>be me>mid 20s>always been shut in, barely ever partied or did crazy shit >have massive FOMO>start solo traveling >be staying in major city, decide to walk around in the evening to experience the nightlife>bounce around going in and out of different bars or clubs>just look around, see all the people chatting and having fun, don't talk to anyone because they're all busy with their own groups already, and leave>go back to hotel alone >rinse and repeat in the next cityGenuinely I don't fucking get how normies do it? Are you really only supposed to go to these places with a pre-established date or group? Going there when you don't know anybody feels autistic and retarded. How the fuck do I become a normie?
Gotta break that ice, anon.You'll learn to become more frank and differentiate who's alright and who's a fuckwad and won't put up with disrespectful shits anymore and instead figuratively spit on them, but you learn all that overtime once you've collected and synthesised the data, which starts at breaking that ice
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>>34001416>shut in, barely ever partied or did crazy shit going out solo to bars/clubs and meeting people is equivalent to being an expert at this game you admittedly suck atwhat did you expectstart by going out with friends, dates, coworkers, relatives, etc. once you get a social / night life going you'll get a better picture.
>>34004138I can go out with other people I know.The problem is going out alone
>>34001416are you a grill?>wear some tight revealing cloth>wear glassesmen will talk to you
>>34001416Go to a bar with a TV playing. Comment on the sports or news on the TV. Instant conversation.
>>34001416Vodka
>>34004156If I was a girl, you think I'd have this problem?And what do glasses have to do with anything?
>>34001416Let’s be frank, people who go to the club or bar alone are weirdIt just looks desperate and awkward, and I feel exactly like that when I am in their shoesGo to a hostel and try to hit it off with people there, they generally are young and down to party
>>34001416>go to the dance club>dance>when a girl makes eye contact more than just a glance you go up to her or if you are too pussy wait for a 2nd eye contact for confirmation >dance a bit and get closer>make out a little while dancing>after ask her name and say she's cute with a smirk then kiss again>grab her hand and go to the side to rest>chat a bit make out more etc>go get a drink or dance more or kiss more>at the end of the night invite her over (sex)Literally that easy.
>>34005137>dance club>eye contactIn my experience you can stare at someone for a solid ten minutes and they won't notice a thing. People are drunk and barely pay attention to their surroundings.
>>34004342i dont think op was asking for advice on how to talk about sports with boomers
>>34001416try to find something closer to your own lifestyle and interests that is still social, rather than trying to skinwalk as a club normie.
