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(Kinda large story)
For the last months i been dating this girl who i love with all my heart. I only want her to be happy (after all she went through serious shit, she deserves calm and happiness)
Multiple times she had told me that she doesnt feel well in her body, even before we start dating, and i dont have problem of calling her by "him" while she is present but...transition is a whole other thing. Im very straight with my sexuality so i wont see her the same way i do now (that wont stop some feelings i have for her)
To be honest i prefer to give her the courage to do it at the cost of my own happiness. I feel that if i see them happy im going to feel happy for helping them achieve their goal.
At the same time im scared of being alone and not finding anyone like her again
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>doesn't feel well in her body
what aspects? mental issues of any kind will cause disassociation and disconnect and a Need To Escape, yanno?
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Advice from voluntary celibate here.

It seems to me, that you are neither Chad nor Chad-lite, and you were only brave enough to approach this woman, because you felt she was as low-status as you.

Let's say, there's a reason Chad and normalfag guys would scrunch their nose at her and leave, even if she's somewhat pretty. Mentally healthy women don't want to chop their tits off.

Your final moonshot, is to search for months for info and articles, about why all that trans thing is a scam (suicide statistics, how surgeons and pharma make money off trannies, etc). As a woman, she wouldn't give two fucks about statistics, but she will probably feel peer pressured by knowing there are people who think like that, and that trans supporters are obscure weirdos backed by media and not the majority.

If this doesn't work, she can't be your girlfriend and it's finished. Otherwise, it would be living hell for both of you.
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>>33957390
That is not going to help her, trust me on that.
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>>33957390
>went through serious shit
>wants to be a male
don't commit to anything serious with this person



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