I need help. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a little less than a year and everything has been going pretty smoothly so far.Yesterday though we had a quarrel about what I thought was a lie from her side, and anxiously I went through her phone trying to prove to myself that she was not lying and that I was wrong.What I found though were quite a lot of texts from her talking to her friends after the first time we slept together about how my dick was so small, all of them just bashing me and my body, comparing me to exes, while one of her friends even said “imagine having such a small dick that you make a woman depressed”I’m just broken. I’ve had this complex about my body for a long time, and it just got worse at the beginning of last year when I suffered abuse. My girlfriend so far has been the most sweet person in the world, reassured me at all times and I would never have guessed that she thought such things about me.Just to clarify, these were a couple of months before we started seriously dating, but even so, my confidence is destroyed and my self esteem is at the ground. Any advice on what to do? I’m truly lost
>>33988537Break up with her anon. Even I never talked about my ex like that. I doubt your pp is small. Her friends are being awful cow cunts, they're trying to make her feel better, which is to be quite honest toxic in itself. Did she call them out or even defend you?Shit sucks now you know her true colors, I guess. Are you both young?
>>33988545We are both 20The thing is, this was before we were official. Maybe it is worth it to just forgive her? I know it was shitty behavior, but she never did this again (trust me, I checked) and I think she truly thinks differently now
>>33988582I suppose, still you should be careful in any case.
>>33988537don't be a retard.when girls talk to each other it's normal to burn the guys just so they can experience a sense of camaraderie and not be jealous at each other.she made her opinion about that matter clear when she later started seriously dating you, so what exact are you complaining about?you mentioning a "quarrel" over what you THOUGHT was a lie and going through her phone doesn't paint you in good picture
>>33988596Thank you, I definitely will>>33988624Well, it was a pretty big “lie” that ended up with being just something she forgot about. I will not go into detail on this because there is no need to, but all my friends were concerned at it when I told them about it, it was not something small whatsoever and left me pretty anxious about us and our future.Well, she made her opinion clear and has been saying that our sex life is amazing, but I still wonder if I will ever be enough to her. I never even thought about talking about her body with any friends of mine, specially in a bashful way, and given that I’m already self confident in this matter because I have a clinical issue and have suffered from it before, I just thought that this one time, I had found someone who could see me differently.I can’t look at myself in the mirror without thinking about it
>>33988537You've discovered the literal default of female behavior lmao. They don't often come better than that but they're often a lot worse. You probably don't have a small dick. I wouldn't dump her but I wouldn't feel bad about fucking women on the side either.
>>33988878Why do you say you wouldn’t feel bad about cheating if this is supposedly normal behavior? Lol I will never cheat on her, I’d rather just break up, but cheating is not on the cards
>>33988927For the same reason foids don't feel bad about witholding sex in response to default male behavior (not being a domineering asshole in general and strangling her to death in bed the way she craves)
>>33988537>My girlfriend so far has been the most sweet person in the world, reassured me at all timesthen you already know the answergirls don't put up with a year of dating someone with a depressingly small dick haven't you ever had edgy friends before? you get mad at your girlfriend and go drinking with your buddy and talk about how worthless and vapid whores are? you are making your own problem here by assuming what she tells her friend is the ground truth and you are being lied to. there's no reason, given her behavior, to not assume she is truthful with you and just talking shit to her edgy friends to seem cool
>>33988624This.OP doesn't understand foid psychology.Women aren't allowed to say "my man is perfect, handsome, best sex of my life" because it will make the other foids jealous and then she will be the target of the friend group.Ie she will need to be brought down a peg or two.It's a pecking order thing.If she is serious about you now, she will gravitate more towards you and less towards her friend group.But regarding your pepe, it is probably smaller than average compared to other guys she slept with, which is why she mentioned it.I wouldn't worry about it though, unless you have a micropeen it really isn't that big of a deal to most women.
>>33988537she prob wont mind your dick size if you eat her ut and let her peg you
>>33988878the default of moid behavior is rape and torture, but woman bad because some woman say mean thing.>>33988927cap. all moids cheat if they have the opportunity.>>33989022being a domineering asshole in general and strangling her to death in bed IS default moid behavior. if all women wanted to be strangled, you wouldnt be bitching about women "cancelling" you after you strangle them without consent.moids admit that they literally just want women and girls to suffer. of course moids are domineering assholes by default.all moids are dishonest, violent, sadistic pieces of shit. if all women liked dishonest, violent, sadistic pieces of shit, NO MOID WOULD BE A VIRGIN>>33989171moid apologists constantly talk about how wonderful their moidiots are. you are just flat-out lying, as moids do.besides, you always claim that women want to compete. pick a fucking narrative, goddamn it.
