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How do I get one at 26?
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you dont

everyones social circle comes from school or is an offshoot of a school social circle friends of friends of friends of people u met a party one time. either way it all starts in school

there are also fake social circles like neighbors coworkers etc. i don’t reccomend those
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>>33985432
I know a dude older than me who set one up and he just moved to this state.
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Right on pic related is me as a gigachad.
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>>33985425
My social circle is all gamers and cosplayers I met in real life from events and conventions. Just next week a bunch of us will be going to another convention for the weekend, and we regularly have house parties when there hasn't been a con in a while.

Simply have a hobby and find places to meet similar people.
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Tinder. Holy shit if you settle with a needy woman and have no friends to hang out with you have no idea what annoyances you won't be suffering.

Alternatively, regular a community server of a source engine game and befriend people you find funny.
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>>33985495
the goth scene around me is tiny and troon infested so its not like I can just avoid the troons.
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>>33985425
I stuck with a hobby that I liked and now I have a small circle even though I am very inhibited
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>>33985479
So you like JCs that fuck dead dudes?
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>>33985425
Rock climbing. Start with bouldering at a gym. If you get invited to an outdoor trip, you've made it.
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>>33986975
fine
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>>33985425
Meet your neighbors, your co-workers, your classmates, your local shopkeepers. Join a club, a team, a gym, a church. Do volunteer work. Take a random evening class. Go to concerts, ball games, other events
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>>33986966
No, I like being a badass dead dude that fucks hot chicks and gets them to look up to me as a gigachad... Don't know where you are coming from?
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>>33986975
Big box climbing gyms are gay bars in the big 25, literally every one I've been to has giant trans pride flags everywhere and troons at the front desk. This is a reflection of the clientele.
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>>33988769
everything is like this it seems.
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>>33988720
>neighbors always turn their backs to me
>colleagues all live in other cities (wfh)
>shopkeepers in Canada? Are you nuts? lol
>$700 to learn french for 1 month? no.
>ball games. I dont like that environment
>concerts. Happens 3 times a year
i already gym, and walk maxx.
Its like dating apps and traveling is the only way to entetain oneself with new company

i wish i was a sports fag, but im not.
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>>33988900
>i wish i was a sports fag, but im not.
le fixed mindset is cringe but I do think it applies here. commit to learning a new sport for a month. anything that looks even remotely interesting. if you gymmaxx it'll be even easier.
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>>33988900
Ontarian?
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>>33985425
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 46 or 26 it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
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>>33988973
of course
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>>33989414
I know ppl who moved to a new state and did it
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>>33985495
That's funny, /adv/ and /cgl/ said it's impossible to make friends through cosplay and youre "harassing people" if you try to make conversation
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Bump
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>>33988769
Have you considered maybe actually making friends with a troon, faggot, or lesbo?
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>>33994790
I have, never again
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bump
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>>33994790
I was friends with multiple for years. Underneath the zany quirky humor and surface level niceness they are fundamentally fucked up, narcissistic, bad people.
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>>33994790
those freaks always have a panic attack when they realize how bad they made their life so they go after you. some friends they are. never again.
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>>33986966
After reading the series, I was incredibly disappointed to discover that despite it literally being called The Ancient Magus' Bride, the girl and the freaky skeleton monster thing do not have any kind of romantic relationship, and in fact the author seems intent on making her a dyke or some shit because she's the Japanese equivalent of a 2015 era Tumblr social justice warrior.



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