Apparently oral sex is a big thing for a lot of women. I personally have no desire to ever go down on a woman. But mostly because I am scared. I remember seeing one of those early morning informercials when I was younger about throat cancer and one guy on there said he got it from giving women oral sex too much. That moment is singed into my head even though I saw that informercial when I was like 11-12 years old. Now I am in my 30's and never had sex. I am also worried about the sexual history of some women. There are dudes who give female porn stars oral sex like its no big deal and I am freaked out that a woman could be nutted in and have some other dude go down on her without him knowing. Fringe fear I know but its really how I feel. Its also why I will never do anything super sexually "freaky". I am not ever eating ass or licking toes. The trouble of doing those fringe sex things seems not worth it. Anyway, Do you go down on women selectively? or do you just engage in that particular sexual activity whenever? Even thinking about it makes me uneasy because I don't know how has nutted in her. Not even upset that she has had sex. I assume most people do have sex. What makes me uneasy is if she would do something weird like have sex earlier in the day and then have some other dude give her oral sex later on like it doesn't matter. THAT freaks me out. Also, I understand a lot of this may irrational but I don't know how to move past it.
>>33995764It's only really a problem if you're not in a committed relationship and you don't know if she's clean.
>>33995768Do women worry about the same thing? It seems like women are aptly ready to give men oral sex. Maybe I am wrong about that though. I guess a smart woman would consider "Where has this guys penis been?" before sucking it.
>>33995785and you get triggered when they do.>MUH HORNINESS EPIDEMIC!1!! STDS ARE WOMENS CROSS TO BEAR!!!!1!1
>>33995785Some women are, some women aren't. Giving a blowjob is generally more risky than giving a woman oral sex though.
>>33995845Why is that? I'd imagine a womans vagina to be more dangerous for that kind of stuff because the vagina basically apparently has its own flora or whatever. What do I know though. nothing. If its not more dangerous, I'd still argue that from a "fucked up" standpoint, you have to trust the woman more to go down on her. You have to trust that she didn't let some other guy nut in her earlier in the day and now she is getting you to go down on her. Whereas with a man, a woman could probably clearly see(or smell) if a man has had sex I'd imagine. or again maybe not, I haven't had sex so I don't' know.
>>33995833shut
only beta cucks eat pussy btw
>>33995785>Do women worry about the same thing?Yes, but it's easy to see when a man is infected by a wider variety of STDs. Not always, though.
>>33995881>why are women opting out?? must be because theyre such whores
>>33995845absolute horseshit
>>33997313Listen here little baby. You're gonna get a lot of hurtful and degrading comments, but that ain't what I'm about. Let me just say, you are perfect the way you are. You hear me sugar? PERFECT. Don't ever change. You deserve anything and everything you want. Stay safe for me, baby girl.>mfw thinking about you hurting
You know if she absolutely opens her body to you and does what you say to her, that she'll do that. However it needs to be a 200% she'll do that not a 25%. Some guys, yes they can get that out of a woman, but if you are like me, you got to have a 200%. Hell she has to be willing to take her clothes off with you near her to do that first.
>>33997705>>33998122I love you both.
>>33998141Literally prove it.
>>33995764the sopranos had it right. giving women oral is gay
>>33995764Mouth cancer is not a real danger. But women have teeth down there, and she could bite your tongue off in the spasm of orgasm.
my girl doesn't like me down there, and strongly prefers to just blow me. I am a bit subby tho low-key. Feels bad.
>>33995764>in my 30's and never had sex>afraid of going down on womenI get laid and almost never give oral. honestly you're creating a problem where there is none.or maybe you're looking for an excuse as to why you're still a virgin
>>33995764Imagine all the different kinds of penises and filthy guys who has licked and put their nasty fingers in the vagina. Don't get surprised if you find yourself having aids on your face.
>>33995764You type like a GermanAre you German? Also yeah I understand the fear, but women aren't a monolith, there's many different kinds of people, and women are people. So, you must find a smart woman, who is honest about who she had sex with, and honest about being exclusive to you. Then within that framework - eat the ass, suck the toes, lick the pussy. Make her happy and yourself happy by making her happy.
>>33995764If you've made it to your 30s without ever having had sex, you are NEVER going to have sex, with anyone, ever - unless you hire a prostitute (and she certainly won't expect you to go down on her). So you're really worrying about nothing, here.
Basically you are gay if you are skirmish about eating pussy.My girl can't come from oral, so I only do it until I've had enough. Would do it in all my casual encounters too, If I got to the point of having sex with her, obviously she is a presentable, clean woman. Plus I'm from Brazil, we actually take a proper amount of showers in a day, and we do it properly, and Brazilian woman wax down there.
>>34000732girl, you have to shower multiple times a day cause its so hot and probably humid there. that would be stupid for the avg person where i live
>>34000781What you mean by average? A tiny ass country 10 times smaller than Brazil? Out territory is as big as your ignorance because it's not humid. But eve then, I don't see the correlation. We'd shower everyday twice a day even if our climate changed to Russian levels of cold. No excuse smelly.
