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we're literally the exact same except he's really fucking stupid. i guess this is kinda my fault for being in a wmaf relationship, lol. i did really well in school but he did not. he absolutely flunked school. i didn't care thaaaatt much when i found out because he must be good at other stuff, right? not really except gaming :( and i dont even game that much, so it's pretty hard to relate on that level. sometimes i just want to be productive but he doesn't want to join in. he can't do basic math (i'm talking about addition and subtraction without using fingers, and if the number's too big, he just gives up) or use proper punctuation (he does not know how to use commas or periods). i feel so sad and hopeless. i'm not going to break up with him but i feel really trapped. i like teaching people niche stuff but i can't just re-teach him the entire school curriculum!! he doesn't even enjoy learning either.
but we do share all other interests, i swear!!!!! i'm just feeling lost and helpless on his behalf. :(
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>>34004086
He’s probably not as dumb as you think. Asian women in general have this thing where if you can’t answer whatever insane bullshit question they ask, or if you’re ever wrong a single time, you’re automatically a retard in their eyes.

The problem is almost surely you. You’re also probably a lot dumber than you think.

Just some food for thought.
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>>34004134
pure demoralization bait bullshit. op, your man is probably stupid, the only other possibility is that he pretends to be stupid so you do everything for him. inept men are worthless losers, go find a man who isn't addicted to video games.
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>>34004086
His problem is not stupidity - it is lack of motivation. He doesn't see any point in improving himself and so doesn't bother.

And that will very quickly become YOUR problem, because you DO have ambitions and high standards for yourself. It is inevitable that either he will come to see you as a nag or you will see him as a burden.
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>>34004086
Kek chad can be retarded and still fuck prime pussy. Its over.
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>>34004134
>He’s probably not as dumb as you think.
he isn't incredibly retarded but he's pretty close to it, but it mainly stands out when we're texting or doing anything that involves common sense.
>if you can’t answer whatever insane bullshit question they ask, or if you’re ever wrong a single time, you’re automatically a retard in their eyes.
he's wrong literally every single time, though. e.g. we're at the grocery store and he wants snacks so i offer to pay. i ask how much the total is and he can't even mentally add up the total of his items, but he can perfectly remember the price of each item. i just don't get how some people are this far gone.
>>34004191
>he pretends to be stupid so you do everything for him.
he isn't smart enough for this. maybe he is, but i don't think so.
>go find a man who isn't addicted to video games.
i don't really break up with people unless they give me a legit reason to break up with them. even if he stays retarded this entire relationship, i'll probably just end up acting like a caretaker for him.
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>>34004086
Are you sure you aren't just too dumb to notice that he isn't the dumb one in your relationship?
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>>34004487
yeah, i'm pretty sure. there is pretty much no way in hell he's faking it. his entire family is fucking retarded. i just hope i can save him.
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>>34004086
Its incredible how conceited midwit women are. "I did well in school"
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>>34004485
>i ask how much the total is and he can't even mentally add up the total of his items, but he can perfectly remember the price of each item
Sounds like he's just lazy, I wouldn't do that either.
Maybe you can have him do an online IQ test, like the Norwegian mensa test.
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>>34004086
>i did well in school
lmao
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>>34004485
>i'll probably just end up acting like a caretaker for him.
then congrats, you are IQmatched
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>>34004315
>wmaf
>Chad
i guess you haven't been outside the last 30 years
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>>34004086
>my fault for being in a wmaf relationship

What does race have to do with this? Bringing up race is equally as absurd as not knowing basic maths without your fingers. It's also math, not maths, you pseudo-intellectual. You've willingly entered a relationship with a man who clearly isn't very bright. How long into the relationship did you find this out?

>or use proper punctuation (he does not know how to use commas or periods).
>we're literally the exact same except he's really fucking stupid.
nice run on sentence
>9 x missing capitalisation
>dont
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>>34005222
>What does race have to do with this?
Genuine question, do you know what website you're on?
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>>34005232
Yes, I know what website I'm on. The site's culture may explain why the topic of race was raised, but it does not justify its logical or ethical relevance to the discussion at hand. If the argument cannot withstand the simple Socratic inquiry, 'What is the connection?', then it is not a genuine argument; it is merely an appeal to the platform's prejudice.

