>be me, 30 yo>sexless relationship >awful duty blow jobs>get herpes (on my penis) from bj, probably type 1 but I'm still fucked >never had another break out (since it's type 1)I want to break up with her but then I'll go back out as leper. Versus stay and be miserable.I'm tempted to make a dating app profile just to see to test the waters (noooo that's unethical, let her find out I doubt she would even break up over it)
>>33993255yeah, herpes is a nasty shit, and your life is permanently fucked by that thing.i'd stay with her, disclosing to partners is horrible, and spreading that shit to women that trusted you is even worse
>>33993255another reason to stay virgin. moids are such monsters.
>>33993326I can't stay we've never had sex and never will. She does not get aroused at all. And has no interest in doing figuring it out. I don't know why I got into a relationship, I was drinking a lot and depressed and figured she only needed to warm up to me. And to top it all off she has a horrible attitude about life, though I can't blame her because life is shit when all you do is work and aren't creating a family like God intended. I could probably lie about it because I've only had the initial breakout. Genital type 1 isn't really spreadable the way oral type 1 is or genital type 2. It's also all so common that it's not even part of an std panel. People just prefer ignorance and punish the non-ignorant. I shouldn't have even bothered going to the doctor about it. Also of the 4 girls I raw dogged prior only one ever asked and it was after the fact. Truly ignorance is bliss. >>33993379I agree. I was a virgin until my late 20s and would have stayed with her but she dumped me for being shit at sex. Ideally two people figure it out together.
>>33993449Moids dont listen to what women ask for during sex though.
>>33993449>deliberately spreading incurable alzheimer giving stdyou're a cancer, and i hope you die of cancer
>>33993465>>33993478Not my problem
>>33993465i wish moids would have sex with me :CCC
>>33993449>we've never had sex and never will. She does not get aroused at all.How the FUCK did you end up in aa relationship with her in the first place? This should have ended on the first date at latest. Yes, Herpes fucking sucks but it won't disbar you from finding a woman who isn't extremely damaged goods. Whats the difference to staying with her and being alone? At least being on your own doesn't actively suck your soul away. >Ideally two people figure it out together.I was a virgin into my thirties, and thats complete bullcrap. Sex isn't super fucking hard, I found a woman who actually liked me and didn't mind. Really sucking at sex is a mental thing.
You're cooked. Sit on a gun barrel, you filthy subhuman.
>>33993493>WHY WONT WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH ME??? MUH HORNINESS EPIDEMIC!!11!!1imagine how batshit moids would go if women acted like "not my problem" is a valid excuse. KAM>>33993634imagine having herpes and seeing women as "damaged goods"
>>33993712Having zero sexuality at all requires far more extensive damage than Herpes. The only way that happens is if she is lacking parts of the brain or got raped to smithereens as a kid.
>>33993747true or not, what does that have to do with anything
>>33993255Genital herpes-haver here also.Hate to say this but >>33993326 is correct. The herpes itself is no big deal but the sigma against it is really bad. Women would never risk getting it when they can easily pick someone else to go out with. When I did disclosures - even to old FWBs who trusted me - I got ghosted and my sex life went to shit. >>33993449>People just prefer ignorance and punish the non-ignorant.And this is largely correct. The majority of people with herpes don't know they have it and they're rawdogging without a care in the world. You've been cursed with the knowledge of your condition... but playing dumb is a choice you can take. Even if you do spread it to a woman, she'll still get married eventually and have an active sex life in the future. (A woman could be literally regarded and there would still be a simp somewhere lining up to put a ring on her finger.)Basically, don't suffer in eternal silence for the sake of women who care so little for themselves that they don't do std tests or ask about others' status.
How the fuck do you get herpes from bj?? Did she had a breakout while sucking your cock? Didn't you notice her nasty blisters/red spots on her lip?
>>33993255Hey OP, look up Pritelivir It's basically PREP for Herpes (94% effective, all successful trials). Very much on track to hit shelves in 2 years. It's not a cure but damn close enough.
>>33993806The fact that OP shoudl reexamine how he even ended up in that situation. How in the world do you get into a relationship with a woman who doesn't have sex? How do you even form a "relationship" without ever having sex unless you are legit asexual? And how the fuck is it even a question as to whether you should remain in that "relationship"? Because the answer is obvious to anyone without brain damage.Beyond a doubt Herpes is a real bitch , but I feel as if OP has (mental) problems that go far beyond that, and can potentially be fixed, other than eth Herpes.
>>33995282No it wasn't obvious or I would have avoided. But it was obviously from a blow job because I wasn't having sex at the time nor with anyone else. >>33995399I'm normie passing but yeah I'm retarded and want to kms. I didn't lose my virginity til my late 20s so it's kind of like I regressed back to that.And yeah I recognize we basically don't have a relationship. I miss my ex we would both meet up so horny for each other. My gf doesn't even comprehend what we do not have, it's sad for both of us. And I'm kind of a dick sometimes because of it.
>>33995399??? even weirder, isnt a relationship having sex multiple times???
>>33995671>isnt a relationship having sex multiple times???Oh sweet summer child... If there were women on this board, they'd say:1) No.and 2) You're not entitled to sexSex is the bait women use to get you into a relationship. If they decide later on that they don't want intimacy then too bad for you.
>>33996391i never claimed that i deserve a sex slave, so idk why a person would get pissed at me.>women force me to enter relationships!!!1 how dare women say that rape is bad1!!1 women wont let me just fuck other males!!1!
Why reply to most of these threads if OPs usually abandon them?
>>33999751I'm still here, just not much else to say. I fucked my life up.
>>33999754seems to me you're a good soul, and that's much more important than anything else. maybe i didn't get all the details, but maybe she knew she had herpes so that's why she avoided sex? anyway, i think getting type1 on your genitals is better than getting type2 on your genitals or type1 on your head area, so if anyone ever wanted to get infected i think what you did is the best way to do it. there are researches that prove that shedding of genital type1 drops quite low in time, and that there might be some protection against type2 (tho this is debated).
