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whats the difference between fwbs and a normal relationship?
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>>33995854
Why do you want to know? Second-guessing your abstinence from men?
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Fwb is supposed to have no strings attached.
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>>33995854
one is that you're a friend with benefits and the other is that you're in a relationship.

fwb is exactly that, you go fuck ur friend play video games go home and forget, relationship is you go fuck ur gf, do shit together, sleep and work then repeat
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The difference is commitment. A fwb is only someone you tolerate and occasionally fuck.

A relationship is someone you commit to, someone you just can't go without, someone you madly lust for and wish to protect.

Fwb is a ruse, it's play-pretend, for the people too chicken to be serious and too stuck up to be authentically promiscuous or too cowardly to kick you out after the deed is done.

FWB isn't an actual friend, it's just a fuck buddy.
Relationship is loving someone who is your best friend.
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>>33995856
nope, im second guessing wondering what the difference is

>>33995901
so the difference is that the woman fucks around too?

>>33995913
theyre not actually friends dumbass maybe unless theyre gay
not all relationships "do shit together" there are women who do everything their moid wants

>>33995949
??? but moids never commit to women. moids hate women and cheat at every opportunity.
and moids sure asf dont protect their gfs. in civilized places, the only big threat to a woman is her bf/husband.

>Relationship is loving someone who is your best friend.
moids cant be friends with women, dumbass. moids only feel horniness and fury. moids want nothing to do with women except to rape and beat us. whenever they expect to get away with it, they do.
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>>33995949
ffs moids always consider their gfs/wives to be their greatest enemy. the feeling isnt usually mutual.
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>>33995854
>whats the difference between fwbs and a normal relationship?
FWB is exactly like being friends, except that you also have sex. A relationship is a relationship.
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Why do you like James Madison?
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>>33996279
Yes, the woman fucks around just like you do with another fubu.
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>"I won't read" anon deafeningly silent every time this tranny freak shits up the board
I'm noooticing
>>33996705
It's his autistic fixation
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>>33996785
Are you saying OP is the I won't read poster lol?
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>>33995854
FWB doesn't exist. Everyone has a different idea of what it means, and someone inevitably catches feelings and gets hurt.

It's an attempt at having your cake and eating it too - sex without commitment. It's a fairytale.
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>>33997317
No, but he's probably a simp
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>>33996632
the "friends" part is obv a euphamism, like boy"friend"
moids cannot be friends with women. moids hate women

>>33996705
i genuinely have no idea. he has a nice face and figure, but normally i find old balding moids very unattractive. he's SO HOT and i dont fucking know why

>>33996774
im a virgin jackass. i am not a masochist, i know what moids are like, and im not digging for gold

>>33996785
>>33997317
i swear thats not me :( he strikes me as kind of obnoxious, accuse me of being someone else...
is it possible he filters namefags?
is he even a newfag? obviously i am. do yall think i can act that well?

>>33997340
????? moids use "feelings" as a euphamism for honiness. of course FWBs would be attracted to each other. wtf are you getting at.
moids never commit. you admit that you will all cheat if you have the opportunity
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Love and sex is involved in a normal relationship, but sex and just casualness is in the FWB relationship.
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>>33998201
That depends on the context of the relationship, I don't think you should have sex until you're committed to your partner, otherwise it's just degrading for both of you if the relationship fails and you end up as just another body.
A relationship requires communication and understanding, and the loyalty and commitment to stick to each other to various ends.
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>>33998187
>loyalty, and shared activities, and encouraging eachother to be healthy.
thats what i used to think

>>33998201
but moids use love as a euphemism for sex, because moids cannot feel love
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>>33998211
I feel love for you, Sufemacist-chan. I want to make you happy. I want to be your dog.
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>>33998211
>thats what i used to think
Why'd you stop?

>>33998239
God you are disgusting.
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>>33998210
>I don't think you should have sex until you're committed to your partner
but moids never commit, and moids dump women who dont put out

>A relationship requires communication and understanding
moids dont listen... they just yap about "body language", they dont listen to words. that way they get to claim that women secretly want to be treated like shit.
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>>33998344
>but moids never commit, and moids dump women who dont put out
Like 7 years ago at new years eve I was with a girl who I didn't sleep with, we were sort of dating up to that point, and I'm pretty sure she took it as an insult, pulled back, and stopped talking to me.
Not all men value sex, sometimes we just value the presence of another person.
Body language is bullshit, we both need to learn to communicate more explicitly and stop blaming the opposite sex.
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>>33997340
This and the same holds true triple for open relationships. One partner is being forced to do it with no exceptions
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>>33996279
>woman fucks arlund too
Possible but not necessarily. It can literally just be about sexual outlet. Most women seeking an fwb thats what its about. They dont want to be in a relationship and they want to focus on their own shit but want their pussy ate but dont wanna go through a roulette of dudes at bars. So they find one consistent reliable dude.