Genuine question, are you rage-baiting or just stupid?
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>>34005238
>we're literally the exact same except he's really fucking stupid. i guess this is kinda my fault for being in a wmaf relationship, lol. i did really well in school but he did not. he absolutely flunked school.
Yeah cuz you're the ugly ass Asian overcompensating for your lack in everything else through getting high ass grades. You're not smart, far from it. All fake accolades acquired from retarded rote memorisation of useless information because you can't get your self worth anywhere else

>i didn't care thaaaatt much when i found out because he must be good at other stuff, right? not really except gaming :( and i dont even game that much, so it's pretty hard to relate on that level. sometimes i just want to be productive but he doesn't want to join in.
What on earth were you expecting him to be good at? Juggling weirdly shaped objects in the air or Scandinavian donut making or Mongolian basket weaving fishing or ??

>he can't do basic math (i'm talking about addition and subtraction without using fingers, and if the number's too big, he just gives up)
Nek minnit your idea of basic math is like 5736 + 75973 in typical Asian tutoring cram school fashion

> or use proper punctuation (he does not know how to use commas or periods).
Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn't care to use those in day-to-day casual text conversation?

>he doesn't even enjoy learning either.
It sounds like you just want to teach him useless information to "sound" smart and nothing actually useful in life

>but we do share all other interests, i swear!!!!! i'm just feeling lost and helpless on his behalf. :(
Don't tell me it's anime or Starbucks or hiking or some shit
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>>34005238
>>34004086
Forgot I replied to this instead of OP, anyway yeah it's low-key race-bait but I think OP is also genuinely retarded like that
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>>34004086
you can book iq tests together if you want, in my country mensa offer them for 70 dollars a pop. look at the 'culture fair' test. this should reveal the raw processing power without having to look at bullshit metrics like school etc that depend more on effort than iq. it is possible that your bf isn't dumb but just depressed and/or doesn't care. i have a neet weeb friend who i thought was stupid because he is the most inane person i have ever met but whenever we play chess he utterly dominates me for example.
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>>34004086
>or use proper punctuation (he does not know how to use commas or periods).
You mean, he doesn't know that it is essential to use an upper case letter at the start of each sentence? That kind of thing?
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>>34005727
i just wasted 8 minutes of my life for that test. this is total bullshit, if youre smarter than a monkey you'll get a full score. any iq online tests are shit
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>>34005822
falling for a online IQ test already puts you at the lower end of the bell curve, MENSA IQ tests are hours long and in person, sometimes over a few days. retard.
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>>34005867
i wasted 8 minutes of life but i didnt waste hours plus money on a real one which would change nothing in my life anyway retard
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>>34005874
The fact you even bothered to do an 8 minute online IQ test speaks volumes.
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>>34005222
>>34005783
you're all being dense on purpose and missing the point. i know my bf well enough to say that he's fucking retarded.
>>34005571
>Have you ever thought that maybe he doesn't care to use those in day-to-day casual text conversation?
i've literally read this school essays. no, he has literally no literacy skills.
>>34005727
>you can book iq tests together if you want
i've done one professionally before. iq of 135, baby!!!!!
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>>34005899
>IQ of 135
actively types and portrays themselves as essentially retarded then lies about their IQ test score.

Look if you have a Mensa certificate with an IQ of 135 I'll eat my hat.
I'm not saying it's impossible but to be smarter than 99 people in a room of 100 is obviously rare and based on the way you're typing and asking for advice there is not a chance that you have 135 IQ.
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>>34005922
yeah the op is a retard and probably baiting
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>>34005899
>you're all being dense on purpose
No, I'm simply pointing out that you're a hypocrite. You are unable to use correct punctuation; so why are you giving him a hard time for not being able to do something you can't do yourself?
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>>34005922
i've never bothered to join mensa. i do have my results digitally, but of course, none of you will believe me.
>>34005938
>You are unable to use correct punctuation; so why are you giving him a hard time for not being able to do something you can't do yourself?
i don't use proper punctuation when i'm online. you guys do not deserve my effort. he, however, cannot use any punctuation, even when it matters.
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>>34004086
This guy gets you to do all the work while he just plays video games? And if your nagging gets bad he just needs to threaten to break up and you'll likely apologize. He sounds like a genius to me.
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>>34004086
Dating basic white moids is what whores like you do. Asian women are easy for a reason after all. He could be fat and you would still fuck him because he is white.literally a race of pick mes.
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>>34005899
>i've done one professionally before. iq of 135, baby!!!!!
culture fair at SD 15? nice. but at that IQ only like 2% of men would be able to match you processing power wise anyway. not to mention other issues of compatibility. so you'd need to not get your hopes up too highly, i suppose.



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