How do you treat people that always tell you what to do when you interact with them?Like for instance, you're drinking something and they say, use a coaster. Or you're listening to music and they say, use headphones. Or you grab a burrito from the fridge to microwave it, and they say throw the wrapper away before eating.The list goes on and on, but all of these examples would be from the same person, always doing it, every time they speak to you. Every single time.
>>33977614I don't interact with people like that at all. Cool thing about being an adult is that you get to pick your company.
>>33977621Well, I guess that's the only way
>>33977614>coaster, headphones, throw away your trashtext doesn't convey tone but these sound like reasonable requests. What else do people demand of you?
>>33977700Not people. Just one person. And only that one person. Nobody else does this. And they do it like as if it annoys them.
>>33977614I tell them no if it's my space and I comply if it is their space. If you're at my house, I want you to use a coaster so my table doesn't get water damage. I'd want you to wear headphones so I can considerate to read my book. I wouldn't care about the wrapper as long as you do throw it away, so perhaps you forget to throw the wrapper away? I don't want to have to throw away your trash.So if all of this stuff is happening at that person's house, either listen or stop going. If it is happening at your house, tell them that you're going to kick them out if they tell you what to do at your place.
>>33977761Are you at their house when they ask you this? Is this person your parent?
>>33977614Assert dominance by getting too close to them and touching their face.
>>33977793>Are you at their house when they ask you this? No>Is this person your parent?NoThis would be like at work or something. A place that is neither mine nor theirs.
>>33978111Then tell 'm to fuck off in a polite
>>33977614Maybe you should get a job and move out OP
>>33978636Move out of what? I live on my own and have a job.
>>33977700Throwing away a wrapper before microwaving isn’t a reasonable request>>33977614Tell them stfu or better yet don’t do what they say silently.
>>33978758Yes, I like that idea. Ignore them
>>33977614Tell them no
>>33977614> Like for instance, you're drinking something and they say, use a coaster. Or you're listening to music and they say, use headphones. Or you grab a burrito from the fridge to microwave it, and they say throw the wrapper away before eating.I don’t know about the burrito thing, but if you did the other two in my house, I probably wouldn’t invite you again.But there are other people who don’t care at all about those things. Just hang with them instead. You can’t be friends with everyone.
>>33977614What did America do ? They just took it up the ass from the King right ?
>>33979413Oh look, it's you, the guy that has a fetish for chloe grace moretz. Lol and now I know you don't like people drinking stuff in your house without coasters.
>>33977614OP has never heard the Clown Joke.
>>33979506Bro!!!!!!! Stop being a creep and let him live!!!!!!XAK4!
>>33979799Hey look, I'm not knocking the guy. I get it. I've had a crush on chloe grace moretz ever since she was first on screen, so I fucking get it.
>>33977614In every one of those cases YOU are being selfish and inconsiderate and the person is merely asking you to act more civilly.
>>33979448What king?
>>33980013who is chloe grace moretz?
>>33981295lol you're kidding right?
>>33977614stop being such a selfish and inconsiderate prick YOU CANT TELL ME WHAT TO DO NONONONONONO youre a fucking baby, get the fuck over yourself
>>33981553Tell me he's kidding. She's like one of the hottest women on the planet...
>>33982449No, lmao, she isn't. She's like a 4/10. Hardly even worth getting my dick out for.
>>33981295This is Chloe.
>>33982952Okay, I changed my mind. 3/10. Plastic surgery looking bitch.
kek
>>33982952Looks like one of the Olsen twins
>>33977614>you're drinking something and they say, use a coasterReasonable depending on location, you should use a coaster because it's rude to damage others property, but if it's some random restaurant and the employees don't specifically ask you, it doesn't matter>you're listening to music and they say, use headphonesReasonable depending on location, very annoying being forced to also listen to something just because someone else wants to listen to music, don't subject others to the same things if they aren't interested>you grab a burrito from the fridge to microwave it, and they say throw the wrapper away before eatingIf it's their house, that's fine otherwise they're being really weirdEither this person is really autistic about social convention and don't realize they're being rude to you in the process, or they're genuinely a rude control freak trying to exert power over youHave a measured conversation about it and figure out which he is before you make a decision of to keep or cut him off
>>33977614From your examples, I think you should stop acting like a spoiled child.
>>33977614When they say "use a coaster", you reply "HOW ABOUT I USE YOUR FUCKING FACE FOR A COASTER, CUNT!"That's how I would do it.
>>33977621That's going to come around and bite you in the ass one day
>>33987617kek same
What kind of fucking caveman doesn't use coasters or headphones or throw away their garbage?
>>33978111Bro if you're not using headphones and are leaving garbage all over the shop at work, I'm dobbing your cunt ass in.Fuck coasters though, that's bootlicker shit.
>>33977614This person is your mom, and i think OP should do the dishes
>>33987645How does choosing the company you keep affect you in a negative way? If someone's an asshole I don't keep them in my circle, been pretty nice compared to the alternative for the years I've practiced it.
>>33988281>What kind of fucking caveman doesn't use coastersThis fucking caveman >>33988287 right here
>>33977614Sounds like you act rude and inconsiderate and so resentment has built up in them over time. Do they treat others like this? Using a coaster at work seems weird but I dunno, not a bad idea if the tables are the type that get damaged by drinks. You should never listen to music without headphones unless you are in your home or your car. No one wants to listen to your shitty music. Telling you to throw the burrito wrapper away specifically before your done eating is weird though, unless you have a habit of littering they have noticed before. Stop being annoying, even if you didn't mean it. If they tell you do something unreasonable say "why?" or "No thanks." If they push say, "Do it, or else what?" Or mock them by acting like a child "No, I won't do what you say mommy/daddy. Why don't you come here and change my diaper. You wanna act like my mom/dad then change my diaper. I got a big stinky one in there it needs cleaning. You need to wipe my ass and put baby powder on my butthole too if you want to be my mommy." I mean the point is to make fun of them for treating you like a child. Go off on them and don't be so afraid of saying something silly and cheeky.
>>33988363>You wanna act like my mom/dad then change my diaper. I got a big stinky one in there it needs cleaning. You need to wipe my ass and put baby powder on my butthole too if you want to be my mommy.Why do I get the feeling you're a closeted diaper fetish fag?
>>33988289I had sex with your mom last night.
>>33989514My mother is dead, you bastard.
>>33989869Oh, I didn't know.
>>33989869so that's why she didn't say goodnight...
>>33991466You had sex with a bag of bones. You're weird.
>>33989514That's rape
>>33994698Grape?
>>339829521/10 Gross
