How do I inject myself into a group to get access to 18-22 year old girls.I'm a 33 year old student who spent from 18 to 31 in hospitals with my parents and eventually myself, but in the end achieved full health and a scholarship. But before I get a stressful job I need socio-sexual development.
>>33991530This isn't the answer you want but it's worth consideration. Universities are not just for 18 year olds any more and there will be a large contingent of students in their late 20s and early 30s. You'd likely be more successful among them
>>33991530You don't. You missed your chance.
>>33991530Why do you want a younger woman so much? What makes you feel you deserve a younger woman rather than someone your age? Don’t you think they will smell your desperation just by looking at you?
Sugar daddy if you are rich.
Get a young women anon and don't settle for those old hags. Young women are good for you.
>>33991556This is pretty much your only hope
>>33991543All those people already have life experience which I need, I only learned to ski and drive recently for example, and some are already married. I don't fit in.>>33991551Nah I'm doing fine now.
>>33991556>>33991561Nigger I just got my health certificate stamped, I need the sexual and social experience to feel human again to actually get money.
>>33991569Why would any 18-22 year old girl want to hang out with you if not for money?
Provide access to drugs or alcohol. Other than that you're SOL.
>>33991554Not necessarily younger just same life experience, I had wounds all over my internal organs for 10 years and now they went away, so I was a potatoe and am a bit late to life.
>>33991570Why do people hang out in general? To make friends and exchange pleasantries and grow together.Again I'm not shooting for an age, just same life experience.
>>33991579OK but surely you understand that male-female interaction is different than "just hanging out"
>>33991579>Again I'm not shooting for an age, just same life experience.Again, you missed your chance.
>>33991576any woman you would want to date in her thirties would be much more understanding of your situation than a fucking freshman in college you dumbass
>>33991598Why, I don't get it. It's also asymmetrical, she already had boyfriends and driving and party experience while I just got my health certificate and HS papers>>33991590I can lie about my age though I'm not gonna because I'm not ashamed that I beat a horrible disease.
>>33991606The mental gymnastics you’re doing to wanting to date younger woman are wild. Even if you are a sexless virgin loser you still have the brain of a 33 yo man. You’re a manchild but still a man and a 18-22 woman still has an undeveloped brain of a young adult. How is that not asymmetrical?
>>33991606>Why would someone with more knowledge of the world and people be more understanding than someone who has much less life experience and who probably has never been detached from their parents and home before? I don't get it!look, unless there's some dating app that focuses on people who haven't had much social experience because of health issues, you're not going to find someone with the "same life experience."why is that such a sticking point? why wouldn't you get MORE out of dating someone with more experience they could share, instead of someone more clueless?
>>33991619I wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone more experienced, I also dislike apps.>>33991614Because I was bed ridden and my psychomotor functioning was impaired. You are doing mental gymnastics.Why would a top tennis player play an amature?
>>33991619Because OP is an early 30s incel who missed out on early social experience and he is (understandably) regretfulIt doesn't work that way though, he can't just do it now, it's over, it's done
>>33991631>I really need to fuck younger virginal women women! Stemming from medical reasons!hmmmm i seewell good luck tricking inexperienced young girls into relationships, i'm sure that won't end poorly at all.
>>33991631>I just want to hang out with friends >I actually don’t care about age >but it has to be a 18 yo girl >b-because we practically have the same work view You have the groomer mindset.
>>33991649I'd take a 35 year old with a similar history to mine over a 20 year old whore.The problem is I'm a rare case so I need to match experience levels.If you are a level 5 Paladin do you PvP another level 4-6 dude or go straight for upper levels.
>>33991655Nigger can't you read, I couldn't even feed myself properly. I'm gonna be a college freshman next year, who the fuck could I groom.
>>33991666>who the fuck could I groom.exactly whom you're trying to, a younger girl who could not possibly fully understand the situation.>>33991660if you want someone with the same life experience, maybe you should try to find someone with the same life experience.>I can't, it's too rare!then you need to accept whatever relationship you find is going to be asymmetrical regardless. you'll get more out of dating someone with more experience than less, because you stand the chance of learning more.
>>33991684NTA but can't you understand that the guy just wants the vanilla college experience to be more content and be better at his job after graduation?Why is that controversial, age is just a number, he can just lie because on the formal enrollment papers he will have the same status.
>>33991590>Again, you missed your chance.We heard you the first time, moron.
>>33991694>can't you understand the guy just wants to get his dick wet in some young strange?yeah, i'm telling him that's not the way to go. he shouldn't be so focused on it.>Why is that controversial?real mystery
>>33991719Then stop making dumb threads retard. It’s over for you
>>33991721You have the reading comprehension of a toddler. This is not a successful businessman wanting to go for younger women, this is a guy who lived in a medical gray zone who was blessed by God with full health later and wants to get proper social and sexual development under his belt for a happy adult life. The fact that you are focused on an arbitrary number is your problem, not OP.