>>33989207>being a domineering asshole in general and strangling her to death in bed IS default moid behaviorWhy are dark romantasy shlickfics featuring domineering violent assholes such monumental bestsellers among foids if this behavior is so common? Common things are not valuable.
What’s ur size?Mine is 5 inches and I think I will need to kill myself.
>>33989236ask someone who reads those fucking books, not me.>common things are not valuable>moids think porn is reality
>>33989354>ask someone who reads those fucking books, not meI mean, if I'm locked in a room with 1000 foids, I'm locked in a room with 999 "The Billionaire 6'7 Werewolf CEO Who Raped Me" enjoyers.
>>33989375that's just straight up bullshit, and projection. typical moid.ffs, you constantly whine about the fact that women want non-evil moids, because you know those moids are fictional
>>33989724>you constantly whine about the fact that women want non-evil moidsCan you point me to a post where I did that?
>>33989753every other post
>>33989207You don't know shit about women you faggot tranny. You are a male.
>>33989968>be a moid>know nothing>project>repeat
>>33989036Not OP, but I just want to say my friends and I have never trashed our gfs when hanging out lol. Fucking psychotic.
>>33988537>Yesterday though we had a quarrel about what I thought was a lie from her side, and anxiously I went through her phone trying to prove to myself that she was not lying and that I was wrong.You forgot the rule about rationalizing with a female. Let this be a lesson champ.
>>33990614men are not same thing as women, retard
>>33988537Is this entire board made up of bots?1) How did you get access to her phone?2) How did you find these messages if they were months old?3) What do you mean you suffered abuse? 4) What made you suspect NOW that your gf was saying these things that made you go through her phone in the first place to search for old messages?To answer your situation pretending is even read and you're not a bot, I wouldn't really like being with a person that bashes on me like that on my back, yes a little teasing and gossip maybe, but actually bashing and saying hurtful stuff about me would be insane
>>33988537"I'm sorry. I was wrong to go off like that, but what I saw really upset me."
>>33989207Male hereI can confirm, I do all of those thingsAlso I am literally Hitler and eat babies btw
>>33991036Wtf?1) we are not secretive about each other’s phone. She was taking a bath and I just went through it2)she doesn’t delete WhatsApp messages, so there are some pretty old messages there from at least since she got a new phone (1 year and a half ago or so)3) A bitch I once turned down put stuff on my drink and took me to her house afterwards, I remember bits of it and to try and push her away/lock myself in the bathroom. The first time I turned her down, she went out to the whole university talking shit about me (similar to what I saw on my gf phone, so this just brings me back to old trauma ig)4) she told me something I knew that was not true. When I asked it to her, she said it again and I thought she was lying to my face. So, when I got the opportunity, I tried searching for these old messages on her WhatsApp. The next message with the same word I looked up was this text I’m talking about here. So I didn’t specifically search for it, but found it kind of accidentally And yeah, this shit just hurts. I know it’s been a long time and we weren’t together, but I never even thought even less talked shit about her to my friends
>>33988537>Women behave like shit and treat people like shit, because they want you to snap so that you treat them like shit, so that they can then say that you treated them like shit and get sympathy for the rest of their lives.Are you honestly surprised? This is just how they are man, get used to it.
>>33989171The problem is, I do have a micropeen. I think it is barely 4 in hardEven so, she has been telling me that she has the best orgasms with me (specially when I use tongue + finger together), and I don’t think she is lying. Well, at least I hope she isn’t. Part of me always thinks that all she do is to please me, but another part tells me that she wouldn’t be able to hide it past one year, so I’m not sure what to think
>>33991813you literally just say this as an excuse for being fucking evil KAM
>>33992089On the contrary, I don't associate with women in any capacity wherever I have a choice, I just don't do it, I try not to talk to them, I tune them out when they speak to me, I've started ignoring their very presence, and my life has improved quite a lot because of this. Stop treating women as if they exist, it's literally that simple. I don't have to behave immorally or do evil things to appease their wicked egos, I can be a good person by just not treating women like humans, because they're not humans, they're Demons made flesh.I will watch as the world around them burns, and I will laugh, because they're the ones who set it on fire.
>>33992113cap. moids never turn down sex.all problems on earth are caused by moids and moid apologists.moids are evil for the sake of it. killing moids is inherently good.
