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I've been married for about 8 years now. Recently ran into a rough patch that has me looking at my partner differently.
After that I discovered she's been liking on of her ex's posts on social media. Some include shirtless photos at the beach. one is of him infront of a neon sign "send nudes"

We got married in 2017; here's some of the likes I could find:
April 14 2014
Dec 24 2018
Aug 1 2020
Sept 22 2020 - send nudes
Nov 2 2020
July 5 2021
May 27 2021
Dec 25 2021
May 31 2022
July 3 2022
Oct 7 2024

Oct 24 2020 fb
July 29 2021 fb
March 2 2021 fb
April 9 2022 fb
Aug 31 2022 fb
Jan 29 2023 fb
March 13 2023 fb

he stopped liking her stuff once our marriage photos came out but we've been together since 2012.

She told me that they were never in a real relationship but I know they hooked up around 9-2011 and then it fizzed out sometime around march 2012. Allegedly

I can't help but get the feeling she has some unresolved feelings.

I cut off all my ex's back in 2013 and would have never liked anything an ex posted, especially after we've been married.

Am I being crazy or do I need to wake up?
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>>33994303
that's weird, usually women are much more obsessed with that shit and men are retards that continue liking their exes until woman confronts them about it

you're the only one who can judge the weight of liking photos on social media for your wife, is she autistic so she doesn't think it's sus, or are there other signs that it's an entrance to a rabbit hole
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>>33994478
This. We don't know your wife. We don't know your relationship. We don't know her ex. We have no information with which to give you reasonable advice. Stop asking a bunch of teenage virgins on a scandinavian hackey sack forum about your marriage and ask your fucking wife, OP.
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This person reached out in twenty twenty, and that's when the lights started picking up on her end, before that, she would only like a picture. Once every year, approximately 4 years, then, it became at least 6 a year.

I've tried asking her, but I'll get his gaslit, and I didn't do anything wrong, but sources tell me differently
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>>33994522
What does she say when you bring it up with her? How did you bring it up?
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>>33994647
"I had no bad intentions."

But what bothers me? Is she told me? The relationship only lasted a few months when I first asked about it. And then I only learned that she's only been liking his stuff more often as time goes by, including after we got married

I never planned on getting married in my life. So the fact that I took this big gesture of faith only shows me how much of a mistake it was
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>>33994303
he may have her body but you have her heart
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>>33994679
>how much of a mistake it was
man, if all she did are bunch of likes and that made you think your marriage is a failure ffs man, you don't know what a real marriage is
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Don't date whores (ie non-virgin women)
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>>33994686
OP here I slept with someone two months before we got married, and I just told her today.Does that make us even?
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>>33994679
Try using your words, hey I noticed you liking this guys posts despite being married to me.
It bugs me that you still think of men you used to sleep with, will you stop thinking of him, or at least stop liking shit he posts?
go ahead and look at it, but stop liking it.
You're married to me, and I take offense to it. Like my posts and not his.
He doesn't have to deal with the bullshit of having his wife like posts from the men she used to sleep with like I do.
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bump
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You have ZERO self respect. Keep being a cuck, that's all you want anyway, no need to even ask for a second opinion since you're not going to follow through anyway.
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>>33994959
>She cheated on me
>I slept with someone when I was single
>Does that make us even?
You're pathetic.
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rip op
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>>33995580
Being engaged isn't being single. Only jeets jump to marriage without dating.



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