1. You don't 2. Make things about yourself instead 3. Give specifics
>>33994982Ignore them
>>33994982run
>>33994982Depends on the narcissist really, play in to it.
>>33994982Fart on them
>>33994993that's a checkmate.
>>33994982Sam vaknin on youtube is a treasure trove of information.
>>33994982t 30 years of experience with them. Raised and molded by them. Wanted to kms early. They're bad people.When you say "deal", what do you mean? Family? Girlfriend? People in the wild? Because the dynamics are different.For family, you need to acquire sanity first. ACT is the gold standard for this.For girlfriend, ACT and readiness for the physical fallout. Don't bruise their ego. Be direct and uncompromising. Understand that you'll hurt their ego and they'll ruin your name. Be ready for it and use ACT to be above it.For people in the wild? The moment they make you feel iffy, disengage.
>>33994982Refuse to deal with them.
All humans are narcisissists. The obvious ones are just retards with no social skills. You avoid them and dump them onto others.
>>33998596What is ACT
>>33998763No Anon, most all humans have some narcissistic TENDENCIES but that is not at all the same thing.The moment you realize a person is truly a narcissist, fully disengage. There is no alternative.If you have one at work, maybe consider a transfer, barring that, limit contact to bare minimum,(you still may get fucked over by them.)If you are unlucky enough to have them as a family member,(I have 2,) do your best to fully disengage as soon as possible and go full no contact.Take it from someone who learned the hardest and longest way...You will never change these people, they can never empathize with you, they can play the "Reel 'em in with love bombing and gifts, then cut 'em back down to size" game forever.They will never respect you, or what you have to say, since you are only ever a source of supply to them. Even worse if it's a parent, since they will never see you as anything but an extension of themselves, and something to USE for self fulfillment- nothing more.t. I wasted 30 years trying to understand WHY my parents were the way they were and what I could do about it,(Classic co-dependent) now I just Hate them, truly don't care if they die in a fiery car crash, and will never speak to them again anyway.Finding out just how badly they sabotaged my life decades later and then realizing that everything they ever said to me were lies or manipulations, and most everything about them was all just window-dressing to make themselves look good to the outside world smacked me upside the head so almost palpably, that I became physically ILL for 2 days, then spent another year trying to make it all make sense.>>33998811Those digitsI'd like to know too, if it isn't ALL CONTACT TERMINATION it's Bullshit.**Not everyone who is a shitty self-centered person is actually a Narc though.
>>33994982Are they hot?