>>34000794nah, showering once a day is enough unless youre sweating like a pig.
>>34000806I mean whatever you want to believe, we will think you are smelly.
>>34000843man, it's normal where i live, and no one has an issue with it
>>34000847Yes, it's normal to your culture, we think you are smelly. Especially if you are European, you guys get a bad rap about hygiene down here.
>>33995871vaginas are acidic and inhospitable to foreign bacteria. so long as folds/vulva are rinsed, since they get smegma too. but yes generally the pH is a huge buffer.BJs are also just way more common than eating out. You'll probably be fine if you've gauged her as otherwise sane/honesr and communicate ur worries. there are oral dams if you're really scared. they're like latex sheets/flat condoms
>>34000908im from the northern USA </3>>34000913>BJs are also just way more common than eating out>moids still complain all the time
>>34000919>USAMy sentiments. But look at the bright side, you are just smelly instead of fetid.
>>33995881only incels that think this btw
>>34000732I am an American man whose had experience with Brazilian women and I can confirm this. They shower religiously and that pussy is always fresh.
aren't guys bothered by waxed/shave pussy texture? it's really scratchy within a day or two. and ingrowns are inevitable when it's consistent like that, way too much effort
>>34003787>aren't guys bothered by waxed/shave pussy texture?Shaved, yes; waxed, no.
>>34003795but then you need to schedule sex with waxing, no? pubes grow quickly. that kind of effort is weird to me, at least. Not denying the appeal of smooth but trimmed is pleasant and practical, even more hygienic. hairs have purpose
>>33995764Seems like a rational and natural fear in today's sexual landscape. I think the (for most, unconscious) reason why people don't want used-up hoes is not jealousy but evolutionary intuition about STDs.Here are some more facts to fuel your fears (toxoplasmosis and more):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fioOj_3ERuMIt seems to affect women more than men though. Man giving oral might increase the risk for man though.
>>33995764>Apparently oral sex is a big thing for a lot of womenStand on your principles, dude.Don't let these lustful roasties brainwash you to partake in this disgusting act
>>34003968it's a great relief "people" like you won't be passing on your genes (unless it's passing them into a tissue going straight into the trash kek)
>>34004126>I must shove things in my mouth because it feels goodI truly pity your children. They are going to live in a really fucked up world.
>>34004395>I don’t eat pussy because… because… because it’s icky!You’re just closed minded is all. I think it’s a recurring theme with a lot of uncles I encounter. They lack the ability to change their mind or try new things.
>>34004421>unclesIncels
>>34000674I lost my virginity at 30 after pretty much not dating at all in my 20s, so it's definitely not too late.
>>34004421I have a freakishly long tongue and used to eat women out constantly, I stopped because Pleasure is not the ultimate definition of existence, and it is a disgusting act. I similarly deny blowjobs because good sex is not an act of dominance or pure carnal pleasure, it's a symbol of intimacy and connection on a spiritual level.The more the world values pleasure over prudence and mature connection, the worse off we become. The world is seriously the biggest piece of shit in the world the more we allow for shitty pleasure acts like this to proliferate, and it's maybe part of the reason why everyone gets divorced, cheats on their partner, or is generally a fucked up piece of shit. You value pleasure, so you endlessly chase pleasure, and the second the pleasure vanishes you don't have the personal skills to have a relationship so you run away and bury yourself in some other pleasure.I would rather have intimate missionary with prolonged eye contact with somebody I love then shoving my or their crotch into our faces and calling it love>But I love that person, why wouldn't I shove their crotch in my face!You're sick in the head, you just don't know it because everyone around you is sick, and has encouraged this sickness in you.Immorality is not moral just because people agree with you.
>>34004454>Its immoral to perform oral sexWhy is that?
>>34004547Because you are shoving an unhygeinic part of somebodies body into your mouth which is an act of dominance or subservience and is not a healthy expression of love, and the only reason you do it is to satisfy your dopamine fixation of pleasuremaxxing, because you don't actually feel love for your partner, you just use them to stratch an itch, and it's the reason why people are all sad and alone these days.Grow up an have missionary like a real man.
>>33995764>i'm gay actor michael penis
>>33995764i ask women if they want me to go down on them and it's about 50/50 which has really shocked me. it's not just me either they say they don't like receiving oral in general. idk why, i never asked.kinda disappointing imo because i really do want to make them feel good and normal penetration just doesn't feel enough. plus then it feels imbalanced because they tend to be fine giving oral.
>>34004454>The world is seriously the biggest piece of shit in the world
>>34004591could be insecurities.if they shave, it's probably prickly and has ingrown hair.the natural tangy scents/tastes, and any visible labia minora (let alone dark bits) are seen as unhygienic or signs of being "blown out".
>>33999273has she said why
>>34007487>"It's the Smell."
