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How do I break up with my gf?

context: I have been with my gf for the last 2 years now (2nd anniversary earlier this month). In the last 6 months things have deterirated badly. I dont want to be in this relationship anymore. I am not attracted to her, I dont like her, she is controlling and abusive.

I hate it.

Recently I moved back to my university, she goes to a different one 3 hours away. I live somewhere else than last time so I convinced her that my internet is bad as an excuse of why I cant talk to her.

It has worked, my plan of distancing myself physically and verbally has undergone.

The issue is I am still sort of attached. I am 20 years old and we met when I was 18 and she was 17. This is my first serious relationship.

I need to break up with her, but I am a pussy and still have feelings for her, which drag me down.

How do I get rid of this hesitation?
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Tell her we're done and then do a little jig
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>>33996212
>I am a pussy
I won't read weakling threads. Come back when you have a real problem.
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>>33996212
"Hey, there's no easy way to say this and I'm sorry if it hurts to hear right now but I don't want to continue with our relationship. I appreciate ___, ___, and ___ but ___ and ___ have made me realize we want different things and / or have changed as people."
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>>33996212
"I'm breaking up with you"



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