I'm watching porn sometimes to masturbate. I know though my boyfriend doesn't at all, and I never told him whether I do or not, we just didnt talk about it. But I wonder if me masturbating to other people in the video is considered cheating? I do kinda feel guilty. Should I try to stop?
>>33986517ask him. each relationship defines their own boundaries, if he doesnt watch it he probably feels like its not faithful but only he knows the real answer
>try to stopYou'll relapse and give up, Mr. Fappypants.
Fag
>>33986525>>33986527these are deeply unhappy individuals who have no input because theyve never been in a relationship op, dont mind them
>>33986517Eh, that's tough. Are they people who are similar or different to him? Do you feel you're lacking anything in your intimacy with him?
>>33986532You want a "relationship" because you mistakenly believe that they are anything more than for the purpose of sexual gratification. Well, you have hands if all you want to do is shoot off bottlerockets.
>>33986557Its for procreation
>>33986610Yet another aspect of gratification; fulfilling the biological imperative, which is insentivised with a cocktail of neurochemicals.
>>33986615No, sexual gratification is for procreation. They aren't the same thing.
>>33986626Like fucking hell. People shit babies out and get addicted to it.
>>33986631>addicted to sexOk
It's a boundary set in some relationships and not others. Just have the discussion with him. Some couples watch it together.My bf stopped after a while without me asking because he could tell I'm a jealous person, and we're super sexually active. He may be lying but it's one I'm willing to believe for peace of mind.Is your bf insecure/possessive/jealous? If so you can approach by saying "I decided to give up porn" or "could you send me some nudes? I prefer thinking of you." This made me feel very comfortable and loved. I also stopped porn for him.
>>33986639Exactamundo. Pure gratification hamster wheel.
>>33986641>stopped pornYeah, and I have four balls.
>>33986534I dont think im unhappy sexually with him. Its just I dont see him often as most of the relationship we're long distance and im not a big fan of fapping to cameras (tho he likes it and was into camgirls before me so it makes sense he'd prefer me doing this over going back to sites). where there yk, its just one point of view and its not as exciting ig.
>>33986534And I dont think attraction matters to me a lot, I dont really care how actors look its just strictly physical action that does it for me.
>>33986681Soooo you could fuck a coatrack.
>>33986641Im not sure if he's a jealous type. I'm getting approched a lot on the street next to him when were together and Im not sure if its just that he got used to it or not. So I'd say he's not jealous but he is quite insecure about himself and I cant really ask him for nudes or anything cause he simply wont do much because of his perception of himself. Even when we're intimate personally Im not allowed to see much because hes a bit ashamed to show himself whole to me. I dont know how to help him change that either, but that limitation also had an impact on me, because I just get sad during it that he thinks i care about that or it just gets boring because of how little im allowed to see and do yk. Especially when I do whole bit shows to keep it exciting and him happy.Also I know for sure I would die of jealousy if he had favourite porn actresses or something like that, and since I know how unfair it would be im feeling absolutely guilty that Im doing it sometimes. I truly love the guy, I do want to keep him happy and I know this whole thing is a kind of akward situation Im too scared to talk to him about.
>>33986720>approached a lotFor change of a dollar? *sticks my elbow in you*
>>33986686for sure yeah
>>33986731yeah they usually ask how much
>>33986517Are you F or M?
>>33986760FTW KEK
>>33986808F
>>33986852Cute :)
YES
>>33986852This isn't me >>33986859Maybe watch lesbian or gay porn instead? Most guys wouldn't be jealous if their gf watched those.
>>33987054Not him but ;)
>>33986517Not cheating, but still inappropriate.That said, sex outside of marriage is far worse.
>>33987080Sounds like you know it firsthand.
technically no its not cheating. like i think it would be selfish for a partner to restrict porn, unless they were dealing with an addict or someone that does it daily. its a fantasy, what does he expect u to masturbate to thoughts of him? would u expect the same from him too? i get the jealousy and delusion aspect, but cmon we cant even fantasize when u don't want to fuck?
>>33987158Dutch wives were created for a reason.
>>33987158It's e-voyeurism. Some like to call all porn gay porn or cuckoldry, but they are hypocrites who wave NoFap around with all that alpha male game PU bullshit. Fuck them basically.
>>33986517all moids watch porn.they also cheat if given the opportunity.moids admit that they just want to cause suffering, so who cares what they think?im a virgin and moids call me a whore (even though they never turn down sex, insane hypocrisy)
>>33986852Faggot moid
>>33987243>moidDisgusting femcel.