>>34008911is it truly smelly? fishy, saccharine, metallic are all signs of inoportune states for eating (and some need medical attention) but tangy, slightly sour, salty, mild musk are safe and yummay.But, it's subjective and depends on discharge too. Be wary of what is abnormal for her rather than relative to other women.I suggest 'cycle awareness' and looking into general female health together. track menstrual phases, discharge types and when, so on. everyone learns and benefits. bit embarrassing or intrusive at first but worth it.
For my ex it was kind of a deal breaker that i wouldnt go down on her, thats how important receiving oral was for her, but idk she was also mentally ill and on multiple meds. Now this woman im currently seeing has absolutely zero interest in receiving head, just loves sucking dick and getting fucked.
>>34008994Ya, I'm just going to avoid all that shit by not sticking my face down there, much easier.
>>34004579>an act of dominance or subservience and is not a healthy expression of loveYou literally described what sex is. You really think I care about the nut only? No, It's what's leading up to the nut that's interesting. I eat my gfs pussy and let her sit on my face and eat her ass, and I feel, I feel like I'm giving, like I'm pleasing.Then when she takes me inside her, I hold her, I lick her face, I kiss her super deep. I hold her head really close to me when I'm fucking her.
>>34009790It's an act of connection, unity. There is some give and take, push and pull, but sodomy extends that action a step too far. I'd rather skip the oral stuff and just focus on the connection part, but modern hedonism necessitates that we fuck eachother in the ass and shit in eachothers mouths, and if you so much as criticize this behavior in any capacity you're the bad guy.Just because you decide to do something doesn't make that action right by virtue of itself, there is an objective baseline of healthy connection, and I think it's fair to say that the more sexual promiscuous and Wild we have become the more dysfunctional and immature we are.Don't put petty pleasures before connection, and if you already have that connection, of what real value is some paltry pursuit of pleasure by comparison?
>>33995764>>one guy on there said he got throat cancer from giving women oral sex too much. Fucking legendary. Peak, even. Everyone should strive for eating this much pussy
One time i gave my gf Strep in her pussy bc I didn't know I was sick in the throat while I was eating her out.
>>34003968>BUT FEEEEMALES BETTER GIVE ME BLOWJOBS!!!!!1!1>>34004579>I just want children to literally physically torture, is that too much to ask?>GOOD SEX IS NOT A HEALTHY EXPRESSION OF LOVE>>34009354>Why wont you have sex with me?>>34009927me and james madison>>34010012THAT CAN HAPPEN???
>>34010118>>I just want children to literally physically torture, is that too much to ask?If children are being tortured, that is because you're too weak to protect them, and instead of protecting them you want to enact a genocidal world ending plan whereby everyone will magically stop having children.But in reality what will happen is that decent people will stop having children, and the people who hurt children will continue to multiply, and you're nihilism is just condemning future peoples to hell.
>>33995764>one guy on there said he got it from giving women oral sex too muchthat one guy was lying
>>34010135>If children are being tortured, that is because you're too weak to protect them. That's your job, not mine. After all, I'm the protector, it's not like I have to protect anybody>everyone will magically stop having children.holy fucking victim. typical natalist. it is both a biblical and scientific fact that humanity will go extinct
>>34010197>it is both a biblical and scientific fact that humanity will go extinctAnyone quick to hasten their own demise is ostensibly a piece of shit.
>>34004579>unhygeinic part of somebodiesHave you never heard of soap?
>>34010204>i know because i feew wike human extinction is bad
>>34010216>Wash my asshole with soap>Ask partner to shove their face in my asshole>Wtf why u no want to shove your face in my asshole?>Wash vagina>Partner asks me to shove their face in their vagina>"Wtf y u no want to shove ur face in my vagina?"Maybe because that's not what those thing were designed for, we weren't meant to shove our faces in areas that are designed for procreation and disposal, and it's disgusting based on the precedent alone. Defiance of nature and the intelligent design of the body is not Sexy to me.
>>34010245>I know because I feew wike human extinction is goodYou watched Evangelion once and suddenly you think you're enlightened.
>>34010255>Designed for>Defiance of nature>intelligent designi'm not a weeb. i was pleasantly surprised to see that im not the only one with such a worldview.
>>33995764Make sure they WASH FIRST
dam op sounds like a pussy ass bitch
>>34010291Fuck off you nihilistic genocidal freak.
>>34000843>negro thinks people are smellyLolwut
>>34010402>having morals and believing in evolution is nihilisticdo u realize that NIHILISTS do not have morals? thats your whole thing
>>34010255Licking your mate's genitals is not some human exclusive degeneracy
>>34009354Very lame and non-subby choice
I gave my girl a toe job and she wound up with athlete's pussy
>>34011305ew xdmaybe for the holidays you should go for a couples' mani-pedi spa day. give her something to smile at (your discomfort and her pretty nails)
dumb casual sex haver problems.commit or celibate.
