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What’s the kindest way to ask my bf to lose weight?

He’s gained 25lbs in the year we’ve been together, because of stress due to work. We’re both 26
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>>33997019
call him a fat loser and punch him in the liver
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>>33997019
tell him you wanna learn how to cook new shit and go on a diet
then only give him healthy food that is relatively high fat and low calories (fats for satiety)
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>>33997019
Sex burns lots of calories
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just be honest and say you prefer them skinny and want to work on fasting together.
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>>33997019
Start homecooking his food for him, no processed or premade shit, just simple ingredients that you can count on one hand. Give him the food and he has no excuse to waste money eating anything else.
Like if work is kicking his ass then he probably doesn't have time to hit the gym, and he might even be eating out a lot or getting trash tier processed instant foods. He'll naturally lose weight without even hardly trying, if you just feed him decent food that doesn't have maltodextrin and shit in it.
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>>33997019
tell him he gained so much fat he squeezes you when you have sex and it hurts
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just saying it straight up would be kinder than beating around the bush
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>>33997019
Tell him he looks like brendan fraser but only from The Whale
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>>33997228
>>33997216
He’s extremely sensitive for a guy, a coworker (guy) told him he gained weight a bit and he called out of work for that day

It’s insane how careful it has to be
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>>33997237
u sure you're not lesbian?
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Only have sex with him every 10lb loss
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>>33997019
>What’s the kindest way to ask my bf to lose weight?
Men don't care about kind
Just say "Honey, you've gained a lot of weight this past year, I'm concerned for your health and frankly it's making me less attracted to you. I want you to lose some weight or I'm not sure where this relationship is going"
I really wish my ex had told me this straight up and had given me that ultimatum instead of becoming more and more avoidant until she left me for her coworker.
>>33997237
Ok so you don't have a man then. Leave that boy-woman and go git yourself a real man.
I'd complain that once again the absolute worst weakest losers somehow get GFs while I can't, but let's face it you're probably dog ugly anyway.



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