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So I met this girl in a program I just joined. She’s shy, autistic, gets overwhelmed easily, and doesn’t really talk much to anyone. she talks to me sometimes smiles at me, waves in the morning, makes eye contact, and we’ve had a few small conversations about cats, volunteering, shows, etc. I even gave her a cute animal badge and she smiled, tried to give it back, but I insisted she keep it.

The problem is I’ve caught feelings hard, constantly thinking about her type of feelings. And because she’s so quiet and keeps to herself, I can’t tell if she likes me back or is just being polite.

There are mixed signals everywhere.
Sometimes she seems comfortable around me, sometimes she sits somewhere else or leaves early. She didn’t come with me to a bookstore I invited her to (she said her dad was waiting). She also hasn’t texted me even though I gave her my number.

Any advice from people who are autistic or have dated someone autistic would help a lot.
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>>33997218
>sometimes she sits somewhere else or leaves early.
how often? does she act normal in these days?
>She didn’t come with me to a bookstore I invited her to
how was the interaction exactly?
>She also hasn’t texted me even though I gave her my number.
did u text her first?

kinda hard to give an answer with the info u gave
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>>33997218
she has a bf
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>>33997264
>how often? does she act normal in these days?
she smokes a lot like 3-4 times a day
>how was the interaction exactly?
i asked her throughout the week but she wasn't sure, i asked friday after class to make sure but she didn't come
>did u text her first?
i gave her my number
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>>33997218
wait for a while, i have no idea why zoomers are so impatient
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>>33997218
noooooo she deserves better!!!!
before i knew that moids were evil, i thought an autistic bf would be based... BECAUSE I HOPED THEYD LISTEN TO WORDS INSTEAD OF "BODY LANGUAGE" BULLSHIT!1!!

turns out, all moids will justify any mistreatment by saying "she secretly wanted it1!11!!"
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>>33997645
please end with your shitty ass fakecel life
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>>33997645
The cries of a lonely femcel, it doesn't have to be this way sufemacist.
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Observe the behavior she has with you with everyone else. If she is putting you above say some random asshole who makes fun of you, she likes you. If however she is consistently flirting with everyone where you get the hug, but everyone else the kiss... It's something different. You got to know if you are at a high level with her.
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>>33997218
Take your time. Become friends, then good friends, and then a couple



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