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I have an ok life in and of itself. I have a decent paying job that's easy enough and I have a few acres in the woods. But I have this ex who went off and married some rich guy. I've kicked the habit of stalking their social media but I still think about all the stuff they do just non stop "Oh this week we're in NYC and going backstage at some concert and next week we're going to the arctic ocean and next week we're going to Germany" and just on and on and on

So I can't enjoy anything because any time I like something for one second I think about all the cool shit they do like every day

How do I stop fixating on that?
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>>33956716
You have to love yourself enough to know what you can and realistically can't have. That same fixation you have on her, really is what you should redirect back into you, because at the end of the day, it isn't her those feelings are coming from, but a part of yourself.

Start really accepting your reality, and realize how infinitely expansive it really is. She isn't the whole world, it's actually you.
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I don't know but I'm pissed off I married a middle class guy and not someone like your ex's new boyfriend. My ass could have ten kids with three nannies for each, they would all go to private school and we could travel the world together. Can you ask the dude you're jealous of if I can be his side ho? Thanks. Oh and maybe you should kill yourself.
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I married a guy that's broke and it turns out he's rich enough to afford a house in the boujee part of town. Maybe it wasn't about money and she just likes this guy more.
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>>33956926
>she thinks living in the bougie part of town means anything

You won't get gangraped there but most public schools are still shittier than elite private schools, hope you like having dumb kids who grow up to be no name white collar cogs in the machine
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>>33956716
The only real way to win in this situation is to kill them



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