Id say we men are more Likely to seek an fwb cause we want that freedom to see others as well.
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>>33998364
Or it's not just a real relationship in the first place.
Open relationships are just single people claiming to be in a relationship without actually doing any of the work a relationship entails.
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>>33998374
No open relationships are when one partner wants to cheat and the internet told them they can and still be a good person if they tell their partner they want an open relationship and gaslight them into thinking theyre selfish and insecure if they dont like it.

Seen this play out mant many times. Like 90% of the time its a chick who doesnt wanna hate herself so she finds a loophole, and a dude whos scared to be alone, and worse, not progressive enough and accused of not caring about the woman he loves' happiness.
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>>33998383
Ya I can generally agree with that, but I've also seen really sex crazed people start a fake relationship for clout when neither of them are loyal.
The hard part about generalities is that women don't like to acknowledge them, so this conversation is pretty much impossible to have with a mentally unhinged foid..
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a fwb is a black girl
a relationship is a white girl
any questions?
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>>33996279
>>33996286
What magical thinking you have, what a silly thing you are c:
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>>33998362
>Not all men value sex, sometimes we just value the presence of another person.
:( por que no los dos
man, i wish moids could value the presence of women, and listen when we communicate explicitly

>>33998383
all moids cheat if they have the opportunity, why should i tolerate that?

>>33998393
how tf am i unhinged? i believe what moids admit about themselves, and i dont want brain damage from being choked. thats about all there is to it.

>>33998437
what is an asian girl?
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>>33998464
>why should i tolerate that?
You shouldn't. You should stay alone forever. Nobody cares.
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>>33998464
>what is an asian girl?
somewhere in between.
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>>33998464
sufemacist. eres hispanohablante? panchito o espaƱol?
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>>33998473
>MUH HORNINESS EPIDEMIC1!11 HOW DARE YOU REFUSE TO PUT OUT, YOU WHORE!!1!11 MUH PROPERTY!!!!1111 MUH RIGHT TO COMMIT RAPE
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>>33998514
A man who literally doesn't want to rape you or use you for sex could walk up to you and you would spaz out and call them a rapist moid, and that's why you're going to remain single.
You are beyond reason.
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>>33998464
The numbers of cheating between males and females is the same, ir isn't all of them, and frankly being a bit older and having seen it a lot happen to others, me, and knowing I myself do not cheat (and I am a moid, thank you) you can easily easily spot who will and who wont.

People take a long time to figure it out. But theres simple patterns In who cheats ane who doesnt. People show you who they are and what to expect from them very quickly. If you get cheated on, know rhe signs were there from the start, and you'll see them.
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>>33998464
Nah you're unhinged and completely off it's pretty pathetic watching you desperately reach for a rung of logic while you fall
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Cope answers as usual. The only difference is that the men in fwbs are all attractive.
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>>33998530
all women have the opportunity to cheat. not all women cheat.
all moids cheat if they have the opportunity. not all moids have the opportunity to cheat.

>>33998540
>i have no argument, so i will just insult you

>>33998563
motherfucker, you just admitted that unattractive moids can get gfs
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>>33998590
It's not your fault
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>>33998590
K well. Hate to blow your theory away but I absolutely have had opportunities to cheat and havent. And since I met my wife I generally dont even have a lifestyle that allows those opportunities to happen by design. And im not weird or different. Anyone with basic understanding of boundaries will act this way.

Again its like half and half for both men and women. Some people just do whayever they think they can get away with. And for some people their own conscience is enough of a warden to keep them in line.
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>>33998607
you are lying. moids plainly admit that they will all cheat if they can. its really that simple
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>>33998614
I would never cheat on you, princess.
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>>33998616
God you're such a pathetic simp

