It seems like I have lost. I am 33, no girlfriend, no wife etc. My primary standards have always been "No single mothers and no obese women and no drug addicts." I do want to have kids of my own one day but I have never felt that I want to take care of another persons kids. I feel bad saying that but its how I feel. However, I am finding that online dating has a massive pool of single mothers. Almost every woman in the age range I want to date in(late 20's - Early 30's) has children already. I can't seem to escape it. Should I stick to my guns and just keep looking for a woman who is single with no kids but wants to have them? Or am I just fucked and should consider loosening my standards a bit? I honestly don't know where all those "spinster" women are that people talk about so much who are like 30+ with no kids. Most non-white women I see in online dating apps have kids already if they are in that age range. My preference is to date hispanic or black women and it seems women of that race more often than not have kids already. I have noticed that white women and asians may not. Has anyone here dated a single mother before? What was it like?
>>33993227brother, nobody wants single mothers, so that's why ratio for the "spinsters" you mention is 3000:1>Has anyone here dated a single mother before? What was it like?i dated a few for a short time and it's an absolute nightmare, you need to really be diligent when you sift through the used stuff
>>33993261>nobody wants single mothersIdk they seem to be getting banged up left and right. Nobody wants to date them, but the getting is probably good since they're so desperate.
>>33993270well if you want sex, sure, but seems to me you're at the age you need to think about marriage
>>33993227>Should I date single mothers?No.>I have never felt that I want to take care of another persons kids. I feel bad saying thatWhy should you feel guilty for not wanting to take responsibility for the poor life choices of a woman? >My preference is to date hispanic or black womenLmao nevermind you're retarded anyway do whatever
>>33993282OP Here, I have never engaged in casual sex behaviors. Only because I feel its not for me. However, I honestly feel backed into a corner with having to potentially date single mothers. They are SO fucking numerous its insane. I once had to swipe left nearly 25 times in a row on Hinge because the women it shows me are either single mothers, obese, or both. Maybe its a symptom of dating sites?
>>33993327>Lmao nevermind you're retarded anyway do whateverWhy? I just don't prefer White or Asian women. Not saying I'd never date either but if I were to date an Asian woman, she would have to be heavily Americanized.
>>33993282I thought about it and im not interested. Ill have a faithful union without the gay ceremony and ring, thanks
>>33993227why date a single mother when you could date multiple?
Try looking for a virgin Christian God-fearing woman if you insist on being picky
>>33993227I used to think single mothers were a viable option until I was 28.Once I grew more mature, I realized what a waste of time they are. 99/100 are garbage people and I'm not going to sift through a dumpster to find the 1/100.These women generally make poor decisions in every aspect of their lives and will drag you down to your level.If I am going to invest resources in a child, it better have my DNA. You know how much it costs just to feed a kid every month?
>>33993227>"No single mothers"Does that include widows? Women who rightly divorced real bastards? Rape victims? Id the mere fact of giving birth a crime?
Then date younger women.
>>33993227No. It is not a good idea.
>>33994702>Does that include widows? Women who rightly divorced real bastards? Rape victims?none of those things prevent the shitiness you see in single mothers (of the other varieties) they can even be the direct results of it.
