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Hi anons. I've been seeing a certain woman, and could definitely use some advice. Some context:

When we initially matched on a dating app around two years ago (I was 26, her 20) and have been seeing each other since then. She did admit she's a virgin, and I could tell she was being truthful because our first time together seemed quite painful to her.

This is where things kind of go south, as I made the selfish choice of cheating one day, and she found out. This cycle of cheating (by me, and her finding out, asshole behavior, I know..) sort of kept going on, as I found myself always reaching out to other women.

This kept going on and on, as we would get back together, I would start talking to other women, and she would come back. It even got to the point where she said she's fine with a friends-with-benefits situation.

While she seems like a good woman, as she cooks food for me, gives gifts, etc, sometimes I don't feel attracted to her face. While I'm not the best-looking man in the world, women do find ways to approach me, and have been called handsome quite often.

My questions are:
Why do I keep stepping out and talking to other women, when she seems like wife material?

Am I a sex addict or something? Is it because I don't find her too attractive?

Have dating apps screwed me up permanently?

Should I attempt to fix the relationship and stay with her, or let her go peacefully?


Any advice is appreciated.
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>>33997558
doesnt matter when all women are going to be fucking horrible when they hit their 40s-50s. Better secure yourself with an ugly faced but wife material woman than being from hole to hole.
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>>33997558
Wow you're a shitty boyfriend. Literally my dream to be in your position. Let me not just vent though.

>Why do I keep stepping out and talking to other women, when she seems like wife material?
>Am I a sex addict or something? Is it because I don't find her attractive?
>Have dating apps screwed me up permanently?
I don't think anyone can answer these besides yourself. You say you don't find her attractive which probably doesn't help but I'd guess you're just not made for a long term monogamous relationship.

>Should I attempt to fix the relationship and stay with her, or let her go peacefully?
If you think you can become better, sure. Otherwise I don't know. Definitely let her go if she decides she's had enough though.
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>>33997558
First piece of advice: don't listen to woman-hating faggots like this: >>33997573 who haven't had a full on conversation with a woman since high school 20 years ago.
>Why do I keep stepping out and talking to other women, when she seems like wife material?
Because you find some sort of value in it. How the fuck am I supposed to read your mind? This is like asking "why do I like the taste of jalapenos on my pizza". These are bullshit questions. I'm done because this is clearly an energy trap thread.
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>>33997619
did i lie nigga
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>>33997619
>don't listen to woman-hating faggots
Go. Back.



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