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Uhhhm. Should I try dating apps again? I have no other ways of meeting women.
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>>33956644
>I have no other ways of meeting women.
i'm sure you do
>Uhhhm. Should I try dating apps again?
probably a bad idea
even if you get a relationship it'll probably be one which makes you feel resentful for foggy reasons
but i don't mean to hex you, good luck if you try
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>>33956647
>I'm sure you do
I only go to work, and all of the women at my job are in their late 30s or already dating a dude.
>even if you get a relationship it'll probably be one which makes you feel resentful for foggy reasons
True. I would probably ghost them after fucking anyway lol. Thanks Anon
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>>33956644
If you're sub 6'0 (with lifts) or below a 6/10 don't bother
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>>33956658
>I only go to work, and all of the women at my job are in their late 30s or already dating a dude.
well you can go other places, i mean
it can help to explore the local area like skyrim, but idk
probably sounds like a joke :/
>True. I would probably ghost them after fucking anyway lol. Thanks Anon
np
good luck anon, hope you can find something else to do
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>>33956663
I am 6 foot but I don't let that deter me. I see manlets with girls all the time.
>>33956666
>but idk
>probably sounds like a joke :/
Nah that sounds kinda cool. Just going up to random people and starting a conversation. Fuck it. I have nothing to lose. Closed mouths don't get fed.
>good luck anon, hope you can find something else to do
Thanks man.
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>>33956668
>Nah that sounds kinda cool. Just going up to random people and starting a conversation. Fuck it. I have nothing to lose. Closed mouths don't get fed.
it's true

i talked to this old black guy fishing at a pond once
talked to plenty of people
i imagine if you did that enough times, you'd eventually be able to start conversations with girls your age
dunno..
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>>33956644
Dating apps are dead. I'm afraid you will have to go out to shows or bars or somewhere else off a screen. Spending money on a cover charge or a drink will be better than paying premium for some algorithm to throttle your chances.
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>>33956666
Nice numerals but
>it can help to explore the local area like skyrim, but idk
Women use The Phone to meet men and get laid, and they get hundreds of options on The Phone every day that make them feel like minor celebrities. If you dare to intrude on their peace as they try to go about their day without undesirable male attention, you'll be publicly verbally flagellated.
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>>33956881
If you are uncomfortable with approaching women maybe you can make friends with guys and see if they know any single ladies maybe relatives of theirs even? You could talk to old guys and see if they have daughters or something.
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>>33956881
i think it depends
it's a big world, anon, and women are 50% of 10 billion or whatever
no way in hell are all of them like that, and in fact i've only met a few
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>>33956644
Actually finding a worthwhile, good woman from an app is like finding a needle in a haystack. I wouldn't exactly recommend it, but it's still possible. If you've no other avenues, then give it a try. Just prepare for soul crushing.
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>>33956893
>If you are uncomfortable with approaching women
Son I've been macking on girls since the towers fell, it's the times. You zoom zooms really don't know what times were like before The Phone.
>>33956903
>50% of 10 billion
Let's say I was, as a not fat and not deformed male, willing to not fuck deformed or fat females.
Not to mention you can be fucked by geography: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/data/seattle-is-the-nations-most-male-skewed-major-city/
(I live in Seattle and can't move for at least several more years due to business obligatons)
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>>33956644
that woman reminds me of the dog meme with the bee sting mouth
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>>33957151
>Son I've been macking on girls since the towers fell, it's the times. You zoom zooms really don't know what times were like before The Phone.
I'm an elder millennial. Things have especially gone to shit since the plandemic.
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>>33956903
>>33957151
Sorry I forgot my main point that even if you discard fatties and deformed, you're still only dealing within the fertile cohort of women which is always less than the corresponding amount of men

Sorry but I always get pissed off by the "abundance mentality" shit. Men from all over the world are invading my country for tax dollars and women, in my city specifically, and it's making things hard for us natives.
In minecraft, things will get kinetic. I promise
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>>33957165
Great so you agree with me
I mean my last relationship only ended earlier this year, but since I've had to get back into dating I've noticed how things have changed for the worse. Having a pussy makes you a minor celebrity now even if you look like Gorlock the Destroyer

DOWN WITH THE TECHNO PHARISEES. DEATH TO THIEL, ALTMAN, BEZOS, BENNIOFF, DORSEY, AND ZUCKERBERG.
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>>33957172
>Great so you agree with me
I do but still think you could go out and meet someone at least the chances are better than on apps at this time even if it's not like 10+ years ago.
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>>33956647
Why would that be the case....
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>>33956644
Meeting women is not a sufficient goal - you have to meet suitable women and you're unlikely to find them on apps.
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>>33956825
This, I restarted my tinder and the first few days were normal bitches, didn't take long for the algorithm to start pushing the cunts who just want a sugar daddy. This is why imma start working out in public more cause the trails I frequent often has a bevy of bitches you can spit game at.
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>>33956644
idk, I've tried a few times over the years
each time I work myself up, start thinking 'you know, I do have good qualities, I'd make some girl happy'
then I leave the profile open for a couple weeks, get no matches, and get a little closer to killing myself
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>>33956658
>all of the women at my job are ... already dating a dude
little secret, women are almost never single
you have to talk to them even though they aren't and convince them you're better than their boyfriend (but without saying that directly, that would be autistic)
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>>33958428
maybe you'll never understand this anon, but you may as well try sucking your own dick if you think women aren't having sex without an ulterior motive.
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>>33959074
how is that relevant to anything I said?
they do that, but they also just have sex where the only motive is that it feels good for them
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>>33956644
The general consensus is that they're horrible, and lord knows I had a shitty time. But I know 2 people who are very normal in terms of physical attractiveness who met their now spouses on dating apps...

Only do it if you think you can handle it, I find it ends up making me feel like shit. I have no rizz and require in person interactions to have any chance of finding a mate
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>>33959165
>. I have no rizz and require in person interactions to have any chance of finding a mate
I feel like not giving a fuck helps with anxiety and no rizz. Just pretend the chick is your hairy uncle instead of a whore with fat tits



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