>>33991791NTA but you’re a retard. OP literally wrote “how to get access to 18-22 yo”. Then he acts dishonest saying he doesn’t actually cares about age but it HAS to be a virgin woman because women with experience make him uncomfortable.OP (You) is a groomer and he could be more direct about it instead of justifying it with his health story.
>>33991791you have the reading comprehension of a incel loser who wants to trick young girls into fucking him. the younger partners he seeks could not possibly understand his situation. like a lot of pedos, he's just afraid of being judged and seeks to circumvent this by targeting the inexperienced who would not have anything to compare him to. love how you've gone on about how it's an "arbitrary" number yet have made the number a necessity to the setup. if it's arbitrary, why would it even be a factor in receiving "proper" development? wouldn't "proper" development happen at the proper time anyway? that time has already passed. the fact you think age is arbitrary is really telling.
>>33991840>Pedo>18+
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>>33991840Can you really not envision someone being in a half-coma state due to constant cycles of bad bloodedness and developing a bit later and trying to catch up a bit later. Age is arbitrary if medical issues impede development. You can pay a clinical psychologist and he will tell you the same thing.
>>33991606>she already had boyfriends and driving and party experiencethats becoming less guaranteed for one thing, for another she will also have a lot more experience with unusual life stories, and a lot more empathy, whereas the draw for younger women who want older guys is explicitly that they are more experienced, and this is something a lot of losers here dont understand
>>33991939>Age is arbitrarybake him away toys
>>33991939>Age is arbitrary! But my dick needs it to be on the younger side. This is important. For my comfort.
>>33991991It's because of a sample size you imbecile.>>33991940This is a specific developmental issue, OP could just lie and say that he is 20 if his papers for college will be regular and this shitty thread needn't have existed.
>>33991530Incels are fucking retarded mouth breathers who should be castrated.The only way you are getting some that young is by being a drug dealer, a rich sugar daddy, or some weirdo who tours third world countries for desperate women. Ie. A predator You would have nothing in common with an 18 year old girl.Work on your psychological issues bro. Young pussy isn't going to fix your messed up brain.
>>33991579women hang out with men either for their looks or their moneyyou don’t have money and considering you were of poor health, didn’t get any before AND are asking this question it’s safe to assume you lack in the looks department as well
>>33991530What the FUCK is going on in this thrwad
OP here,I regret making this thread. I'm just gonna lie about my age and that's that. I look pretty good considering I was locked away from it all for a while.>>33992083What do you mean, have you never seen a mixed gender friend group before? Have you never seen boyfriends and girlfriends?People get together to share in life experiences.I did go on dates before and now I will continue, if I have to lie so be it.
>>33992083>women hang out with men either for their looks or their moneyOr personality or work load reduction or bonding for future wholesome people experience.
>>33992110>I'll just be completely dishonest with the substantially younger women I try to fuckyeah this def isn't going to go southgood luck, OP.
>>33992121>personality
>>33992143Personality is not a meme. The big 5 OCEAN thing is predictive of friendship and pair bonding, but keep chugging on the incel red pill propaganda.
>>33992177Followup>Contrary to the popular belief that “opposites attract,” extensive research has demonstrated that “birds of a feather flock together.” Research shows a matching pattern in romantic relationships for many socio-demographic and cognitive-behavioral variables, such that people tend to initiate and maintain relationships with partners who are similar to them. These effects range in size from strong for sociopolitical attitudes, educational attainment, and cognitive abilities to weak for Big Five traits such as Neuroticism, Agreeableness, and Extraversion (Horwitz et al., 2023).But yeah keep coping how this doesn't have an affect on anything, because le looks le matter xDXd reeedpilll incels arise
you should kill youself
>>33991530Thats like super easy>private teacher>Barkeeper>Bouncer>animator at Holiday Hotel resortsAnimator is probably the best of them all. Being on vacation turns men and women into super promiscuous whores
>>33991530You're asking some kind of right question bc the level of seething itt is unreal kek
>>33991530>inject myself into a group to get access to 18-22 year old girls.Kek, I love how remorselessly predatory this sounds.
>>33992468>society is less and less tolerant with weird manchild losers who want to date out of their possibilities and groom women 10 years younger And that’s a good thing.
Damn wtf happened in this thread. Incels are so defeatist they just dogpile anyone who wants to actually try.Reminds me of those creepy rabbits from Watership Down who offer up their own kind to the farmers.
>>33991554Not OP and I'm not gonna be on some moral fag shit. Younger women are in better shape and often have less bullshit going on that can exhaust an older man whose dating someone his own age. Ppl can bitch all they want but there was a reason all throughout history as to why men, especially those in power with shit to lose, picked younger partners. Also desperation reeks at any age, an 18yr old is going to judge you the same as a 35 yr old if you're desperate, there isn't a magical age barrier if she honestly finds you attractive
>>33991570>unknowingly admitting that girls are whores even when you pretend they're too youngYou do realize that doesn't help your argument right? If I need money then chances are she also knows that she's only in it for the money. A mutual transaction, so why the fuck do ppl care? If some dipshit senior in high school is using me for money and I for pussy then why is the idea of me fucking a younger woman taboo if both parties know the deal?
