example, I "prefer" Mexican women how I don't know if that is my TRUE preference because I have never actually dated a Mexican woman and I don't know if that preference was put in my head by some weird media algorithm or what. I just know at a surface level, I like the qualities that one might generally associate with a Mexican woman. I honestly envy guys that have gotten to date many women because they have a very good idea of what they like and don't like. I have no idea effectively. Like what if I like Brazilian midget women? How the hell would I even know? Thats an extreme example but its the point I am trying to make.
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I feel bad that nobody has replied to you in 4 hours.

> How do you even go about figuring that out?
Well, who wears the pants. One should be masculine/leader, and the other more of a follower.

What kind of religion. How many kids. Saver or spender. What to do for fun, travel, etc.

Do you guys stay fit or are you slobs.

> I think I'd want a woman who gets jealous easily because that would make me feel wanted.

I mean, you're not wrong. You want a woman who has high interest in you. My wife would "mate guard" by holding my elbow or putting her arm on me when we were at parties with other women around. I wouldn't call it jealousy, just competition. Kitty Kats Compete.

> I have no idea effectively.
Try this link >>33949408 for a 101 about LTRs. It should give you some ideas about what to look for.
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>>33956178
You want a woman that gives you the least amount of problems. So, you date and date until you find one that YOU truly want to keep seeing. Maybe she's got a fat ass you love burying your dick in, maybe she likes a lot of the same things as you (without you telling her this beforehand, it's a common mantrap), maybe she cooks amazing meals for you, maybe she listens to you or puts up with your goofy hobbies, etc.

You pay attention to how the relationship changes as time passes and you listen to your gut instinct. I suggest putting these women through trials like an extended vacation - a trip longer than 8 hours will test your relationship as you work together or fight to get where you are going. If she reveals some ugly character trait like being a drunk, a nasty person to people she deems below her, or something that sticks with you longer than the moment, then you gotta weigh your options and cut her loose if it's a deal breaker. Make sure you set boundaries early.

You don't want a jealous woman. She'll text and expect you to reply immediately. She'll cut you off from any women in your life that she thinks are a threat (your mother included). She'll try to cut out your time with your friends, she'll break things out of frustration, etc. etc. They are easy to get hyped up which can lead to sex (female control mechanism) but
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You should go on more dates if you don't know what you want. The trick isn't to get attached to the idea of clinging out of fear of being alone in the end

>>33956682
Sounds good on paper
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>>33956752
>a trip longer than 8 hours will test your relationship as you work together or fight to get where you are going.
Yep, based. You need a woman who keeps peace under pressure.
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>>33956178
You don't choose a type in advance. You meet a girl who attracts you and who is inexplicably willing to go out with you, and you see how it goes.



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