After 7–8 months of no contact, my ex suddenly called me on my birthday, sent sweet messages, and acted super warm. She hinted that she had “things to say,” so I thought maybe she wanted to actually talk.But since then, it’s been nothing but mixed signals. She gives vague life updates, disappears for days, and never says what she actually wants. A whole month of this, and there’s still no clarity.Honestly, it feels like she doesn’t even know why she reached out. I’m tired of trying to read between the lines. I was finally moving on (I’m even dating someone else), but this still messes with my head.What does she want, and why now? What advice can you give me ?
>>34000675>What does she want, and why now?How the fuck should we know? Ask her.
>>34000675whatever it is, its best to just block her. going back to her will always bring back issues. seeing as shes struggling to even ask you out then id assume shes not even close to ready for a relationship
>>34000675>Hey can you guys mind read a person you don't know for me?No
That's a rude thing to do to you on your birthday.This may be incorrect. It seems she was looking for sex on your birthday, and maybe to see if your life was going well, to compare her own to yours. And like she may have wanted to sabotage your birthday.She may have wanted to hear you didn't have anyone, you didn't move on happily, et cetera.Because human beings are awful and selfish.And they easily lie about it, and easily never tell the truth about it, or anything, and everything.
>>34000675she just happened to break up with chad on your birthday and wants you to give her attention (possibly money as well)she doesn't want to get back with you
>>34000675It sounds like she can’t make up her mind about whether or not she wants to get in contact with you. She gets ideas in her head about reuniting with you and then a few hours later she has regrets and goes silent.