>>33992498Age gap threads tend to go off the rails. Either it's some cunt femoid crying or you have a bunch of moral fags attacking OP
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>>33991606go for it potatobro, don't get longhoused by these /adv/ hags. Give it your best.
>>33992945moralfag implies there's a moral argument, these are just fags
>>33991554t. roastie nearing it's expiration date
I don't get it, why is OP a predator, he just wants status peers. Age is a rough indicator of status, but if his health was shit and then picked up, he can disregard the years where he wasn't socially active.
>>33992486How does beating a horrible disease make him a loser and not a hero?He literally has the social papers of a young adult. What's going on in this thread. He is not Bruce Wayne trying to groom a 17 year old.Reading comprehension ITT is kindergarten level.
You can op but no one will help you. Women and young men will try to sabotage you for doing this but I have seen it been done. Spend more time on fit and less time on adv
>>33991828Not OP but many men don't want to marry a whore (ie a non-virgin). I am not uncomfortable with whoreish women I would rather slit my throat than end up with one and I am proud I abstain from them.
>>33991619No one wants whores, death is preferable
>>33991530this thread is a classic example of /adv/ being crabs in a bucket, literally EVERYONE dragging you down without understanding your situation at all.Yes, men want to fuck young girls, health is important for men, age and healthy features (beautiful girls) are good indicators of good health.I'm kind of in the same position OP, I'm 29 and in my second year of uni, I've moved countries to a completely different part of the world, previously my life was living in my room with a bipolar mom and sister, neglected throughout my childhood and abused, so I changed it.Now I'm in the same position as you, people my age don't want me because I'm a student, &life phase matters more than age, unfortunately though the signs of aging are showingso what advice I can give you is to take care of yourself first and foremost. Take care of your health to make yourself look exceptional, go to the gym, eat healthy, get to a healthy weight as a first goal. Then take care of your hair and facial hair and clothes, really. Go to the barber, take that unibrow off, change haircut (short hair is easiest to maintain), shave your facial hair start anew.And get, good, clothes, and shoes.then the next step is to go to student events. Any student event. Just be there.Fuck what people think, be there.Have a good time and enjoy yourselfand DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT YOURSELFdon't talk down about yourself, seriously.People are super understanding with these things, like yes some will categorize you as "That 33 year old dude" but in the parties and infront of you they'll judge you as you are if you're a cool dude. If you SEEM like you come with baggage and like you're not happy and constantly putting yourself down - people will treat you that way.1/2
2/2And if, despite the fact that you're 33 and lost so many years - you act like you're happy. Like you're healthy, and feeling good, and WANT to be at that party / dinner / board games / whatever else the school has planned - then people will treat you as an equal and naturally gravitate towards you. I know this because I personally started going to events this year, and despite being 29 people were very nice to me. People often don't ask my age they just assume I'm their age. And if they do ask then It's usually after knowing me for a while and they get very surprised lol. It is what it is man, I'm not shy about what happened, I just tell people I used to do comp sci and now I'm studying this instead, I don't go into details about my past unless they ask. The one time people did ask I told them the truth that I got diabetes and had an abusive situation at home. It's part of life dude. all is good with you, just make sure that YOU feel good and that you prioritize YOURSELF. And people will naturally enjoy you wherever you go - because you enjoy yourself. my man. keep it up and fuck all the disgusting crabs in this bucket <3
>>33994815No they won't, he has the same social status as them. He was artificially aged due to medical circumstances. He was not a NEET subhuman trying to get back.>>33994824Based
>>33994849>>33994851Finaly a good post.>Now I'm in the same position as you, people my age don't want me because I'm a student, &life phase matters more than age, unfortunately though the signs of aging are showing.Experience and social status matter more than age. This is true. It's better to marry a 32 year old virgin than a 20 year old cock carouseler.
>>33994859preach brother
>>33991530Just be normal/social/chill and put yourself out there. If someone shows interest then go for it but don't try to force anything. If you do you'll get labeled as a creep quickly.
>>33994559True, like I've said in other threads, I've never seen a solid argument as to why you shouldn't fuck and date younger women. Its always sour grapes faggotry.
>>33991554>What makes you feel you deserve a younger woman rather than someone your age?Deserve's got nothing to do with it you jealous shit stain.
>>33991530Stick to your snes playing roasties, grandpa.
>>33995754Because of sociological power theory, but that assumes that the older person wasn't on a hiatus, which OP was so it doesn't apply to him.
>>33995851>jealouslol
