What are the signs your dad hates you?
>>33997003lack of signs that he loves you
>>33997003If he lets you do anything you want, while proactively avoiding spending time with you.
>>33997688shit..
>>33997003When he pretends like he doesn’t.
>>33997688unironically i'd prefer that over sheltering and helicopter parenting
>>33997003When he dismisses your ideas, shows no signs of interest in you, never says he loves you, he doesn't help you with the ladies, he doesn't want the best for you, he insults you, he screams at you, he hits you, he said he never wanted any kids, he treats your siblings better, he never asks how you are, he takes the side of your enemies, he doesn't uplift you, he doesn't listen to you, he insults your friends, he never does you any favors, he makes fun of you, he never gives you any money even though you may actually need it, he never DOES anything with you, he never really TALKS with you about anything unless it's to vent about the latest hysteria on the news, he never rewards you for your accomplishments and efforts, he doesn't give you any life advice, he didn't vet the public school you were forced to attend as a child, he never play ball or any other game with you, he talk shit behind your back, he doesn't want you to do better than him, he shittalks your hobbies and interests, he doesn't want you to be fit, strong, ripped, swole and muscular, he puts on an act when in the presence of other people, he calls you a pussy and weird and "not normal", he never smiles at you, he never builds any relationship with you, he laughs at you when you confront him and his actions, he says you're exactly like your grandfather whom he hates, when he basically never reared you, he never teaches you ANYTHING about money except that it's bad and it makes him angry, he teaches you to hate, to be angry and bitter about everything, he didn't prepare you for real life, he instilled fallacies, a sour-grapes mentality and self-sabotaging & self-destructive mindsets into you since you were a baby, when he hates seeing you succeed, when he prefers to listen to the TV than to you, when he wants nothing to do with you, he sends you to places you don't want to go like to because it's painful like the boyscouts or the military, when you two just can't get along ever.
>>34000250Ask a therapist which of the two is more damaging. You will get a definitive answer.
>>33997003>What are the signs your dad hates you?I've seen my dad ~3 times in my life, what do I know about this shit?
>>33997003He does meth and doesn't pay child support.Fuck you dad I wish I pissed on your grave.
>>34002312>I wish I pissed on your grave.What's stopping you?
>>34004667A 3 hour plane trip and a 2 hour drive after that. He's dead and I try not to think about him anymore. Letting him fade from the memory of his only son is revenge enough for me.
>>34004683Gotcha.