>>33987322>femcelNo such thing
>>33987328I challenge you, sir. Wait, you're probably right. Even Lizzie Velasquez pulled some dick.
>>33987054he knows I had a relationship with a girl before, I think in this case it wouldnt matter
>>33987243Yeah bro sorry thats quite femcelish cant lie.There's shitty people both genders. Men hate and women hate, but just a little bit different, yet same evil. You can only debate which is worse. Hope ull find a good guy who changes ur mind.
>>33988201"good guy" is an oxymoron.moids plainly admit that theyre all the same. what else is there to say?
>>33988188>I had a relationship with a girl beforeNTA.How did she feel about you watching porn?
>>33986517Matthew 5 28“You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." As you have said here >>33986720 "I would die of jealousy if he had favorite porn actresses". Even if you are not religious (you should be) by your own feelings you should try to stop watching/reading porn. I'm not in the camp of gooning is sinful on it's own, just the pornography. God bless.
>>33990020we were toxic as fuck we didnt really discuss any boundaries ever
>>33989277I guess there may be a line between men and moids idk thats the first time i hear this term
>>33990032Im surprised how much religious preachers are on this website, but I appreciate is as thats quite wise. Im wondering whats your opinion on lust itself?
>>33990136Just don't let it control you, Sex/desire/lust when not abused can beautiful expression of love towards your wife or husband.
>>33990032I don't take my life direction from a 3000 year old book written by a bunch of cave dwelling sheep fuckers
>>33986517What kind of porn?
>>33991220Breeding ig, no faces no nothing just pure whoopsiedoopsiebangbangboom
>>33986517Gooning isn't cheating, stfu
>>33986517YWNBAW tranny OP, but since you have a multipass I feel compelled to respond.So if a real woman were asking, (which is not you because you're just a mentally ill man in a dress), I'd respond with the fact that I've only ever wanted sex that involves one woman who is the object of my entire focus with no sex toys, porn, or other bullshit, and especially no other people. I honestly don't get why anyone would want to involve anyone else - male or female.
What kind do you watch?
>>33991395lmao brother i was born a woman with tits and a vagina, are women banned from 4chan, i thought all degenerates are welcomeAlso Im from conserative europe and i had never seen a trans person in my life, is it normal in liberal countries? Like do u have to double check while going on a date
>>33991438Nice try tranny. Rule #30 obviously still applies here. This isn't fucking TikTok.
>>33992315Thank you for showing me this incel, Ill use your wisdom for future
>>33991305Sounds hot. He might like that too
>>33986523This. If you really wanna figure the answer to your dilemma, a bunch of random on the internet won't compare to just having an honest good-faith conversation with your partner.
>>33986517I don't think your faggot bf cares if you jerk your dick to porn. He understands the hypersexuality of being a homosexual better than most.
>>33986517How common is it for women to do this? Do you know? Like jerking off to porn
>>33991438dude like.everybody can claim to be anything on 4chanI could say I am elon musk lmaoit’s just that in majority of cases people who claim k be women kn this website are either larping or tranny (which is the same thing lmao)
>>33986517Not necessarily, however it is considered to be innapropiate.
>>33992412>>33992315Wtf is rule 30?
>>33994898Fucking newfags everywhere.
>>33996050nobody fucking knows that one you loser
>>33986517Objectively, it is. You're stimulating an emotional response that should be sacred to your connection with your partner, you're essentially handing out that emotion to anything that will satisfy it, and that is not moral or faithful.
>>33986517If you feel like you're doing something wrong prolly don't. Or just ask him how he feels about it.>>33987054Use a trip next time, it makes everything easier. For example, I put i'matotalfaggot#i'matotalfaggot in the name field. Try it.
>>33986517Have you thought about asking him OP?
>>33990120>we were toxic as fuck we didnt really discuss any boundaries everEh, it does kinda seem like my lesbian friends relationships burn the candle twice as bright, twice as fast. (Hopefully that's not offensive)
>>33986517It wouldn't bother me, OP, but you should talk to him.
>>33986517It's cheating if your boyfriend has a problem with it; if he doesn't, it's fine. The fact that you haven't asked him rather suggests you think he would have a problem with it if you did - which is not healthy. You need to ask.
>>33999490My nigga out here with a Tyrell quote
>>33986517>>33988188>not watching lesbian porn with your bi girlfriendC'mon, man!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0thpEyEwi80
