>be me, 25 M>going to college and working part-time.>ignore any prospects of a love life, rely on usual cope of doing it later when I start working out and make myself more appealing.>girl at my job starts trying to talk to me, I keep an indifferent attitude to her since I assume by default I have no chance.>she eventually convinces me to give her my number under the pretense of work.>instead of realizing it 20 years later while on the toilet, I figure she might be into me, so I decide to go for it and ask her out.>first time going on a date with a girl, seems to go well as we end up holding hands as we walk around together.>after nearly the whole day, we find somewhere private, I go in for a kiss and she accepts. (First time kissing a girl)>we go to her car, drive to an empty place and start making out.>before it escalates, she suddenly stops me and tells me she has to confess some things before we can continue.>she's convinced it's going to turn me off completely, we spend what felt like hours sitting there, me giving her time to work up the courage.>big reveal is that she's 33 years old.>then she also tells me that she tested positive for HSV-1 on her genitals, but her last break out was nine years ago.>tell her I'm fine with both of those things, and give her my virginity right then and there.I want to believe she's the right person, as she was honest about telling me everything before we fucked. Even now she's always making sure to take my schedule into consideration. She even ended up going with me when I told her I was planning on getting tested for HSV-1 a week after we did it. I've only heard nightmares about dating in my generation so I figure I might as well cut to the chase and hagmaxx. What I'm worried about is that I'm being an impressionable dumbass because this is the first relationship I've ever been in. What sort of red flags do I need to watch out for given the difference in experience between us?
>>34000778They are all the same.
>>34000778At her age you have no prospects of starting a family with her. By the time you can afford it she'll be 40 and medically geriatric>HSV-1Eh honestly not the worst. HSV-1 is usually oral herpes and it doesn't "like" being on genitals. If you do catch it you'll probably be like her, have one outbreak and then the virus will be dormant. HSV-2 seems like hell>t. negative for both but did a lot of research during a scare