>>33998614
I'm going to insert myself into this conversation the same way you keep doing. I have not ever cheated nor would, despite having plenty of opportunity to do so in my past relationships.
You're just a foid projecting to cover up the fact that you unconsciously would cheat and want to, like all foids, you're no different from the rest of the smelly foids.
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>>33998635
you are just fucking lying. moids never turn down sex. if i wanted to, i could get a moid and cheat on it
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>>33998653
I'm not lying, sorry you think that way but men aren't all evil. If you can't acknowledge that fact that there really isn't helping you, and you're not going to help other women.
You're trying to erode the bonds between men and women, despite the fact that we are biologically hardwired to work together. You hate life, you hate history, and you just want to destroy what you've never had.
For so long as you act this way you will continue to be this way and everyone else will continue to go on living without you. You're not going to stop women from being with men, you're just going to alienate yourself from men and women, and die alone, while everyone forgets your name, and you end up achieving nothing upon this earth.
Have fun you sweaty foid.
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>>33998671
>all men wil commit rape if they think they can get away with it. we just want you to suffer, is that too much to ask?
>men aren't all evil
>You're trying to erode the bonds between men and women
holy shit, just say sex.
>we are biologically hardwired to work together
you admit that you are biologically wired to always do the evilest thing possible.
you constantly whine about how women arent wired to obey you lmfao. choose one.
>you just want to destroy what you've never had
>how can you know that getting lied to and raped and hit and cheated on are bad if its never happened to you?
>For so long as you act this way you will continue to be this way and everyone else will continue to go on living without you
For so long as you act this way you will continue to be this way and everyone else will continue to go on living without you

>You're not going to stop women from being with men
No, you will. moids convinved me, and they will convince the next misandrist.

>you're just going to alienate yourself from monsters who just want to make the world worse
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>>33998704
Keep putting words in my mouth babe, you will always be a bitch. Maybe when you learn to stop projecting you can actually learn how to act like a mature Woman.
If not, I invite you to choke to death on your own period blood you insufferable cunt.
Nobody is going to miss you when you're gone, and the sooner you kill yourself the sooner Men and Women alike will be free of your histrionics.
I digress, good night.
Do yourself a favor and never wake up.
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>>33995854
The difference is that YOU ARE A BIOLOGICAL MALE WITH XY CHROMOSOMES
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>>33998723
sufemacist hater... turn into one of us. Love her. Or him. (I think he's a troon but dont tell her). Join the good side of the story and lovebait them to death.
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I certainly couldn't get away with shitting up the board this aggressively for this long without catching a perma. I wonder why the jannies give this troon a pass?
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>>33998971
Because half of them are also troons while the other half are dumb jeets who think it's really a girl
But yeah I feel you, I hope the jannies get doxxed again and one of them gets killed this time, maybe even that scumbag faggot hiroshimoot
>in minecraft?
NO IN REAL LIFE MOTHERFUCKER
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>>33998994
ZASED
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Well my first fwb called his girlfriend while torturing my clit. It made me cry but at least he was up front about being poly from the start. Miss you Pearce
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>>33998590
Your arguments aren't valid so there is no point to argue with you.

You can't outsmart schizophrenia so you're a waste of effort.
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>>33998874
STOP MAKING SHIT UP ABOUT ME, JEET

>>33998971
just dont say anything mean about any supreme court justices >:(

>>33999197
>i know you're right, so ill just say you're wrong
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>>33997508
>the "friends" part is obv a euphamism,
No it isn't, retard, it's literal. Just because *you* aren't capable of being friends with a woman doesn't mean no one else can be.

t. guy who has had a number of female platonic friends,,and also several female FWBs
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>>34000642
i'm a woman, retard. you're obviously lying. it's common knowledge that moids cannot be friends with women, and deep inside, you know it's because you just want to hurt women.
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Not much.
Relationship might mean more interested in keeping it.

Both revolve around everyone using everyone for sexuality.
And lying about love, and everything else, for "fuck", and other things. Like material things.

Both are just people both using and getting used.
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>>34000194
Post Hand
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>>34004570
yes, im a whale. i dont need to post hand pics
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>>34005690
You're a man whale, a Brazilian half breed man whale.
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>>34005730
so are oakley, husband, ex husband, racist ex husband, and you all the same guy?
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>>33995854
people who specifically want fwbs will be very hostile toward the suggestion of a relationship
>t. spent too long learning this lesson and missed out on a lot of casual sex with cuties in college
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>>34006216
Yes. I'm just hoping you're a White European woman that I can slowly win over through my exceptional charm. I don't mind that you're fat, all we gotta do is hit the gym together and get you on a farm fresh diet.
Then we can have a million babies and smash the patriarchy or whatever the fuck.
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>>34006563
>I don't mind that you're fat, all we gotta do is hit the gym together
do y'all do this on purpose? i get kind of sad when i see moids say things you'd expect women to say, like, "I"m worried my gf is cheating on me", because i wish it was actually possible to please a moid.

i'm white by biracial standards and biracial by white standards, lmfao
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>>34006563
>>34008665
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>>34008665
>biracial by white standards
Just say you're biracial lol
This pretty much confirms that you are in fact from Brazil.
What are you a mix between?
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>>34008671
hater, come get mad that this mf thinks you're a femcel.

>>34008857
im american, faggot. white and black.
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>>34009945
>white and black.
I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe hit up Brittany Venti and try to find some semblance of identity by being around others like you.



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