>>33988537>What I found though were quite a lot of texts from her talking to her friends after the first time we slept together about how my dick was so small, all of them just bashing me and my body, comparing me to exes, while one of her friends even said “imagine having such a small dick that you make a woman depressed”Did she not even try to defend you? Is she still friends with them? If so, then being a "sweet person" on the outside means shit here. Revealing such intimate information to your friends in the first place is quite disgusting.
>>33992867I haven't had sex in 6 years and I have shut down several women purely for the fact that I hate being around them and they drive me fucking crazy with their nagging.I don't want cheap sex, I'm in my mid 20s, I'm getting old. If a woman doesn't wanna get married or have kids it's not even worth my fucking time, and most of them don't want to settle down until their 30s.I'm tired of this shit and I want something real, not this cheap grabass bullshit fear of intimacy foids.
>>33996123>admit that you just want to beat a woman to death during sex>why are women scared of sex?>admit that you never turn down sex>why do women think i never turn down sex?
>>33996123are you the faggot on end chan who accused me of pretending to be a lesbian after i very clearly stated that i am not gay
>>33996354>>admit that you just want to beat a woman to death during sexWhat? When did he say that?
>>33996363moids brag about this all the time
>>33996357You post on endchan? God you really are a fucking schizo tranny freak lmao
>>33996354Why do Women like to put words in my mouth? I don't like rape, nor womens delusional fantasies of self harm, therefor I will not indulge it. I have actively turned down sex, you're just making shit up because you're a delusional foid. Get a life.>>33996357I understand that you are irate and probably clinically insane, but can you at least shut the fuck up about it? I don't think I've ever talked to you before, and I am glad for that reason.
>>33996420i only went on end chan because i was banned from 4chan for a month>>33996524moids admit that they will all commit rape if they think they can get away with it, and that they just want to get laid and make women and girls suffersorry, you sounded like the motherfucker from khazkstan
>>33997371Oh fuck me she is back again, you literally spam every fucking thread and yet the fucking Jannies regularly ban me for saying things even remotely critical of women, fucking absurd.>moids admit that they will all commit rape if they think they can get away with it,Nobody is saying this, I nor anybody else wants to rape you, we want to be in loving relationships where our partners actually give a fuck about our existence and dont just toss us aside as soon as a better guy comes along.Women are suffering because of their own choices, if you can't acknowledge that then you are not sane enough to have a conversation with.
>>33997475>Nobody is saying thisyou say that all the time, faggot.>Women are suffering because of their own choicesbeing a woman has never been better. single women are the happiest people. afghanistan is an islamic shithole.>we want to be in loving relationships where our partners actually give a fuck about our existence>btw our worst fear is a gf who expects us to not hate them, likes us instead of fearing us, and expects us to be honest and gentle. because of this, we will do the opposite of what women say and make sure that we are unpleasant to be around>dont just toss us aside as soon as a better guy comes along.>women should dump their bfs and have sex with me
>>33997773>you say that all the timeI'm not saying that you're saying that, alongside a whole bunch of things I didn't even say, because you said them.
>>33988582All i takes is for one more serious fight between you two, which will inevitably happen as it does with everyone.At that point she will go back to vent about you to her female friends.Do you want to guess what happens when she does that?
>>33995906She didn’t, in fact. She laughed it along with them and bashed me as well. She is still friends with them too.My hope is that these are past waters. This was 3 or 4 months before we became official, so maybe her mind changed since then, idk… I don’t wanna loose her man>>33998412We already had serious fights, and I don’t think she has brought the topic since then again. Still, I’m just wondering about all of that
IF I WERE YOU, I WOULD BREAK UP WITH HER, AND JUST TO DESTABILIZE THEIR FRIENDSHIP I WOULD SAY: "SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT MY DICK IS TOO SMALL FOR YOU" AND I WOULD PROCEED TO NEVER TALK TO HER EVER AGAIN, NOT EVEN A SINGLE WORD, EVEN IF SHE WAS IN MY PRESENCE, AT THE END OF THIS SENTENCE, SHE WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO HEAR ME DIRECT A SINGLE WORD AT HER.
>>33999562I already told her though that I saw it looking through her phone. I wouldn’t do that anyways still
>>33999573Your girl told he friends you've got a small dick, there's no way to cope with that. The relationship is over dude, you know it, and I know it. I can't say what you should do, but I would have cut off my loses. Well, time will tell.
>>33999555Sounds to me like you're willing to take all sorts of punishment because you're terrified of her leaving you. If you've landed one woman you can do it again. Don't put this backstabing bitch on a pedestal.I can also assure you that people don't easily change. Especially in their close friend circles. Unless you're aware of an infighting between them that shifted the group dynamic it's almost guaranteed that whatever they're talking about hasn't changed.
