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>will forever ask myself what could have been if i had messaged her
>can't message her now because i have too much mental stake in it at this point and too much time has passed, wouldn't be able to talk to her unless she felt the exact same way about me, scared of finding out we're not compatible, scared of finding out she never ever gave a shit about me
can i get over this? she was my most realistic shot at forming a connection with a woman in 15 years, but it could all be in my head due to total loneliness making me see things that aren't there
some guy on youtube who specializes in limerence says it's a mistake to try to get closure by asking (honestly don't understand this)
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>>33999711
EVERYBODY has "what if?" stories. Just accept it and move on.
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>>33999908
i'm over 30 and this might have been the last opportunity in a long time, perhaps ever if i kms before 40 (lots of similarities with this person)



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