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My whole life has been rape, abuse, anger, and shame.
After my parents split, my sperm donor got a new girlfriend, and she started raping me and my sister. Her friends joined in.
It stopped when I got “too old.” I told no one out of shame.

20 years later I finally said it, but no one believes me.
My sister denies it, my stepmother denies it.
My sperm donor thinks it's my fault and my other "family" keeps acting like nothing ever happened, and if I speak up about it, they immediately say they won’t involve themselves, all while staying in touch with each other and remaining close

I’m full of rage. How am I supposed to live like this?

How do I get any satisfaction out of this?
How do I make them see me? Feel what I feel?
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10,000$
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no>>33991290 no
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>>33991287
let it go and go on with your life
being angry won't change anything really even if u are in the right
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>>33991357
I dont see how that would help me in any way desu. How could i move on
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I myself have experienced almost exactly the same and i can tell you 1 thing: after going through life like that where every person that should have been responsible for you safety has abused you, there is no "letting go". Not until you make it right somehow. I can sense from your post that you too want some kind of revenge. And i hope someone will have an idea what to do because i havent been able to move on either, and suicide has been creeping up as the only viable solution.
Your parents deserve pain and torture.
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>>33991287
Hi anon,

Unfortunately you're going to have to keep pushing forward.

I have a female friend, went through very unfortunate circumstances. I won't specify for her privacy. But she's very successful now at such a young age. She did what it took. And continues to do what it takes. She gets angry when I patronize her by telling her I'm sorry in regards to her previous experiences, but that's what you'll have to do. Just move forward. You don't have a choice.

People like us don't get to be normal. We were put on this earth to be different. And that's okay.
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>>33991797
How to say my parents never loved me without saying "my parents never loved me".

Also, op never specified their gender
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>>33991287
The way will be hard, but start by telling the police. They have become a LOT better at believing and supporting victims in 20 years

And as an adult, get professional help in dealing - not only with the original crimes - but with the trauma of continually being negated
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>>33991895
>Also, op never specified their gender
She didn't have to
>Love Love Love, I Love Love! Love will do everything! Love will make a Grizzly Bear not Maul me to Death! I Love Loving and if we just Loved some more then everything would workout alright. Don't you just Love Love? Or were you never Loved like some Loveless loser? Wtf bro you're being so Unloving right now!!! What do you mean Love won't stop people from being Pathological Liars? What do you mean Love won't stop pedophiles from raping kids? What do you mean Love won't stop murderers and infanticide? You're just not Loving enough, we just need to Love more and these problems will go away on their own!
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>>33991797
We can only hope that this anon will someday grow up enough to be embarrassed by the memory of this reply
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>>33991924
We can only hope that you'll one day grow up enough to realize how many mens lives have been ruined by false rape accusations constructed by women who just want attention.
There are more False Rape allegations then True ones.
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Ragebait replies on here are as weak as repliers masculinity combined
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>>33991977
via google:

"The percentage of rape allegations that are false is debated, but estimates for proven false allegations generally fall between 2% and 10%."
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>>33994770
Google is not valid, because the divorce courts don't actually care about validity they will fuck a man over if the woman so much as claims rape, they don't even need proof, but they count it as true even without evidence.
From my own experience I'm willing to bet the vast majority of rape allegations in the West are fake, simply because I've seen countless examples of this being the case.
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>>33996134
You reek of fallacies, pls stfu
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>>33996443
>The internet think tanks corroborate my world view, therefor what I think is true.
I as an individual will never place my faith into things I've never seen before, I don't care what any studies say, I trust my own experience more than anything, though I'd happily be proven wrong.
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>>33996134
Yeah. Don't bother me with facts. I don't believe in facts. What I think is so automatically IS so.
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>>33999289
>>33996443
Did yiu niggers SERIOUSLY forget
#metoo
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Where an over whelming majority of rape claims were false.
Ffs you faggots are dumb as bricks.
ACTUAL hard data and research, that is still valid today, and not debunked or discredited, actually has false rape claims hovering at 40-60%.
You fucking trogs.
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>>33991287
Grow some balls and do something about it, or keep moaning like a bitch, no one is going to help you.
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You people are miserable. Ignore them OP, they have no brains
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>>33999327
You dumb fucking american



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