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I'm just coming to terms with the fact that I'll probably fail most of my classes this semester because I have extreme avoidant tendencies and can't envision myself functioning in any sort of academic or corporate setting. Can't drop out tho because I hate interacting with stupid people or normies and job market treats you like dirt without degree.
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>>33999412
just work. whatever happens you will be a slave, but you'd rather be a rich slave than a poor one. so get a degree.
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>>33999412
>Self loathing
>Self fulfilling prophecy (which will reinforce self loathing)
>Self sabotaging (to ensure the [negative] prophecy is, indeed, fulfilled, which in turn will reinforce the aforementioned self loathing)
>Superiority complex (to create a false dichotomy [me vs. the world/normies] causing further isolation, loneliness, avoidance, that, as you already have guessed, will reinforce the self loathing)
Woah, you're like the quintessential 4channer. Keep up the good work, buddy. You're not wasting your life as a bitter loner at all.
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>>33999412
”because I have extreme avoidant tendencies”

You don’t ”have avoidant tendencies”. You are avoiding things. Schizo ponder on this as long as needed until you get it.
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>>33999412
I love this genre of thread.
>I know exactly what's wrong with my thinking and situation but I refuse to do anything about it, what do?

Stop acting like you don't have agency. If you were serious about functioning, you'd function. If you can't, you should probably connect with a doctor and not 4chan.
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>>33999412
>>How to operate in world as schizoid?
Learn to manage your behavior.
>>because I hate interacting with [...] people
you're going to have to get over this asap.
>>probably
you get out what you put in and utilizing this word indicates less than requisite effort.
>>I have extreme avoidant tendencies
Do you really want success and are you going all in with your effort in order to achieve it? Claiming to be a schizoid does not remove the burden of the ruleset from your participation in the game, anon.
>>can't envision myself functioning in any sort of academic or corporate setting.
We all must obey and play. Go to advice or r/outside and learn the how your behaviors should align to the basic structure of the game of life as others have aligned to it then see where your path branches from everyone elses and find a role-model who has walked your path before and follow their lead. People have made the most of your situation you have locate their success and find and copy their blueprint. Good luck anon seek knowledge and be willing to try things. You are schizoid this should all make sense don't let trepidation stop you.
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>>33999412
stop being dramatic

you're just lazy and not a schizophrenic psycho

toughen up and get your shit done
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>>33999868
"schizoid" is not "schizophrenic", dumbass.
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Make the most out of what you have to make yourself do well in your courses. Maybe you'll get a decent D.
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>>33999412
You could get a remote work job that requires no direct personal contact. That's what I did, and it's working out so far.
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You better start building some discipline and autonomy or you'll end up like this guy is just met at the local appliance store; mid-30s, bald, playing DC themed deck building games at friendsgiving (idk wtf this is but why you ever mention this irl).
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>>34001395
Im like that now except I work in software.
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>>34001395
>bald
RetardAnon-kun... I don't think you can discipline back your hairline



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