Hi, I had a bad feeling about this, and I could really use advice from someone else's perspective. I met the older person in an AA meeting when I used to go there, and we hit it off great, I thought she was a really cool friend on mine, just a bit weird because it felt very sexual in nature but it just felt normal after a while. I say that because she keeps wanting to touch me and get into bed with me. I thought I was okay because I told her that I have a boyfriend now, and I don't want to continue with sexual behaviors because me and him are monogamous. We used to play a lot of board games together because it's a niche I like and we both share an interest in, and cook sometimes. She would be smoking a lot of ciggs and devil lettuce and she would always give me some too. A few months back she gave me some shrooms and we tripped out a few times. Anyways she would try to push me to do these things such as touch her or cuddle with her, texting me how grateful she is for me and how she misses me and thinks of me most nights consequetively. I really enjoyed when we hung out and it was fun for a while, but then she started talking bad about my boyfriend, she called him possessive, has OCD, and warned me to be careful and that she thinks he's not safe for me.Anyways enough context, the main problem that I need advice on is that I think she's kinda ugly and I really do not want to have sex with her, or do anything sexual, I really like her as a friend, but she tried to kiss me last week when we hung out. I think she keeps pushing me to do get naked together, and she gets me high a lot. It just feels weird and I feel dirty, I thought only women and kids get groomed- at least sexually. She's been blowing up my phone and texting, she just called right now as I type this, I need this to stop and for it to end.I really don't know what to do and I could use some guidance.
I'm so sorry, her behavior sounds unacceptable, very pushy and coercive. if you don't want to do anything like that with her she should respect it and stop. Anyone can get groomed, it doesn't work only one way. The way she keeps trying to get naked together, kiss you... truly worrisome.I'd really recommend to block her and stay away from her, is it possible? I wish you well op
>shit that never happened award
>>33998147I really think it's funny that you can't keep track of whether your "friend" in this story is male or female.